Don't Make Me Over
Trijntje Oosterhuis Lyrics


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I need you
I need you
Don't, don't, don't don't make me
Don't, don't, don't don't make me
Don't, don't, don't don't make me
Don't, don't, don't don't make me

Don't make me over
Now that you know how I adore you

Don't make me over
Now that I'd do anything for you
Don't make me over
Now that you know how I adore you

Don't pick on the things I say, the things I do
Just love me with all my faults, the way I love you
I'm begging you

Don't make me over
Now that I can't make it without you (i need you so)
Don't make me over (can't you do me)
I wouldn't change one thing about you

Just take me inside your arms, and hold me tight
I'll always be by your side, when if you wrong or right
I'm begging you

Don't make me over (don't make me over)
Now that I'd do anything for you (I love so)
Don't make me over
Don't change, don't change don't change
Now that you know how I adore you
Don't make me over
Don't make me over
Now that you've got me at your command

Accept me for what I am
Accept me for the things that I do
Accept me for what I am
Accept me for the things that I do





Don't make me over

Overall Meaning

Trijntje Oosterhuis's song "Don't Make Me Over" is about a person pleading with their lover not to change them. The repetition of "don't make me" throughout the song emphasizes the desperation and urgency of the plea. The chorus is an earnest request to the lover not to make any changes because now that they know how much the person adores them, the person doesn't want to lose them. The person is willing to do anything for their lover, and they ask to be accepted for who they are, faults and all.


The song's message is relatable and universal because it speaks to the fear of losing someone you love. The fear of being changed or transformed into someone you're not is a common fear in relationships. People are often afraid to be their true selves out of fear of rejection, but this song encourages listeners to embrace who they are and to ask their partners to do the same.


The song's lyrics were written by Burt Bacharach and Hal David and were first recorded in 1962 by Dionne Warwick. Since then, the song has been covered by various artists, including Isaac Hayes and Aretha Franklin. Trijntje Oosterhuis's version was released in 2006 and was included on her album "The Look of Love: Burt Bacharach Songbook."


Line by Line Meaning

I need you
I depend on you for my emotional support.


Don't, don't, don't don't make me
Don't force me to change who I am.


Don't make me over
Don't criticize or alter my personality, behavior or appearance.


Now that you know how I adore you
Since you're aware of my love for you, don't take advantage of that by imposing your preferences onto me.


Now that I'd do anything for you
Knowing that I'd go to great lengths to please you, don't use that as an excuse to exert control over me.


Don't pick on the things I say, the things I do
Don't nag or criticize me for my actions or opinions.


Just love me with all my faults, the way I love you
Instead, love and accept me despite my flaws, just like how I accept and love you as you are.


Now that I can't make it without you (i need you so)
Since I'm emotionally dependent on you, please don't make it harder for me by imposing changes on me.


I wouldn't change one thing about you
I love and accept you unconditionally.


Just take me inside your arms, and hold me tight
Instead of criticizing me or changing me, show me affection and understanding.


I'm begging you
I'm imploring you to respect my individuality and autonomy.


Don't change, don't change don't change
Again, please don't try to force me into being someone I'm not.


Now that you've got me at your command
Since you have some degree of control over me due to my emotional attachment to you, please don't misuse that power for manipulation or coercion.


Accept me for what I am
Ultimately, I'm asking for acceptance and respect of my true self.


Accept me for the things that I do
This includes all of my actions, opinions, and behaviors, even if they may not be perfect or conform to your standards.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Burt Bacharach, Hal David

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