Just The Way You Are
Walker and Jay Lyrics


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Those nights in the cabin
We were cured in
A desire
Your words honey bourbon
Tainted saccharine
Love misfired
Saved me
Embraced me
Thought this was a haven 'til we torched it to the ground
I was ready to accept you
Cause we are a twofold flame

You think your words are gospel
Control me; make me treat you like my northern star
It's just the way you are
But I'm not your disciple
And in my head I
I'll leave you just the way you are

You were so despotic
And I liked it
So I'm partially to blame
But rein in your rhetoric
It's inaccurate
I won't take it to the grave
I was ready to accept you
Cause we are a twofold flame

You think your words are gospel
Control me; make me treat you like my northern star
It's just the way you are
But I'm not your disciple
And in my head I
I'll leave you just the way you are

Tornado affair it's been
I was sucked in
Now I love you from afar

You think your words are gospel
Control me; make me treat you like my northern star
It's just the way you are
But I'm not your disciple




And in my head I
I'll leave you just the way you are

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Just The Way You Are" by Walker and Jay paint a picture of a tumultuous relationship filled with passion, toxicity, and eventual realization. The song begins by describing intimate moments spent together in a cabin, suggesting a sense of escape and bliss. However, it quickly becomes apparent that this love is both sweet and tainted, represented by the metaphor of "words honey bourbon, tainted saccharine." There is a sense of miscommunication or misalignment in their love, as expressed through the line "Love misfired."


The singer acknowledges being saved and embraced by their partner, believing that the relationship was a haven. However, they also acknowledge that the relationship ultimately self-destructed, symbolized by torching it to the ground. Despite being ready to accept their partner just the way they are, the singer realizes that this is not a healthy dynamic. They reject being controlled and treated like a disciple, choosing to separate themselves mentally from the toxicity of the relationship.


The chorus reinforces this stance, with the singer directly addressing their partner's belief that their words are gospel. They reject this idea and assert their independence, refusing to be controlled. The final verse describes the aftermath of the relationship as a "tornado affair." The singer acknowledges being drawn into the chaos and intensity but has now come to love their partner from a distance, preserving their own well-being.


Overall, "Just The Way You Are" explores the intricacies of a love that is both alluring and toxic, highlighting the importance of recognizing one's worth and maintaining emotional boundaries.


Line by Line Meaning

Those nights in the cabin
Remembering the nights we spent together in the peaceful cabin


We were cured in
We found solace and healing in each other


A desire
The intense longing and passion we shared


Your words honey bourbon
The intoxicating and sweet words you spoke


Tainted saccharine
Although sweet, your words held underlying deceit or manipulation


Love misfired
Our love went astray and didn't work out as planned


Saved me
You rescued me from my loneliness and pain


Embraced me
You accepted and held me close


Thought this was a haven 'til we torched it to the ground
I believed our relationship was a safe and secure place, but we destroyed it completely


I was ready to accept you
I was prepared to fully embrace and love you


Cause we are a twofold flame
Because the passion and intensity between us burned brightly


You think your words are gospel
You believe your words hold absolute truth


Control me; make me treat you like my northern star
You try to manipulate and control me, steering my life solely based on your guidance


But I'm not your disciple
I refuse to blindly follow and worship you


And in my head I
In my thoughts and mindset


I'll leave you just the way you are
I will accept you as you are, without trying to change or control you


You were so despotic
You were authoritative and demanding in a cruel and oppressive way


And I liked it
I found myself attracted to your dominant and forceful nature


So I'm partially to blame
I acknowledge my own responsibility for the negative aspects of our relationship


But rein in your rhetoric
However, you need to control and restrain your manipulative words and behavior


It's inaccurate
Your words are not truthful or genuine


I won't take it to the grave
I refuse to keep silent and carry your lies and manipulation to my death


Tornado affair it's been
Our relationship has been tumultuous and destructive like a tornado


I was sucked in
I was deeply drawn into the chaos and intensity of our connection


Now I love you from afar
Now I have learned to love you from a distance, without being consumed by your destructive influence




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Written by: Hailey Johnson, Joseph Anthony

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Andrea Downing

I think that they would have made a great couple if he had stayed around

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@jksba02 Maddi Jane - Just The Way You Are (Bruno Mars). Thanks for watching.

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