I Don't Want to Be a Bride
Vanessa Carlton Lyrics


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I like your company got a fresh philosophy
Never knew such a gentleman
You can take me on a cheap vacation
I don't wanna have expectations 'cause you
Could be the end of me

I don't need a house on a hill
Swing on a tree, a grandfather clock
Porcelain for tea
A garden, with rose and jasmine

Gonna get drunk on a bottle of wine
No better way to pass the time
Forever by your side

But I don't wanna be a bride
Apologies to your mother
I wanna be your girl
And spend this life with you

But I don't wanna wear white
You know it's too late for that
But can we keep the ever after?
Could it be

Don't need no golden ring
It'd be no match for the love it brings
From London to Tennessee

We could catch a train to another life
On a whim, under the moonlight
I promise you, will you promise me?

Our last names on a wooden sign
Arm in arm, where the river starts to wind
Forever by your side

But I don't wanna be a bride
Apologies to each other
I wanna be your girl
And spend this life with you

But I don't wanna wear white
You know it's too late for that
But can we keep the ever after
Oh could it be just you and me

I, I, I we will live like kings
Under lavender skies, skies
We will live like kings
Under lavender skies, skies

Built a poem, we kept a rhyme
Wrapped our love in golden twine
We wrote, we wrote a legacy

Just you and me
Just you and me
Just like kings under lavender




Skies, skies
We will

Overall Meaning

In Vanessa Carlton's song "I Don't Want to Be a Bride," the singer expresses her love for her partner but does not want to conform to society's expectation of getting married. She enjoys her partner's company and appreciates their fresh outlook on life. The lyrics suggest that the relationship is going well, but Carlton acknowledges that having expectations can lead to disappointment. Hence, she prefers to keep things casual and not rush into marriage.


The song suggests that the traditional portrayal of marriage is not for everyone. Carlton specifically mentions that she does not want a house on a hill, a swing on a tree, or any other conventional elements that often come with marriage. Instead, she wants to get drunk on a bottle of wine with her partner and just spend time together. Carlton further emphasizes the point by declaring that she does not want to wear white or be referred to as a bride.


The song's overall message is about celebrating love in a way that feels right for the couple, rather than conforming to societal norms. It suggests that couples can be happy in their own way without marriage. The song's melody is a mix of upbeat and slow with gentle piano and guitar sounds, making it an enjoyable listen.


Line by Line Meaning

I like your company got a fresh philosophy
I enjoy being with you and I appreciate your unique outlook on life


Never knew such a gentleman
You are a rare kind of gentleman that I have never met before


You can take me on a cheap vacation
I don't need luxury or extravagance, a simple vacation with you is all I need


I don't wanna have expectations 'cause you Could be the end of me
I don't want to set expectations too high because I don't want to get hurt if things don't work out between us


I don't need a house on a hill Swing on a tree, a grandfather clock Porcelain for tea A garden, with rose and jasmine
I don't need material possessions or expensive things to be happy, just your love and companionship


Gonna get drunk on a bottle of wine No better way to pass the time Forever by your side
Spending time with you is all I need, even if it's just getting drunk on wine


But I don't wanna be a bride Apologies to your mother I wanna be your girl And spend this life with you
I don't want to get married, sorry to disappoint your mother, but I do want to be with you forever


But I don't wanna wear white You know it's too late for that But can we keep the ever after? Could it be
I don't want the traditional wedding, but I still want a happily ever after with you


Don't need no golden ring It'd be no match for the love it brings From London to Tennessee
I don't need an expensive ring, our love is priceless and valuable no matter where we are


We could catch a train to another life On a whim, under the moonlight I promise you, will you promise me?
We can start a new adventure together, on a spontaneous trip, and make a promise to each other


Our last names on a wooden sign Arm in arm, where the river starts to wind Forever by your side
We can create a life together, forever and always together, with an old wooden sign marking our love


I, I, I we will live like kings Under lavender skies, skies We will live like kings Under lavender skies, skies
We will live a life of joy and abundance, like royalty, under beautiful lavender skies


Built a poem, we kept a rhyme Wrapped our love in golden twine We wrote, we wrote a legacy
Our love story is unique, it is written like a poem, and will be remembered for generations to come


Just you and me Just you and me Just like kings under lavender Skies, skies We will
Just the two of us, like royalty, under the beautiful lavender skies, we will live our lives together in happiness and love




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ARI BRYAN INGBER, STEVE OSBOURNE, VANESSA CARLTON

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Chelsea Marie

I saw her perform this last night at the Stevie Nicks concert! She is very powerful. I almost cried. Live, I was pounded with emotions! Love this!!!!!!!!

RamireZ Bobby

GREEN DAY..WAKE ME .. when..♥️♥️🇺🇲🇺🇲🌍

Super Maxi

Wow I seen her on Oct19th last week perform this and opened for Stevie

Claire Means

I woke up this morning with this song stuck in my head and then I quoted it tonight while skyping with the guy i like, because I feel like it captures his feelings about marriage. Vanessa, you are exquisite.

Jorge Fdez

This is another example of how time has changed (not change in a bad or completely her style) her sound and how she has evolved as a musician. Vanessa will ever be one of the biggest and most talented artists we'll see. I just admire her more with every new song i hear from her albums...

Conscious Robot

Vanessa's voice is incredible on this album. I think it's my favorite

RamireZ Bobby

♥️♥️🦊🦊🦊 el principito 🌍🌍🌀🌀🇵🇷🇵🇷

MyStringSnapped

I love Vanessa, her music is so much better than most other artists today. Her music has so much heart and soul.

jungleguns

Really beautiful performance with an angelic children's choir on Conan tonight. I got the shivers!

fvtampa

I knew from the first time I heard this girl she was going to be something special. She paces herself and makes the time in between count for some really great songs. She has quality. This is what will keep her in the music mix for a long time to come. Vanesa is awesomely hauntingly hooking. Hooked on this one, hooked on them all. I Love this young lady's music.

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