Selfish
Victoria Tibblin Lyrics
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Or I
'ma lose my cool
I won't be your punching bag
Don't treat me like a fool
I'm not your therapist
You can't unload on me
I need to focus on myself
It's time for you to see
The above lyrics from Victoria Tibblin's song Selfish suggest that the singer is tired of being used as an emotional sounding board for another person without receiving the care and attention she deserves in return. The language used is assertive and confident, indicating that the singer has reached a breaking point and is ready to set boundaries. The lines "I won't be your punching bag" and "Don't treat me like a fool" are particularly powerful and imply that the singer has been mistreated or taken advantage of in some way. Additionally, the use of the word "selfish" in the title further emphasizes the singer's desire to prioritize her own needs.
Overall, the message of the song is one of self-care and self-love. The singer recognizes that she cannot pour from an empty cup and that it is important to prioritize her own well-being. This message is particularly timely and relevant in a society that often glorifies self-sacrifice and putting others first.
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