Vitamin A was a (West) Berlin punk band that was founded in Berlin-Neukölln… Read Full Bio ↴Vitamin A was a (West) Berlin punk band that was founded in Berlin-Neukölln in the early 1980s. The first line-up included: Erbse - vocals Norman - guitar Ronnie - bass Tommy Torpedo - drums In addition to numerous appearances in Berlin (including as support for KFC (Düsseldorf, Hans-a-plast(Hannover) and M.D.K.(Berlin)), there were a few appearances in Hanover, Halle/Westphalia and Detmold

It's Not You It's Not Me
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KBC Band I stepped out there in the pouring rain I waited for…

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A Love Like That Like a moth to a flame Burned by the fire My love…
All Over the World We feel down and fear and trouble But we know we're…
Are You Home โอ้วเธอคือความฝันที่ห่างไกลจากฉัน หวังเอาไว้สักวันเธอกับฉันค…
At All When i am feeling down And my head is spinning around The…
Biding My Time Here we are but this is not quite like the…
Breaks my Heart I didn't know what day it was when you walked…

Butterflies Here in my life in my everyday Thought it was enough…
Do You Know do, do do what, do do what, do do do…
Don'T You Make A Fuss Don′t you make a fuss about it now You can make…
Dreaming Dreaming They can't stop me dreaming That's how I get up wit…
Easily I wonder why this place Zips into my soul Feelings also stro…
Everything We were mesmerized by distant neon lights The possibilities …
Everything to Me Please leave the light on and hide the key Leaving the…
Fine You don't love me anymore And you don't even like me…
Flying Boom, boom, boom, you can come into my room Lights…
Follow Your Heart Talking by the pool of light, language from America. She put…
Found Paradise I found paradise And it's very very very very nice I fo…
Fun ก็ไม่รู้ว่าเธอนั้นคิดเช่นไร ในยามหลับตา เธอจะมองเห็นฉันไหม ใ…
Good for You You don't love me anymore And you don't even like me…
Here It Comes Summer’s sitting pretty and my life is sweet Gotta get a…
Hold On You can laugh and joke and make fun of your…
I Like It boys boys hey you wanna know something? b-b-boys boys boys l…
I Like You To see you when I wake up Is a gift I…
Into My Arms This is all new to some of us but It's my…
Isn'T It Good Isn′t it crime? Isn't it good? Doesn′t it feel the way it…
Let Go And so it seems that I'm the last thing on…
Looks Real Good You don't love me anymore And you don't even like me…
Made Up My Mind I've made up my mind Im tired of being this Gonna change…
Message To Your Heart Talking by the pool of light, language from America. She pu…
On Your Own Again What just happened? Did it really come to this? Replay it on…
Probably Me When the party is over And you need a friend who…
Saving Myself in my sleep i dream about you baby i was supposed…
She's So Cute Don't you make a fuss Don't you make a fuss about…
What Am I boys boys hey you wanna know something? b-b-boys boys boys l…
What You Want Me To Do do, do do what, do do what, do do do…
When You're Around Did you know, today is all right I want to see,…
Won't Let Go And so it seems that I'm the last thing on…
You Are My Secret You are my secret your love deep inside me I'll take you…
You Are You โอ้วเธอคือความฝันที่ห่างไกลจากฉัน หวังเอาไว้สักวันเธอกับฉันค…
You Look Good You don't love me anymore And you don't even like me…

You Me And The Sunshine Oh Oh I believe in you This is real for me What I feel…

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1y↑5

By all my “friends” in high school that happened to be mostly guys, because I was a loner and they let me in their group; I got ranked number 4, which this was tiered from highest number being the prettiest and lowest number being the pits.
safe to say I just felt like one of the guys and felt utterly ugly compared to the rest of the girls in the school.
I cried. Still think about that tier list to this day. And never showed the “friends” how hurt I was. I just told them that it made sense because I’ve never been told I was pretty by any of the guys.
Still hurts today.
And I still hate my appearance. Low self-esteem and also low maturity levels imo.

I think it would be selfish of me to make a kid with my face and my brain.

Both are terrible genetics but mostly wanting to not make kids because I’m mentally unfit and I still have major depression and many other mental ailments. No thank you.
Why make another with my same broken and cringe brain of not wanting to even be in this world. And I’d be totally selfish.
I do work on my looks, I’m just not that great with makeup so I don’t use any on my face. Somehow with my rotten personality and looks I found someone that likes looking at me. So there’s that at least. And he says he loves me and thinks I’m beautiful. But it doesn’t end the mental torment of my mind constantly telling me I’m a Piece of human trash and I’m the worst looking thing to look at since Atari’s ET game.

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Edvasian

2y↑288

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Alícia-Raquel

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Mai Holden

2y↑24

dude noooooo. ensure that people get REAL therapists, not some randos with no qualifications!!

L☆*:.

2y↑27

Come on dude, at least do your reasearch on who’s sponsoring you 😐 Do better

Ax00xL

2y↑81

Hey Edvasian, glad you're getting sponsorships, just a heads up you should have a look at some of the controversies surrounding it. There's tons of people speaking up online who were mislead by the company and didn't receive the advertised services.

pink bich named breakfast

2y↑89

dude no😭😭😭😭 nooooo

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radfemblink

2y↑3.4K

Bullying someone for their looks is crazy, like how are you mad at me for being ugly? 💀

aliyah (THE SEXIEST WOMAN ON EARTH)

@Kay Kronicals its pretty easy to understand

aliyah (THE SEXIEST WOMAN ON EARTH)

@Kay Kronicals because theyre seen as weak

Newt Skadoot

SERIOUSLYYY like girl what am i supposed to do abt this

OmarMajid

1y↑1

Personally..I dont think anyone is ugly but not everyone is pretty..and its a good thing...imagine if the population is endless copies of Jang Wonyoung and Chris Hemsworth, kind of like sto...who is gonna play the bad guy in Megamind or Cinderella's sisters with the huge feet :/...

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Dalia Marme

2y↑2.2K

If somebody openly ranked me for my appearance I'd cry.

Lailat a luminous night

Its so vain like sheesh

Saraghhh

1y↑1

Back before social media there was a website called Hot or Not where people would voluntarily submit their photo so they could be ranked. Just one of the many reasons why millennials spend so much on therapy.

Svetlana Wilson

If somebody will openly rank your appearance just openly rank their brain.

Leonie Nuhn

I'm so ugly, i wouldn't even be ranked

Tethloach1

people do it all the time. I was rated 6/10 by girls and the same people didn't like that I dated a 10/10 girl. A girl rated 6/10 can choose as many guys rated 8/10 and above. It is all subjective, but it shows how people view you.

Who did she leave me for 10/10. And people were happy for them. Women will always choose the guy they want. I think it is luck, random luck with women. I don't care that much, but the luck is a factor.

You can't catch lightning in a bottle twice, great things are rare to come by. I got lucky that things turned out like that, but reality kicks in and the rule no longer the exception. Why did she ask me out? "she liked me" why did she leave me? To date someone who was rated a 10/10.

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Abel

2y↑5K

As an ugly person, I have witnessed a lot of scary things happened to good looking people too (yes, they still have their privilege of course) I've seen them being touched or forced to sit on someone's lap, their picture stolen by the boys and they said they need it to fap. Overall it's a fucked up world to live, I don't get why people think it's a good idea to have a child.

i disrespect glam

@Life's good Children are NOT a right.

No Name

1y↑1

I will stay #childfree .
This world is such a bad place, and totally overpopulated.
I don't want to contribute to the Problem and I am not careless enough to force an innocent child into the grim future I expect.

