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V.I.C Lyrics

I just feel like you never respect me
I feel like you constantly disregard and undervalue me.

When has ignorance ever been sexy?
Being unaware and ignorant has never been attractive or desirable.

Said it’s all about talking our feelings but if you would listen I’ll tell you what vexs me
You claim that communication is important, but if you actually listened, I would express what bothers me and frustrates me.

I don’t feel like you know me for real like
I don't believe that you truly understand who I am as a person.

Only dating the size that my legs be
You only seem interested in me based on my physical appearance, specifically the size of my legs.

When I talk to my girls they’ve been saying we’re meant to be closer we’re meant to be besties.
My female friends have been suggesting that you and I should have a closer, more intimate connection like best friends.

They know me
My female friends have a deep understanding of who I am.

You don’t
You lack that understanding of who I truly am.

They try but
Even though they try to understand me, they can only do so much.

You won’t
You are unwilling to put in the effort to truly know me.

You been giving a lot of your time to the boys but you hate when I say you forgot me
You often prioritize spending time with your male friends, yet you become upset when I express that I feel neglected or overlooked.

If I asked you the day that we met, would you know when we met without using a proxy
If I were to ask you the exact day we first met, would you remember it without relying on someone else's assistance or information?

When you told me you rated the sass but the second I fell you were hating the moxie
You claimed to appreciate my confident attitude, but the moment I showed vulnerability or weakness, you started disliking my boldness and spirit.

You’re saying that I’m hard to handle
You're accusing me of being difficult to deal with.

Real men love the stretch and handles
Truly mature and genuine men appreciate and embrace a person's imperfections and challenges.

Never tell me how my body should look if you’ve never done a day in my feminine sandals
You should never dictate or criticize how my body should appear if you haven't experienced the pressures or expectations placed upon women first-hand.

And you hate when I’m out with the girls 'cause you know there are men setting better examples
You despise it when I spend time with my female friends because you fear that there are other men who serve as better role models and influences for me.

And I hate when you’re out with the boys 'cause I know that your boys will be checking for samples
I detest it when you hang out with your male friends because I am aware that they will be interested in pursuing other women and testing the waters.

Yes, I could be Salty but I don’t need that to stress me out
While I have the capacity to be resentful, I don't require that negativity to cause me distress.

Guess you probably think I need you
I suppose you believe that I am dependent on you.

Boy I could do sick without
Boy, I can manage perfectly fine without you.

You don’t look the same I’ve got somethings to think about
You have changed, and this has given me reason to reflect and consider certain matters.

Yeah you tell me how you feel
You express your emotions to me.

Your actions seem to fuel the doubt but
However, your actions only contribute to my uncertainty.

I do know one thing though
But I know one thing for certain

You men you come you go
Men, they enter and leave relationships

Saturday through Sunday Monday
They do so consistently, starting from Saturday to Sunday and continuing into Monday

Monday through Sunday yo
And this cycle repeats from Monday through Sunday, emphasizing how their behavior is unchanging

Maybe I’ll love you one day
Perhaps, in the future, I will develop love for you

Maybe we’ll someday grow
Possibly, at some point, we will both mature and develop together

Putting all my feelings on this paper, hope you read this
I am expressing my deepest emotions through this written piece, hoping that you take the time to read and understand it.

I’ve been giving a lot from the second I met you, it seems like it’s never enough though
Since the moment I met you, I have been giving a great deal of effort and resources, yet it never appears to be sufficient in your eyes.

All the hours I worked for the clothes on your back, and I did it with nothing but gusto
I dedicated countless hours of work to provide you with the garments you wear, and I did so with great enthusiasm and determination.

See I gotta be there for your needs, make time for mine, and then hold my family
I am obligated to fulfill your desires, while also carving out time for my own needs, and at the same time, taking care of my family.

Got back to the plates in the sink, so pardon me if sometimes I get angry
I still have tasks to attend to, such as cleaning the dirty dishes in the sink, so please understand that there are occasions where I might feel frustrated or annoyed.

And I wanna be left on my own sometimes, somehow that means I hate you
Occasionally, I desire solitude, although you interpret it as me despising you.

Spent a little downtime outside and yours, somehow thinking I’m unfaithful
When I spend a short amount of leisure time outside of our relationship, you manage to suspect me of being unfaithful.

Say I shouldn’t go out with the boys, but you’re gonna get pissed if I turn this table
You insist that I shouldn't spend time with my male friends, but if I were to suggest the same about you and your female friends, you would become angry.

And you think I don’t hear you talk on the phone to your girls, tryna act like angels
You believe that I am oblivious to the conversations you have with your female friends, pretending to be innocent and virtuous.

Yes, saying I should be taller
Yes, you frequently criticize my height, suggesting that I should be taller.

You’re jealous she's dating a baller
You feel envious because she is in a relationship with someone prosperous and successful.

You’re saying you should’ve just stayed with your ex 'cause I know that you wanted a lawyer
You mention how you should have remained with your previous partner because, deep down, you desired someone who pursued a career in law.

But you wanna get mad 'cause of days in the past, I was chilling with somebody’s daughter
However, you become furious over incidents that occurred in the past when I spent time with someone else's daughter.

Still bringing up things that we left in the past, like a broken camcorder
You continuously bring up past issues and unresolved matters, similar to revisiting a broken camcorder that can no longer record.

Said I never talked my feeling when we met, that’s what you liked
You claimed that I never expressed my emotions when we first met, and that was something you found appealing.

You don’t like me shouting, but you raise your voice, that’s why we fight
You dislike it when I raise my voice, yet you yourself resort to yelling, which leads to our conflicts.

Said you never hurt me, but I know you only did this out of spite
You proclaim that you have never caused me harm, yet I am certain that you act with the intention of revenge or malice.

If I’ve never meet your needs, I’ll pack my bags and leave tonight
If I fail to meet your demands and fulfill your desires, I will gather my belongings and depart from this relationship tonight.

I do know one thing though
But what I do know for sure is

People they come, they go
Individuals enter and exit relationships

Saturday through Sunday Monday
This pattern of people entering and exiting relationships occurs consistently, spanning from Saturday to Sunday and continuing into Monday

Monday through Sunday yo
And this cycle repeats from Monday through Sunday, emphasizing how it is unchanging

Maybe I’ll love you one day
Perhaps, in the future, I will develop love for someone

Maybe we’ll someday grow
Possibly, at some point, we will both mature and develop together

Putting all my feelings on this paper, hope you read this
I am expressing all of my emotions through writing, and I hope that you take the time to read and comprehend them.