House of Pain
Van Halen Lyrics


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Say you're gonna leave me
'Cause I only tie you up
I always loved you tender
But you only like it rough

Woman bound for glory
Why you're leavin' me again?
Gonna pack your bags
And leave this house of pain

Heartaches all around me
How many times we tried
Said she tried to leave me
But her hands were always tied

If I had it all to do
I'd keep it just the same
Gonna fix it so you never leave
This house of pain

Uh uh uh
Uh uh uh




Uh uh uh
Uh uh uh, ow

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Van Halen's song House of Pain are about a man's desperate attempt to hold onto a woman who is leaving him because she does not want to be tied up. While the man believes that he has always been tender with her, he acknowledges that she prefers it rough. He questions why she has decided to leave him again, and he is saddened by the heartaches that surround him. However, he is determined to fix their problems and prevent her from leaving their "house of pain" again.


On a deeper level, the song may be interpreted as a representation of the struggles that can exist in a BDSM relationship. The lyrics suggest that the man enjoys being dominant and tying up his partner, while the woman may have enjoyed it in the past but now wants to leave because it has become too much for her. The man vows to make changes so that she will not leave, however, the song ends on an ambiguous note.


Overall, House of Pain is a tense and intense portrayal of a relationship that is on the verge of collapse. The lyrics suggest that it may be difficult for the couple to find a way to reconcile their differences, as they are fundamentally at odds with each other.


Line by Line Meaning

Say you're gonna leave me
You've threatened to leave me before


'Cause I only tie you up
You accuse me of restraining you and not allowing you freedom


I always loved you tender
I've always been gentle and loving towards you


But you only like it rough
But you prefer a more intense, rough type of love


Woman bound for glory
Woman seeking to achieve great success


Why you're leavin' me again?
Why are you abandoning me again?


Gonna pack your bags
You're going to leave


And leave this house of pain
And leave this painful and toxic environment


Heartaches all around me
I am surrounded by sadness and pain


How many times we tried
We've attempted to fix this relationship multiple times


Said she tried to leave me
You've said you've tried to leave me before


But her hands were always tied
But you were always too held back or restrained to actually leave


If I had it all to do
If I could start over


I'd keep it just the same
I wouldn't change anything


Gonna fix it so you never leave
I'll try to make it so that you never want to leave me again


This house of pain
This painful home we've created together


Uh uh uh
Sound effects


Uh uh uh
Sound effects


Uh uh uh
Sound effects


Uh uh uh, ow
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Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ALEX VAN HALEN, EDWARD VAN HALEN, DAVID ROTH

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