Plus I don't want to ruin my body and want more from life than unpaid household labor.

idony's sub kitchen

@Ctashi I am :'(

Chatty Catty

@Life's good they are saying that because of how shitty this world is, and the truama children will experience. If theyre "ugly" they'll be bullied all throughout school probably, and if theyre "pretty" people will cat call them, or try to take advantage of them...i didnt understand this statment when i was young, but then i saw SA by a relative and realized, you cant really trust anyone. This world WILL hurt you somehow, so alot of people dont want children because they want to save them from all of that pain

D W

@Wowww Yes

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Cori

2y↑4.2K

In a culture obsessed with looks, it’s too dangerous to be close to the top or bottom. That’s why I’m aiming for a solid average! Nothing to see here folks 💀

Juratory

I'm right there with you. I don't want to be perceived lol

natasha rules

I take pride in being average

bonjolivent

Same

VicariouslyLiving

@TEARSIANO PENALDO LOVES TEARS MORGAN no. Survivability, the ability to survive. Obviously seeing your response it'll be like speaking to a brick wall so I'm not gonna bother

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C L

2y↑2.5K

Learning about aesthetics in a philosophy course made me really sit back and think about how and why we find certain people attractive/unattractive. It’s weird when you try to think about it deeply

Aaren YASS

1y↑1

Things like symmetrical features makes sense (not perfectly symmetrical) because it's not an obvious mutation/ deformity. But everything else? Yeah we can sit around all day and throw theories at the wall for what sounds plausible enough. Then, realize we aren't exactly going anywhere cuz people have different tastes 😂-

Bee L Z Beeb

@Semeki Izuio lmao brilliant 😂

Daniel Survivor

1y↑1

@504sweetiepie Blackpill studies on looks are all good. A good starting point is Wheat Waffles channel that uses studies to show how looks impact men's dating success

Anisa Tajy

1y↑1

@TK Raid Fascinating! Thank you so much. I'll sit back and think about these now.

TK Raid

1y↑5

@Anisa Tajy as a Philosophy graduate, here are some tidbits: Plato/Socrates (I bunch them up since Plato is the chronicler of Socrates anyway): True Beauty is wisdom; physical manifestations of beauty is an imitation of True Beauty, therefore isn't really what being beautiful means.
Kant: What is beautiful is logical.
(I think this is the most interesting one, especially in terms of the topic of useful art/decorative art)

P.S. It is important to note that their discussions of beauty aren't just about human features but beautiful things/ideals in general.

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guste razi

2y↑2.3K

my mom has always told me “personality> looks”. honestly… it’s sad ppl still look down on “ugly people”. like i’m sorry i got born this way and u we’re lucky

VicariouslyLiving

@Wowww some people need surgery to change their looks. Like explain to me how you change your face shape without surgery?

You're awesome!

💞

g76agi

@guste razi it wont help if your like 16 because of hormones, but anything after that it will help tremendously, i hope you werent serious with that comment l

guste razi

@Alessa Dolan guess what, i do all that, but will it change my nose or my structure of my face?💀

Paola Herrera1P

De niña siempre crecí con comentarios de que era bonita, no tuve una vida fácil, trabajaba para estudiar y para ganar dinero, nunca tome atajos, y me gustaría que la gente se apreciara por lo que puede aportar al mundo, todos son hermosos de distinta forma, si alguien te aprecia vera que no es solo lo físico, hay almas hermosas que quieres conocer, yo mas joven incluso tuve novios de los cuáles admiraba y me enamoraba mas la inteligencia que el físico.

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You got this Latte!

2y↑2.3K

“Looks don’t matter! It all about the inside!!”
Dunno if it’s just me, but this just doesn’t seem like a compliment to me- just tell I’m ugly if you think I am bro

GAMEPOOL

Say it, period!🤣🤣🤣I am tired of hearing this shit

TK Raid

That's actually the most BS thing ever. Looks matter because getting interested in someone begins face first not personality first. Can't forget about the times where in my group the one who gets chatted on by guys would be the prettiest girl in our clique and we get ignored because we are ugly lol. Also the ones who tell this are usually the ones who are conventionally attractive 😑 Like, are you mocking me?

Davion Carvalho

Frfrrrrrrr

no name🤝

agree

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Julian Steve

2y↑2.9K

I never liked the ranking system thing with beauty. It makes me uncomfortable, especially when I was younger. Thank you for making this video digestible and mentioning the TV show (I think it’s a TV show?)… The conversation is needed🙂

Queen BBeaute

2y↑2

@KEL comparing other races beauty is so weird/strange gives me superior vibes ..races are ment to be different that's why we were created to have different genetics

F. U. Nosey ass stalker

Men rank women everyday

꧁Glitter • Dragon꧂

2y↑2

Ikr and I equally dislike when people ask me to rate them or others when it isn’t something that ever crosses my mind whether I see an attractive person or not. It’s odd and dehumanizing

Jaguar Cosmos

2y↑1

I agree, that system is pretty toxic

English With Kristin

2y↑5

Same!! Like why feel the need to say who is prettier? Why can't they both just be pretty?

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Sternnormal

2y↑710

I just want to say this. Look are not everything. But we have to stop pretending like it doesn't matter at all. Packaging and branding exist for a reason. Makeup and fashion exist for a reason. We have types and preferences for a reason. We all like beauty. Albeit it is subjective, i find it pretentious when people pretend like looks don't matter.

sinew

Looks genuinely do not matter to me. It is not pretentious. It is genuinely my experience, and has always been. Accept other perspectives besides your own.

King Doge

Looks are everything

dum dum

Well if we gonna acknowledge that, then let's acknowledge the fact that it's also superficial and dumb af to give attention to looks. What, no?

Looks only matter cuz you tought this way

SkoczMiNaPukiel

1y↑1

If you fall in love with someone's personality they become beautiful to you no matter what. Looks matter before you get to know someone.

TerraFluent

@N. Kim No, there won't be. It's like saying there will be a time when dumb people will be the same as smart people. In laws maybe, but certainly not in the amount of happiness and joy or repulsion and disgust their looks bring to others. Beauty is a characteristic, not a gender/race/illness...

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Mai

2y↑703

This is why being mid in terms of attractiveness is great. No one harasses you cuz you’re pretty. No one also treats you badly for being ugly.

Aaren YASS

1y↑1

Being MID is hard cuz the average is different for everyone.
Let's just call it unconventional attractiveness. -

Cacateeah

1y↑1

I don’t think attractiveness is a significant factor that causes harassment, someone do this to others not because they think the victims are hot, but to ensure a sense of control, there are countless cases straight men sexually assaulting other men even if they are not attracted to them

joy

1y↑18

Yeah everyone can get harassed. I'm average and I would get cat called and harassed no matter what. I even thought to uglyfy myself by wearing the worst outfits, and I shaved my head (I don't look good with a shaved head) and that didn't work, still got harassed. People who harass you don't care what you look like. They just like the feeling of scaring you and having control over you.

Sassy Queen

1y↑27

Sorry to be the one to tell you this but all kinds of ppl get harassed especially if you’re a girl

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SonSauvage

2y↑1.2K

I had a sort of revelation when I was younger, around my mid-twenties. Think about how many physically attractive people you see every day. If you're actually out and about you'll find it's a high number. In fact, you will soon lose track. There is nothing special or rare about attractiveness, it is truly a nothing trait, in the sense that it says nothing about a person. You can make inferences from their looks sure, but they tell you nothing.

