ON MY OWN
Whitney Lyrics


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I'm wiser now
I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
So long ago
I'm stronger now
I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
And I should know
I put myself aside to do it your way
But now I need to do it all alone

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'll keep it real, you know
Time for me to do it on my own
Yeah yeah, mmm, yeah yeah

It's over now
I can't go back to living through your eyes
Too many lines
And if you don't know by now
I can't go back to being someone else
Not anymore
I never had a chance to do things my way
So now it's time for me to take control

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
Time for me to do it

Oh, I start again go back to one
I'm running things in my way
Can't stop me now, I've just begun
Don't even think about it
There ain't no way about it
I'm taking names, the ones of mine
Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone

I am not afraid to try it on my own
And I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real, you know
It's time for me to do it
See I'm not afraid to try it on my own
And I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel




No matter what I'm gonna keep it real, you know
It's time for me to do it on my own, hey, on my own

Overall Meaning

In the song “On My Own”, Whitney Houston tells a story about getting over a failed relationship, one in which she felt like she lost control of herself. She begins by describing how much she has grown and how much wisdom she has gained since her relationship ended. She says she has learned from her mistakes and has perfected her instincts. Houston then sings about how her previous partner stifled her and dictated her every move. She reveals that the relationship was a difficult one, and alludes to a messy breakup, “It’s over now, I can’t go back to living through your eyes.”


However, Houston feels empowered and emboldened by this experience, as she sings in the chorus, “I am not afraid to try it on my own, I don’t care if I’m right or wrong, I’ll live my life the way I feel, no matter what I’ll keep it real, you know, time for me to do it on my own.” Houston shows how she is moving forward in a positive, determined way. As she sings, “I am taking names, the ones of mine, yes I’m gonna take my turn, it’s time for me to finally stand alone," she demonstrates her newfound sense of freedom and sense of self.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm wiser now
I have gained wisdom through my experiences


I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
I have learned from my mistakes and grown as a person


So long ago
It has been a significant amount of time since I was that foolish girl


I'm stronger now
I have built up strength and resilience from my struggles


I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
Through my mistakes, I have gained insight on how to navigate my life


And I should know
I am confident in my ability to make decisions for myself


I put myself aside to do it your way
I have neglected my own desires in order to please someone else


But now I need to do it all alone
It's time for me to prioritize my own needs and desires


And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I am confident in my ability to succeed without someone else's guidance or approval


I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I am willing to take risks and learn from my mistakes regardless of the outcome


I'll live my life the way I feel
I will prioritize my own desires and happiness in how I choose to live


No matter what I'll keep it real, you know
I will stay true to myself and my values


Time for me to do it on my own
It's my turn to take control of my life


It's over now
My past dependence on someone else is done and over with


I can't go back to living through your eyes
I am no longer willing to neglect my own desires to appease someone else


Too many lines
There were too many restrictions and rules placed on me before


And if you don't know by now
It should be clear to you at this point


I can't go back to being someone else
I am my own person and refuse to change myself for someone else's sake


Not anymore
I am done with compromising my own happiness for others


I never had a chance to do things my way
I was always pressured to follow someone else's path rather than forging my own


So now it's time for me to take control
I am ready to be in charge of my own life


Oh, I start again go back to one
I am starting fresh and beginning anew


I'm running things in my way
I am taking charge and making decisions for myself


Can't stop me now, I've just begun
I am determined and won't be deterred


Don't even think about it
There is no room for negotiation; I am doing things my way


There ain't no way about it
There is no alternative, I'm in control now


I'm taking names, the ones of mine
I am asserting my own identity and autonomy


Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It's my chance to lead my life as I see fit


It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone
It's time for me to be independent and rely on myself


See I'm not afraid to try it on my own
I am fearless in my desire to take control of my life


It's time for me to do it on my own, hey, on my own
It's my time to be my own person and pursue my own path




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Jason Edmonds, Kenneth Edmonds, Carole Sager, Aleese Simmons, Nathan Walton

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@itsyoursmj

I'm wiser now
I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
So long ago
I'm stronger now
I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
And I should know
I put myself aside to do it your way
But now I need to do it all alone
And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'll keep it real you know
Time for me to do it on my own
Yeah yeah, mmm, yeah yeah
It's over now
I can't go back to living through your eyes
Too many lies
And if you don't know by now
I can't go back to being someone else
Not anymore
I never had a chance to do things my way
So now it's time for me to take control
And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
Time for me to do it
Oh I start again go back to one
I'm running things my way
Can't stop me now, I've just begun
Don't even think about it
There ain't no way about it
I'm taking names, the ones of mine
Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone
I am not afraid to try it on my own
And I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
It's time for me to do it
See I'm not afraid



All comments from YouTube:

@marisarodriguez235

My ex bf was battling cancer ,he loved Whitney .When he heard this song he said play it at his funeral,he felt at peace.He had given up and just asked that we pray for him, to be pain free .He died June 27th 2003, few weeks after his 20th birthday ,I was 19.Every time I hear this song it hurts but it also brings me peace, Rest in Peace to you both 🙏🙏.

@18photonerd

Sasi Rodriguez god bless you both 🙏🏾

@robertomacchiafave3563

Thanks

@thepositivegenerationtv1789

Sasi Rodriguez touching story. Am sorry dear and let that awesome soul Rest In Peace

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@SteveMK

So sorry.. It hurts

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@deborahvaughn6830

This song doesn’t get the recognition it deserves. It’s one of her best.

@heatherboreland5018

💯

@jecintawanjiku9735

I agree

@paddym80

Whenever I need to remember who I am,made of...I play this track.Rest in power Ms Houston.

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