TEARSIANO PENALDO LOVES TEARS MORGAN

You're coping. When you walk out, is very rare to see a man with a strong jawline

chickenfoot

1y↑4

this is why i find the concept of ‘average’ confusing. its often linked to being a bit lacking in conventional attractiveness or taken slightly negatively, but the average person is objectively fairly good looking imo. being out in public actually makes me realise how many celebrities and influencers profiting off of being attractive have 200 clones who live normal lives but look equally as good

Mute LarsOrhougbe4

Mmmmm!

Paige Lovette

2y↑12

This is so incredibly opposite for me. I'm out...Often. 99% of people are average looking, which is why when you see someone above average you stare and sometimes take a second look. Because being above and especially well above average looking is not common. Where do you live?

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Cyanide Pacifier

2y↑819

It's a Thailand drama called Girl From Nowhere. Nanno goes around punishing bad people who get away with their crimes. This is just one of many, it's a really good show. I love it!

Juratory

I watched the whole series and I'm patiently waiting for a third season lol

NRB

@DrawnKitten Especially in that one episode where they kill Nanno and she keeps coming back, feels like it was based on Tomie as there was one chapter where jealous classmates kill Tomie and hide her body in the woods but she comes back to school the next day.

Cyanide Pacifier

@Anemons Netflix

Anemons

Where can I watch it?

operanchu

@Amaria Denise I really hope I'm wrong because I love this show, but I feel like I saw somewhere that it wasn't going to be renewed for a third season. hoping I'm wrong 🤞

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lyssa

2y↑490

it’s pretty dumb that her having a cut on her face would make her less attractive when so many characters who have scars get simps because it symbolizes their traumatic backstories.

3DS Master

1y↑1

On god. Todoroki in real life would not be as loved let's be honest. People don't generally consider burn scars, especially ones that big, attractive

g76agi

2y↑21

yes but also edgy characters get lots of simps but IRL theyre just weirdos

OᄆO

2y↑68

Yeah. A single scratch not gonna make someone's attractive like Nanno to be less attractive. Her face features doesn't change just because of a single scratch. It's a different story if she got a severe burn scar covering half of her face though.

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KEL

2y↑608

As someone with social anxiety I would’ve not been able to show a bit of my personality . That would be a nightmare

Coliat

2y↑1

Samee “🧍🏾‍♀️”

OᄆO

2y↑14

I would be standing there like🧍and slowly move to 4th place like "Pls make this end soon" while smiling awkwardly

Sonia Thomas

same

KEL

2y↑18

Luna the Pug 루나 🍑 we can be just as entertaining when comfortable 😂

아나 이

2y↑692

I feel like everyone wishes personalities were always the reason why we chose to hang with people but appearances always get the vest of us

Mr. SketchyDude

1y↑2

I think a lot of people here truly believe that they choose personality over appearances, but it is wrong to claim that completely. Appearances do affect who we choose as friends but no purely because of whether we think they are pretty or not. It can also be the way the physically carry themselves, confidence, posture, etc. or maybe even the way they dress. Appearances goes WAY beyond just having a nice face, it's everything about the person that we can judge physically.

Just like someone saying about body odor, there are certain things that we can judge appearance-wise about a person. Perhaps someone likes people who dress a certain way, like similar fashion tastes.

But the most important aspect is that you don't judge someone based SOLELY on their looks but on their personality as well. Of course we shouldn't judge people based on appearances because for majority of individuals they did not choose to look that way, but it is something that even subconsciously we do. It is ingrained in our brains so far deep it would take years upon years to undo.

Kat C

To me, apart from a kind personality and cleanliness, it's how genuine a person is. I've met many manipulative and fake people who aren't really who they claim they are. I don't care if someone is blunt about their opinions and honest about their feelings, it's refreshing even if those opinions can be unpopular or challenging.

Sassy Queen

1y↑2

Not really for me I chose my friends not because of how they look and I didn’t really CHOOSE them we just become friends smoothly and they are great friends😊

Vixx Celacea

2y↑1

You don't know a personality by looking at a person (though there are cases you can tell which is a whole conversation about stereotypes.) you only have their looks to go by first.

Thing is, internet actually removes this barrier much of the time, we don't know what most of us in the comment section looks like, so we much faster can glean what personality they show through what they type (which isn't that much to go off of either).

We're a very visual species. A lot of creatures are. We judge genetic viability by looking at someone's features. Granted, that's not entirely out of left field. There are a ton of defects, disorders and diseases that show up topically and evolution basically says "Don't procreate with it, it could risk the future offspring's ability to survive" When we admit putting it this way, it makes sense that we're hostile or dismissive to those we find have "inferior" genetic traits. It's not morally or ethically okay and we absolutely should do better, because we're aware of it, but we can't until we admit that it's not just pulled out of the air. It's a multi-thousand year old instinct for survival purposes, because we didn't exactly have people go through a physical and medical eval to choose a partner and we still don't. Though interestingly, people looking for a donator, especially in regards to having a child absolutely do this.

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Sarah D

2y↑239

I really hated how they equated being extroverted with having more personality. 🙄

ɥnɹq

1y↑6

Literally, i always thought i was boring and not a friend material, but after many friendships i realised im better off alone, till maybe i will find that one friend

Yasmin B

1y↑18

Yeah I would say it was more about who is more aggressive or agreeable instead of "having more personality"

San Shine

2y↑342

I notice when I was still pretty and girly a LOT of creepy stuff would happen to me and ever since I changed myself to look more masculine which is unattractive to most guys nothing happened to me anymore except one stupid guy a week ago. It’s just crazy that looks can make people go act crazy to a person or not.

Skyler Miles

2y↑1.2K

surprised no one has commented about the betterhelp thing yet. guess I'm going to have to be the one to do it. I mean no hate at all because you obviously came from a well meaning place but Better Help is a really bad company. They also have data and confidentiality issues. Lots of therapists who've worked with them have come out & said it's a horrible company that really only cares about making $$. & speaking of $$ if you want actual sessions it ends up being HUNDREDS of dollars (which they conveniently wont tell you) a month. Danny Gonzalez posted a video sponsored by them last week & after being educated by the fandom he ended up removing the section from the video. I'm not saying that's what you have to do just for everyone who may check them out PLEASE be cautious.

b b w

@bubblegumplastic chill

Ellie

Is there an alternative company I can use??

Kitten Mimi

2y↑1

@PositiveVibesVeda which is why it's bad cos they cannot make it consistent

YULKA

Yep.

꧁Mike Sully꧂

2y↑11

I wouldn't trust a Youtube advert that was selling me candy yet alone one that offered therapy. Can't believe people actually use these products and don't just click 1 minute ahead in the video.

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NixtheVamp

2y↑134

Chasing beauty is exhausting. I've struggled with my weight my whole life and it really hurts to know most people think I'm ugly bc of my weight. I wish people didn't care.

INKUBATOR

1y↑1

I'm sure you look fine

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

2y↑4

Welp ppl will always care

Shi

2y↑537

I can't remember who it was, but I was watching a video where the person did two little tests. She asked out of a few pairs who looks better. Obviously you'd end up picking just one of each pair. Later in the video she did the same but instead asked "who is beautiful" and instead the automatic response was that they were all beautiful.
Changing perspective from beauty being a contest to beauty being something everyone can have makes a massive difference

bleepbloop101010101

2y↑3

@Anushka Not really, you could do the same test with meals and ask 'which one tastes better' and you're forcing them to make one choice, and then ask them 'which ones taste good' and they'd say all. Maybe you like pizza more than spaghetti but you'd still be happy to eat spaghetti. I guess that's just fake food positivity though.

Kata rin

2y↑1

Oh lol we all watched the same video

Matcha

2y↑1

@Shi
Define “beautiful”, because the primary definition of beauty is looks.

Lil' Bettrave

2y↑2

I think the video you're talking about is "How k-pop destroys your body image" by chaebin n out (I just watched it too)

lemonssssssss4

i didnt even remember the part since the vid was so long so when i finished the video i was like "huh where did that come from"

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jiNX

2y↑75

Once in 5th grade some boys from my class made a beauty-ranking list and i was ranked 2nd last. It hurt me much and made me very insecure to the point where I wouldn't even know what my features looked like anymore. After all I managed gaining more confidence now...

x g

1y↑5

i remember being told i was too ugly to r*pe 😞i was 13

StarrySkies

2y↑5

that is terrible, holy shit. i hope you can feel comfortable with yourself again, something like that is so cruel. stay true to yourself, what they said doesn’t matter❤️

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Samju Giachjan

2y↑44

Yup im an ugly woman and people really treat me like that. Something happened, its my fault, false accusations, bad grades etc. People have a wrong image of you just because the judge the way you look. I just wish i looked like a normal person so people would leave me tf alone. Its really tiring.

Diamond

1y↑6

Ugly = bad person
Pretty = good person

J

2y↑159

I find it really liberating to stop submitting to beauty standards just overall. You will never be happy if you keep following them and if you're not doing it for you then who cares? I'm currently rocking a unibrow and I'm not bothered by it. I get ignored by most people or most people just don't want to talk to me. It's like trying to be the ugliest you can be to overcompensate for the fact that you'll never be pretty enough. I do find it liberating though to not care but it comes with age unfortunately.

Stresso depresso lemon zesto

I’m just trynna look good so things will be easier. Hopefully

Macey R.

Mine is mustache 🙃

Lauren Martin

2y↑303

this show is so good. every episode leaves me with a huge empty feeling inside but in a good way.

Benjamin Roman

2y↑5

LOL

Blink if you love Blackpink

2y↑29

I’ve been ugly and I’ve also been pretty before. In my experience, yea, being ugly was 10x worse. People saw everything I did as "cringe". I wouldn’t make a joke without being seen as the girl who tries to be funny but isn’t. But when I was pretty(had a big glow up), I was super popular, people laughed at my jokes, and I was just seen as a cute happy girl next door. Now I’m kinda in the middle because uh I had another glow down and somehow went through puberty again/j and now I’m kind of average.

natasha rules

How did you 'glow down'?

sarah

2y↑40

As an unattractive woman, life and people will always be terrible. I’ve been trying to lose weight for a few months now but I haven’t lost that much weight. I’m on a keto diet, and my workout routine is weight lifting for an hour, and cardio for thirty minutes. It seems like no matter how much I punish myself or stress myself the fuck out, I’ll never considered pretty/attractive and it fucking sucks. As a woman, beauty is considered a virtue, and since I lack beauty, I lack value.

TEARSIANO PENALDO LOVES TEARS MORGAN

Got bad news for you Sarah, i lost weight and became a good-looking guy but i wasn't on a keto diet, i was on OMAD diet, and sometimes i ate less than 800 calories a day. Cigarrettes and coffee helped supress hunger

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Juratory

2y↑947

I feel like we don't talk enough about how pretty privilege tends to be intrinsically tied into Eurocentric standards of beauty and femininity, which find their roots in white supremacy and permeate themselves into every corner of society. These two concepts are used to determine who's "attractive" versus who's "unattractive", thus creating a hierarchy of attractiveness and an "us vs. them" mindset between white women or lighter-skinned women of color vs. Black or darker-skinned women of color.

Sherry Miller

@Christina EXACTLY!

g76agi

@Ana 911 thats just racist lmao

chickenfoot

1y↑6

@avaphynx it sounds like you’re insinuating ‘wanting pale skin = wanting to fit eurocentric standards’, which is a sentiment ive seen shared a LOT online. but of course being pale is not & has never been exclusive to white people, & it has long been a standard in many asian countries, even when the public didnt mix with white people at all. in china, your example, they dont even prefer actual white people, why would it be white supremacy? its due to their own complexes about their own race- but this does ofc affect how they see other races in light of what features they favour. as always, ‘beauty’ stems from exclusivity, sexism and elitism. its ironically very eurocentric to think that white people have a grip on every culture

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Carolina Torres

2y↑215

In that experiment I would voluntarily place myself as a 5 (least attractive), you cant get your feelings hurt if you already know you're trash lol 🤷‍♀️

GAMEPOOL

Facts!

TK Raid

1y↑4

I'd always pick the lowest one in a ranking like bottom tier one because you can't get lower if you're already below average 😂

PS. And no, I don't hate myself. I'm just not the type to rate myself so highly because it feels weird.

g76agi

@raid. exe ehhhh

raid. exe

1y↑2

so people are trash bc they don’t look like a model??? I thought everyone was at least somewhat average looking but ok

Jamie Morris

2y↑12

@g76agi Tbh I would do this just so no one had to be placed at 5. I feel way better knowing people felt better about themselves than being told i'm more attractive than 4 other girls. In the end it really doesn't matter that much to me than it might that chick who was complaining about being 5 lmao. Everyone's happy and I still get paid for standing here.

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alli

2y↑242

!!! Betterhelp actually states in their fine print that it's actually not meant to replace regular theraphy. They also can't ensure the therapists on their platform are qualified so it depends on the individual therapist if it's good or not. It's also strange that apparently there are supposedly more 'therapists' being added to the platform to meet demand when there is currently a mental health professional shortage.

Anyway, those are some of the reasons why people don't like when youtubers promote them.

It's really sad to see that some youtubers don't look into sponsorships. If his not willing to look into something as important as mental health and promotes a sponsor that isn't ethical I guess you can't really trust anyone.

b b w

2y↑1

Yall are soo annoying I'm sure it's a mistake stop acting morally superior

gemini!fairy🍄𓆩♡𓆪

2y↑15

boosting! and to the person who said he needs money and people can just ignore it, vulnerable watchers might not realize that it’s a bad company and pay for it. i’m guessing that if edvasian knew it was harmful, he would gladly correct his honest mistake because he has his viewers’ best interest at heart.

Cat Splat

2y↑14

The man needs his money. He’s not forcing you to use the company. Just ignore the ad. If you can ignore a Raid Shadow Legends ad, you can ignore this one. Also, “can’t trust anyone”?? This is a YouTuber. You don’t know him lol. He can’t break your trust.

pink bich named breakfast

2y↑18

i really hope he reads this, it’s almost impossible to believe he doesn’t know the truth about betterhelp and he needs to be held accountable

Miss Straw-hat Awesome

2y↑410

I feel like women have a tendency to be more forgiving when ranking other women’s attractiveness compared to men, like for example we prioritize a pretty face and good personality over an overweight body. Men in general will almost always exclude overweight women even if they have the most beautiful face. Men are more fat phobic than women. Of course I am basing myself in personal experience but I’m also not surprised they ranked the plus size girl as least attractive.

Sav _Smil3

1y↑1

@Wonderland what you mean? Women love teddy bear men 😂😂

BlackpilledSaihara

@Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫 Oh, sorry that I assumed your opinion(maybe I misinterpreted what you said since I am not native speaker)... Now I agree with you.

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

1y↑1

@BlackpilledSaihara that’s the point. I wouldn’t say yes to a fat man. That’s what I said before… I also said it’s not a problem is a man says no to a fat woman.

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

1y↑1

@BlackpilledSaihara I mean I’m not into woman but if (hypothetically) I was then the answer would be yes to ur question. People have different tastes. Many of us just don’t want to have a fat partner end of

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Christina

2y↑78

I remember watching a video where a group of people in a room had to basically choose what they would sentence these two people with the SAME crime. OF COURSE, the prettier girl got the lesser time and they were saying how “she has a long life ahead of her. She’s pretty.” 🙄 Gurl. Omg

Khumi

2y↑116

As someone who was ranked the ugliest person in their friend group at age 13 I can proudly say that bullying made me hot, 10/10 would recommend

jgabd

2y↑3

But not everyone can change the face shape

MGAM ///

2y↑4

@Jea.n_coffee Same🦍 Well, actually I was bullied severely in elementary school and recently I just started my sophomore year in high-school and tbh I’m pretty insecure about myself, but apparently to a lot of people based on the way I dress I come across as someone they’d like to talk to- a couple of my friends usually say I’m good looking but maybe it’s due to the bullying from the past but it’s hard to view myself accurately. Every single time I see myself in the mirror my perception on my face is always changing which is probably a product of body dysmorphia but yeahhh- I would say bullying makes people hot I guess, lol

dUmBpLinGs

2y↑4

Laughing it off cuz life is a joke lol

Jea.n_coffee

2y↑10

Same now everyone suddenly simps for me it's weird...

Kloey Yohhh

2y↑83

I can confirm that a bunch of people around me judge a person solely on looks. I have also done it I’m sure I have since ranking attractiveness is human nature, but I try to get to know a person regardless of their attractiveness. I have found many very good friends by not initially judging them solely on looks. I wish more people realized that looks aren’t everything and ranking people could be harmful. Anyways, yeah that was my rant, have a good day!

K & D joshi

2y↑1

Honestly it's stupid how people judge based solely on looks

Semeki Izuio

2y↑4

You have a better chance at finding good people who ll let themselves be your friend because you are attractive. Because the reality is, ugly people judge ugly people too. And those ugly judgmental people will look for attractive people to make themselves look and feel good.

I hope

2y↑22

This ranking system is so ugly but unfortunately we all have been through it. I have seen the ranking system both in school and college. My school was girls-only. I remember, when I was in the eighth standard, 12-13 years old, one of our new classmate did this and told me "sadly, you can't be in top 20." it was worse in college. There was a girl who would ask boys to rate girls on the basis of their physical attractiveness. Obviously, they kept on rating the same five girls, exaggerating their physical beauty to that point that they were treated like queens. Even random boys from senior classes came to see them. However, the thing that I hated actually was not only that they were rated as 'pretty', they thought that it was their duty to tell all the other girls that they were ugly. Boys in my class also thought that it was okay to reveal audio clips in the group saying, who they found ugly (basically everyone other than the pretty ladies). I am born ugly. But I know many people who had faced real challenges in rebuilding their self esteem after this ranking system. It's gross.

Emi

2y↑35

I used to care alot bout my looks and spent way too much time on makeup, hair, diets and so on.
Thing is that when you look attractive, alot of people forget that you you're a person that have boundaries and basically think that you're just a piece of meat that they can do/say whatever to you.
Had guys catcalling me, groping me, saying degrading things to me, stalk me and the classic, someone who asks you out and when you say no they get mad bc of it, like you owe them something. It's not uncommon for guys to get upset that a girl don't like him back and will even try to punish her for it in different ways
Oh then ofc, murder! Attractive women are at higher risk of getting murdered as well

I care way less these days, beauty is a curse, especially if you're a woman

tavern2468

2y↑24

It’s funny but being at either extreme/either being extremely attractive or extremely ugly people think that they actually have the right to say whatever they want to you, directly to your face. But I would definitely prefer being a tractive and then having to conceal that or play it low-key instead of being ugly and dealing with everyone’s shit. My life has been hard especially because I’m fat - I’m not just talking about physical pain I’m talking about how people have treated me.

Floral Fancy

2y↑23

I relate to you so much and feel you man, being sick and tired of living in such an appearance orientated world, being shy and an introvert I'm also a huge overthinker to my own downfall. If you feel alone, I assure you that I understand and relate to you.

setapartremnant

We need more public spaces for introverts for less face to face contact with people. Wholeheartedly that's like my dreammmm.

Stressed Mochii

2y↑81

Finally someone who agrees that pouring milk before cereal is not "psychopathic" behaviour.

Stressed Mochii

1y↑1

@yumeko same

yumeko

1y↑3

I thought it was normal-

Leal Nejora

2y↑42

I've gotten both experiences, so it's weird 😅 Most people not asian think I look good, but when encountered some asians including my own, Filipino, I do not fit their beauty standards so they tend to ignore or look down at me. These shows are... I guess interesting to say the least 😄 I just stay away and do my art projects 😂

Macey R.

2y↑3

Same gworly gworl. Kaya yan! 🤍

_Ryuji_🖤

1y↑8

"The more mature I get, the more I realize that it is 'LOOKS' that matters and not your personality."-🖤

Razumihin

2y↑103

Crazy how the plus-sized woman was ranked right at the bottom. I wonder how much of the disinterest in plus sized people is down to biology and how much is down to societal values, because it's such a big factor for people seemingly
I think she had the prettiest face and was the best dressed, but it seems no one could see through to those factors behind her weight. It also makes me wonder if people view others as unable to lose weight, as opposed to a work in progress that simply needs to be given time and support to reach their full potential

r1bysj0k3r@rch

1y↑3

@Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫 .I never said it was weird. I dunno where you got that from. All I said was of course they're gonna choose the smaller slimmer woman. Most men are into that. My buddies and I mostly like thicker women, and that's all. You're thinking too much into it. Anyways, I hope your day goes well.

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

@r1bysj0k3r@rch and stated that because YOU have a certain preference they should have been rated higher. As if slimmer men wanting slimmer women is weird

r1bysj0k3r@rch

1y↑1

@Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫 .I'd just like to know how my comment is childish to you? I just stated my preference and made an observation based on what I saw.

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

@r1bysj0k3r@rch this is such a childish comment 😭

Cat Lady

1y↑1

I’m currently losing weight and I kind of put my value in guys noticing that. Like for instance, I like a guy at work. I want him to notice that I’m losing weight and am working hard. Sounds weird…but I know if I notice someone working hard for something, I find it attractive. But some people just want to see you thin lol. And I’m also ugly/average, so regardless—people never noticed me. But I have to realize it’s not just about wanting a partner. I’m very excited to lose weight as my health has gotten better and I do kind of want a toned stomach.

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A L

2y↑114

(Warning, kind of long sorry!)
I remember the last semester of school, I kind of did this “thing.” I dressed only with the same black jacket, dark skinny jeans, frizzy long hair in my face everyday. The more recent semester I dressed way better and stayed cleaner. But it was weird because, I had more friends last year than this year. I wore a mask and I always wear glasses, so it’s not easy to see my face at all. But I personally feel like my personality was more outgoing and better? last year than this year, because I was way more insecure about myself this year (well, I still am.) I personally think I was just kind of boring this year. so over this summer I thought to myself, maybe I can help brighten my qualities of my personality, trying to kind of overcome my insecurities. Actually it got so bad that semester that I literally forgot how to walk in the hallways, and when I did I would get really nervous and extremely anxious unless if I was with a friend. Last year I was insecure but not as much I guess, and just kind of brushed it off. But this year I was so anxious about how I looked and I did not want to gain attention at all. I would even be anxious about my posture or sitting position. When I was with at least one friend I would be really calm because at least Ik there was someone I could talk to. Now this summer im trying to work on both my personality and my appearance better. And to be honest, the way I dressed this year would have been decent ig, but I only dressed for male attention/for people to not notice me. It was not the clothes I wanted to wear, and not the hairstyle I wanted to have. So this summer I cut my hair the way I wanted, bought clothes that I actually WANTED, and I started to realize I look so much better. I know I would have never had the confidence to wear these clothes, but I’m going to try my hardest next semester. After I did all this stuff for myself, I realized that my confidence has actually changed. For example, the last two semesters I only wore skinny dark jeans, I hated them so bad but I was scared that more baggier jeans would look bad on me, and I thought more brighter colors would attract too much attention. But now I picked out and bought baggy jeans, my mom kind of judged me for buying jeans like that but I honestly just want to feel comfortable with myself for once. I’m not lying, I definitely still have many insecurities. I’m still hung up on not knowing how to really walk, so that still makes me pretty anxious. But really it’s the little things that count. I hope if anyone read this, maybe this will give you some tips? I just hope I’ll become the person I want to really be, because honestly this whole school year I’ve been really jealous of popular girls at my school, they’re so pretty and have alot of friends, meanwhile I’m just the quiet kid in the corner doing my work. I’ll tell you, alot of people only pick and choose by your appearance, but when they meet you be one of the most supportive, cheerful people in their life without overdoing it, and they’ll act more positive about you. If they are toxic towards you then definitely cut them out. Life is what u want to make it, don’t try to base it off somebody else who you don’t want to be.

yum

2y↑2

this is the most relatable thing ever!! i can't believe how alike we are in terms of our decisions, the way we dressed and behaved, insecurities, anxiety, improvements and stuff. it genuinely feels good to see how there are people like me out there, and how some words can resonate a lot with me. thanks for this comment. best of luck!

A L

2y↑3

@Chloé SMNC Very very true! When you realize not give a sht about what people think of you anymore and just doing ur thing, I think it’s a great feeling in general honestly

Chloé SMNC

2y↑7

My life motto is « I don’t go to school to date » since like maybe 5 years (I’m in 3rd year of uni now) and omg I swear it feels really good
When I have to work or go out I just wear what feels comfortable for me
like if I suddenly want to run I actually can you see
And I realized you get much better friends by being this way (because it’s my way but you choose your own way of course) than trying hard to be « appealing »
There’s that girl in my class that I can’t stand but she’s like one of the populars I guess ? There’s a guy asking her out everywhere she goes and when she wants to go out everyone follows her but when I do the same I get ignored (we were in the same group of friends originally but I don’t consider these people friends anymore)
And this girl confessed to me once that she doesn’t like uni life and I was like wth ok sad to be you because even though I only have 2 friends I do like my uni life and that’s what matters now

Find activites/courses/work that you like and be yourself there and you’ll see how you can find a lot of things to talk about to people who are also happy to be here

Jason Cohen

2y↑9

As someone who's been hot and ugly, this is true. Got ugly from aging for a bit then fixed it with fillers. People treated me way differently and women suddenly weren't interested it was a weird time. Until after I got the fillers and everything went back to normal they started treating me nice again. I feel bad for people that have to experience that their whole life. Im scared to age again.

The person

1y↑1

Personally despite being a young adult, I accept aging. Of course that doesn't mean we can't improve ourselves for ourselves, rather for the sake of others. Although looks can unfortunately cause others to perceive the face as the personality that is given.

I've used tretinoin cream from through prescription. Look up 18 yrs of Tretinoin cream. It kind of gives you an idea of it long term. Also, remember to cherish the wonderfulness of your personality.

DQ Hornzz

2y↑17

I've watched this episode off of Girl From Nowhere, I think that ranking beauty is just emotionally damaging and no one should be ranked for their beauty, I believe personality before beauty is more important bc it eliminates the good from the bad

べむ

2y↑10

Honestly my looks are mid, but I'm not being harassed because I'm pretty but I'm also not bullied for being "ugly". It's a win

Service Not Found

1y↑5

رويدة عموش

2y↑19

Whenever I feel pretty, a super beautiful girl appears out of no where and I come back to feeling ugly again

Miracle Diengdoh

2y↑15

At first we are always attracted by looks but eventually after knowing each other, looks doesn’t matter anymore coz if that person creeps you out, their looks just fade away and you will not be pleased by that look anymore, or if the person is nice they look way better than before.

Sherry Miller

I even had a few boys actually destroy a few of the projects I brought to class because they didn't think I was worthy of getting credit for anything. I became a little scared because it seemed so insane... The teachers just pretended it didn't happen....

T Prkr

2y↑85

I'm aromantic/asexual but I rank people on their clothing styles (terrible I know, I dont WANT to rank people, I have just noticed that I do) so like as lonng as someone is dressed that matches MY personal preference then I think they are "pretty" does that make sense?

a h h h h h

@Nap Time idk I’m ace and I tend to do the same

Nap Time

Question, is finding people attractive through fashion style/ aesthetics an aroace thing or is it just coincidence here?

334...

@Darylene Lorde I'm really happy to see that I'm not alone in this as well 💕😭

kitsterangel

2y↑2

I'm aro ace too but I very much appreciate aesthetic beauty but ya, fashion/overall style definitely figures into it as well. Like there's people I'll see on the street or on campus and think "oh they could be really attractive if they dressed better or had different hair" type of thing bc they have nice facial features but they're not really noticeable the way they're dressed.

Darylene Lorde

2y↑2

@334*...*

OMFGGGG. OMFGGGG. I'm screaming right now. I'm demisexual too and this is the best way I've been able to describe my attraction to people. I'm married and whenever people ask how I view my husband, I always say 'I could spend years painting a hundred pictures of him and fill the walls of my house with them'. I've always based my pull to someone on the feelings they give me and how strongly I want to paint pictures of them! I've never met another person who does this. I'm so happy😭

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Darky's Makeup & Science

2y↑69

Beauty ranking doesn't work in the end because beauty is in the eye of the beholder and then if you mix personality in, well that completely changes everything. And then there's like "classical beauty that others like," or "I'd fuck that even though not pretty." It's like all over the place. I just go, "nope! Guys aren't attracted to me!" walks to the bottom of the line even though I like myself

Alex

@incognito even when you remove every single societal standard, things like facial symmetry, clear skin and neoteny (for women) are valued across every culture and every society, even the isolated tribes.

incognito

1y↑3

I don't agree with you....A lot of people would agree with me, that is a pattern of an objective indoctrinated standard of beauty, that most men or women gravitate towards, for various reasons, to be closer to whiteness, social higherachy, fetishism or just outright " preference".... Beauty isnt always in the eye of the beholder...unfortunately

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Saint’paw

2y↑48

Ranking beauty is kinda..a little odd if you ask me but I hate a ranking system that just ranks beauty,and I love ya vids

Saint’paw

2y↑2

What I mean by “I hate a ranking system that just ranks beauty” I meant that I hate all ranking systems,it’s a little confusing when you read it sorry😅

Sienna Malvern

2y↑161

As what society deems to be 'conventionally attractive' I just wanted to toss a couple things out there. Some people want to be friends with me just because I'm attractive and it makes me so insecure of my personality and leaves me to wonder if some of my friends even like me. Some girls just automatically hate me bc they perceive me as attractive and will not even talk to me. Some of the people that actually want to be friends it's all for superficial reasons and my naive self never finds out until it's too late. Whenever I need to vent about my insecurities people act offended that I could even be insecure and then talk about how much they hate themselves and I end up comforting someone even when I feel like crap. And I was ugly up until 6 months ago, and I feel for the people society doesn't favor. Bc now that I've had a 'glow up' people open doors for me go out of their way to aid me in small things and it actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. So yeah there's my issues, hope you enjoyed my Tedtalk 😂

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

@chickenfoot I didn’t intend to say you’re a boring person. I don’t know you after all. Please understand that. However I would say that if u are pretty (which attracts people to you) and they for some reason won’t stay, it MIGHT be due to personality- which can always be worked on. Lots of love. Please don’t let my comment discourage you 😭

chickenfoot

@Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫 thats a fair but harsh conclusion to come to, but not true. i had a lot of female friends, and the male friends eventually came back around once they’d gotten over themselves. point being, it sucked every time it happened

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

@chickenfoot I mean if they’re having that much of a lacklustre experience with you it might be a personality issue idk

明星Krxso

@Worst Username In the World Well say... Especially the part abt replies smh...

chickenfoot

1y↑4

i was considered attractive in hs & had ppl become my friend for ulterior motives, and it just made me not view men as potential friends i could truly trust or read. i cant name a male friend i had in high school who didnt later tell me they talked to me because they had a crush on me, and then drop me when i rejected them- people i thought had fun talking to me as just a friend for years were just enduring my friendship for something romantic. made me believe that as a person im not worthwhile

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Julie M

2y↑19

This video came up the very day I started reading Kahneman and Tversky for my master thesis (the guys who studied biases and judgement psychology) and it was the debrief I needed after work. Good content 👏🏻

l c

2y↑25

17:13
I wish more ppl would learn this lesson. There is no reason to harass others of things people can’t help majority of the time.

Cat

2y↑8

Luckily based on my lack of pretty privilege I never have creepy men try to pick me up at bars.
Also I love the show Girl From Nowhere!! I'm ready for Season 3. Nanno always makes them pay and I love her.

HappyCowardlyKS

2y↑13

We're all shallow on a certain level, but I hope one day people will just let go from these beauty standards. It really made my mental health better to simply not give a fck anymore.

Lady_RobinHood

2y↑17

At my old highschool the pupils had a ranking system they kept secretly in the old year 10 bathroom , I saw my rank I was riiiiiiiiiiight at the bottom , kinda hurt to be honest 😂

bigtimedirection

2y↑19

ive said this before but u made my quarantine so much better, i remember sneaking my phone during zoom and watching u all the time. thanks a ton. ❤️❤️

Bilaquis Evelisa Johnson

2y↑13

1 of my many hopes for humanity is accepting the way we are all created...in my opinion, beauty is very very subjective....I can find many other things beautiful besides appearances....u could be drop dead gorgeous, but many other factors can make u look frightening....thanks for the vid and ur always positive POV love....💯😘☝🏽

Draalttom

2y↑1

@Cat Splat the word is formed, not created

Cat Splat

2y↑2

@Draalttom Well we were created from the fusion of gametes and the division of cells. I don’t think they meant literally created by someone

Draalttom

2y↑2

We were not created, we evolved, the body has a purpose

saki bartneck

2y↑56

for the jubilee video, there is no way u can rate ppls appearance and personality without making it offensive, it especially doesnt make sense with the personality, since they are only on set for a day with each other like....

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

You subconsciously rate people on their attractiveness as soon as you see them all the time. Most people do

Cat Splat

2y↑11

I don’t understand how people sign up to be part of these videos 😭 it’d be a waking nightmare for me lmfao

Amaria Denise

Tbh that’s how most of their ranking videos go. It’s always personality and outfits. (Having a good personality is good ofc) but they tend to sugarcoat A LOT

Chris

2y↑6

I hope the manipulative media changes to the better and open up to be more inclusive to all kinds of people.

Ree

(TW: mentions of SA)
As a 26 year old, you either think I’m “beautiful” or “average” or “female Quasimodo” I just don’t care anymore. I lost a good amount of my teen years worrying about my body and how I look, getting into relationships with people who only wanted one thing, getting sexually assaulted and now having to recover from all of that. The thing is, when you suddenly realise that respect and how you are as a person, regarding personality is far more important than physical appearance, is the day you wake up and start treating yourself with more self-respect than you’ve ever given yourself in your life.

sareneve

2y↑30

the jubilee video sounds like a sh*tty idea lol. who would do this. why. also having a panel of 5 people stand there judging other people on their appearance gives me bad vibes. the fact that the participants actually thought they were judging the other participants' personalities makes me laugh-cry.

sareneve

2y↑1

@Cat Splat i am basically a human version of the cookie monster, so i guess that's fitting lol
also i don't do much else besides knitting and watching youtube so... 😅 but thank you. it's a fun hobby! definitely kind of therapeutic.

Cat Splat

@sareneve ohhh I see it now! I couldn't see your head behind the flower lol. I thought I was looking at a Cookie Monster puppet 😭Edit: damn knitting a whole sweater is more of an accomplishment than anything I've ever done

sareneve

2y↑1

@Cat Splat AHAHAHA it's my arm lol i knit a sweater and forced my brother to take a picture of me laying in the grass being all ~aesthetic~ but i guess that doesn't work if nobody can tell what it is lmao

Cat Splat

2y↑1

I’ve been staring at your pfp for way too long trying to figure out what the blue thing is. Help 😭

Nana

2y↑31

My uni only has 20 students, and my first thought was to say I'd maybe be in the middle if we had an app like that bc the perception I have of myself is from the pictures I take. But honestly I'd be at the bottom, lmao, my body looks all wonky irl 😂

b b w

2y↑2

@Nana oooh I see :D

Nana

2y↑3

@b b w Not all schools are like in High School Musical, hahaha. It's a small university, only one career, few students per group, not even a group per grade.

b b w

2y↑2

How yall only have 20 students?

Confidential Confidential

2y↑17

When I was younger and less confident (and weighed less) I'd get hit on by weird guys. Now I only get compliments on my personality and confidence. Since I'm ace this is such a welcome change. No one will ever try to grope me again, I'll glare them into submission if they hit on me LOL

Lucacy240

2y↑2

Seriously, people need to realize that men will also often try to take advantage of "lesser attractive" women with low confidence and if you try to talk about it people might not even believe you. Sick of peoplehere acting as if only attractive women get harassed.

OᄆO

I think I need to learn this "Glare them to submission" skill.
Oh wait. Nobody hit on me. *cries in the corner of the room

Isah

1y↑1

Para mim, a beleza é relativa. Não acredito que aja gente feia ou bonita, mas sim que eu veja uma atratividade maior em certos tipos de pessoas. No entanto, serei sincera e digo que uma parte consideravelmente grande da minha opinião seja influenciada pelo o que a sociedade vê como bonito.

SkoczMiNaPukiel

I've been single my whole life, I can see I'm not considered attractive, the funny thing is I like the way I look. I guess I'm the only one 🤣 I felt very ugly when I was younger but now I finally look the way I'm supposed to and I like my face without makeup and my slightly overweight body 🙃 I don't love it but I feel comfortable.

Bro Koly

1y↑1

Funnily enough both ugly and pretty people have to suffer because people don't see past their appearance. I don't think you can compare two people's pains to each other and it sucks that people lash out at them for things outside out of their control

cole

2y↑3

as a gay male artist i feel like what i perceive as beauty in females is tied with what i like to see in art, which is very different to what these people were thinking about so yeah, ranking people is absolutely stupid, thats the only conclusion you can get to

Alessandra Sanders

I’m at the look where old ladies absolutely adore me. Yes I dress very alternative so that’s one of the main reasons why they love me. I’m pretty happy with it all though tbh!

I’m very oblivious, scatter brained, and very childish when I let my guard down. The pretty privilege helps me with that around people.

Jessica Johnston

I usually wouldn't look for this kind of stuff, but thanks to you I can learn something new! Thanks for teaching me how to be a better, more aware person 😊👍

Jessica Cox

2y↑34

I can tell you what the moral of that show was. I'm probably the oldest one here lol slow learner but it took me 39 years to learn this lesson so listen up kids! The moral is to focus on only yourself and move in silence to win at life. Easier said than done but there it is! Even better if you want to take it up a notch, try to bore people to death so they don't bother you and think you're a loser. 😜

K & D joshi

2y↑1

I already know I'm bore and peeps only approach me when they need me lol. I do the same

T de Lioncourt

2y↑15

In France we say "To live happy, one should live hidden." I'm near 30 and I think about this more & more, don't live your life to please others' standards or flex on them. Most people I know who are like this are unhappy behind the shiny surface.

Astronaut violet

2y↑87

Your hair looks amazing and Asian dramas are out of this world.

fernanda maria

2y↑5

I understand Edvasian talking about that pimple situation. Cause it's not like the cakes and cookies that are made of: Flour, sugar, butter, chocalate etc... and still have frosting on top that made her have a pimple. It was the tiny piece of chocolate that Nano gave her the main culprit😂.

zji

2y↑6

AGree about the milk!!! Haha love how you tossed that in there!
And Yes, I like to set up favorites and preferences because I struggle to make decisions, I overanalyze and spend way too long... so the only way I can make decisions fast and without worry is to have set "favorites" - like always getting the same thing at a restaurant. And I have a backup or two, a list of preferences, in case one isnt available or I just want some variety.
I have always found it interesting how we like to categorize, and in some situations it can be helpful, but when we categorize and "rank" people it can be problematic.

Elsa ken

1y↑1

'Girl from Nowhere' doesn't actually teach moral lessons. They show you the reality in a bizzare way and leave it up to you to gain what you want from it. It depcits society and its absurd standards in an absurd way.

Cat Lady

I haven’t recovered from having stepbrothers tell me I had a big nose, since I was 12. I’m 23 now, but I constantly tell myself how I hate how it looks with my side profile. I also was always told I looked like my dad. I’ve always struggled with my weight too. When I see pictures of me at 275+ lbs,
I just see my dad. I’m not saying being fat makes you a horrible person, but it has put stress on my body and depresses me when I think of how I gained 60+ lbs quickly.

Pandora's Paradiso

2y↑10

I’m so glad you talked about Girl from
nowhere. It’s one of my favorite shows lol. I’m a new subscriber, and I’ve been enjoying all of your content!!

Elina T

2y↑7

I don’t see the point of dieting, injecting and photo editing your way to fit the prevailing beauty standards just to look like thousands of other people trying to do the same thing. It’s so much more fun to be in your own lane and find the style and look that reflects your own unique personality.

Yeah, I’ll never be a 10 by modern beauty standards, but I sure love the way I look in my 50s inspired dress, long tailored coat, vintage 1930s hat and American Duchess shoes.

six

2y↑5

I just wish more ppl had your voice and way of speaking. It's so calming. Is that so much to ask ;-; I THINK NOT

Mi

2y↑5

People can talk to therapist about what's going on, but cannot talk to their loved ones about it. It's kinda sad.

FizzyGravity☆

1y↑1

I’ve had my ups and way downs it’s just very rare to find the right people who appreciate you and to talk to and who just doesn’t care about things in life

Apparatus 101

The REAL reason why looks matter is because your brain already knows what it feels like when you look at something you desire. By simply looking at something, we allow ourselves to fully imagine what it would be like if we actually did do it.

But then FEAR is when we never found out what happens when you do end up doing what you thought about doing when you did look at it.

Shelly

2y↑4

sadly nowadays a lot of people are doubling down and supporting toxic beauty standards and calling it a fact. i’m a stan, but a lot of this ugly mindset is due to kpop and korean media

Zara Emoji

2y↑5

I LOVE you for talking About The Girl From Nowhere as an example it’s one of my favorite batshit crazy shows. I remember the episode where a teacher lost her shit and shot up her school. It has a lot of deep messages in every episode behind the chaos it’s great.

Samiyah W

I normally watch these videos in 2x speed so I got used to Ed’s voice sounding fairly fast and higher pitched so watching something in normal speed was a shock. Had no idea he spoke this slowly 😭😭😭

Cynical Senpai

2y↑15

I remember watching this lol I laughed so hard the entire time

Jesús Rodríguez Guerrero

2y↑1

I looove girl from nowhere, I'm glad you made me watch that episode again, and I'm really happy that you are getting such good sponsorships too !!

Nai Luna

2y↑103

I honestly believe all human brains have some underlying connection, I mean so many unexplainable things that all tie back to the brain... we are literally star dust

Kyoza

1y↑1

I hate the whole "rating" and "ranking" people youtube videos and tiktoks. Being told what number you are is dehumanizing. I just hate that concept because, idk, it just feels wrong and hurtful. I just want everyone to get along but I know this world won't allow it.

bosh

2y↑2

You know I was thinking about how physical appearance makes such a difference whether people like other people or not recently. I think I have a cool personality, interests, and am pretty nice and outgoing usually. I can talk to all kinds of people and get along well in different situations. But I have like zero friends. I'm not even joking. I did gain weight over Covid and since moving overseas and I feel like I'm judged b/c I'm overweight and people might think I'm a certain way. I feel like when I was younger, thinner, and probably better looking I had friends and people flirted with me more. Now that I'm like this, I'm ignored. My personality is the same as it was then, in fact it's prob improved if anything. It's so fucking depressing to go day in, day out and just be so lonely. Thankfully I'm married (he likes me at least haha), have a son, and a dog to chill with or it would be too much for me to deal with. People are shallow and it's stupid. Don't judge people on their appearance/weight, but who they actually are as people.

cutelonelygayasian

2y↑10

We pick butterflies over Moths, we all do it. It’s reality

Chidiogo Ikeh 🥀🍫

I hate both

Blyndfold

2y↑5

No human being should be ranked. That's actually inhumane to be honest. If we're to be ranked in every category, every person will have a category they'd be ranked the lowest.

優『Mimic』

2y↑6

"Tell me you experienced pretty privileged and ugly treatment without telling me you experienced them"

*Got diagnosed with depression* 👁👄👁💅

Alex the Ravenclaw

That Jubilee ranking women video was difficult to watch. As the audience, I was already like “I’ve got my ranking!” But if I were there, I’d be concerned more about hurting feelings.

Amy

2y↑63

Edvasian, why do you have to prove that you're human? Do you have something to tell us?🤨

Alex

He's one of them AI vtubers, I'm sure of it.

Matcha

@preusterreich
I eat cereal with water

preusterreich

2y↑7

he pours the milk before the cereal... obviously not human

Austin Barrett

1y↑1

I'd consider myself a 4 out of 10, I would rate myself a 5 but my teeth bring it down, I didn't brush my teeth that much when I was younger so they've become a dull yellow/white colour and my two front teeth ended up growing in crooked so I don't smile often. This is how I would rank the girls(1-the Asian,2- the black one,3- one in the black jacket,4-skinny white,5-chubby white)

SilverHassium 062

YES! Someone's finally talking about the masterpiece that is Girl from Nowhere

This show is about a character, Nanno, who is a demon (? It's never explained, but the fanbase believes her to be a personification of Karma) and moves in to a new school/au each episode. There, she'll infiltrate the system and discover all that is rotten about human nature, before spectacularly destroying everyone involved from inside out. It's gore and dark but oh, so so great.

On season two she's confeonted by another like her, the girl with the red ribbon, who the fanbase deemed to be "Vengeance". If one is Karma, and the other Vengeance, you can only imagine that they don't agree all the time, right? Well, that leads to wonderful power playing between the duo