It Doesn't Have to Be That Way
Will Hoge Lyrics


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There's a storm brewing out on the open sea
Sweeping its way here to you and me
But all the lights are out and the streets are dark
And there's a soul without a fire trying to find a spark
And this heartbreak season, it's leaving its mark on me

But it doesn't have to be that way
It's not the way that it has to be
It's coming over the walls and I'm drowning in it, can't you see?
It's not the way that it has to be
Doesn't have to be that way

Black night sitting heavy all around
I got a mind full of heartaches and hand me downs
I got a freight train screaming inside my head
That says you can't find love in a stranger's bed
And my mouth is full of all the words that I wish I had said

It's so much harder now
That the blues skies have gone away
I wish I had just one more day

Whiskey like water flowing down a drain
And I'm wasted as a candle in a hurricane
But you can't stop something that's this far gone




Goodbyes are easier than I was wrongs
And suicide ain't a matter of degree

Overall Meaning

Will Hoge's song "Doesn't Have to Be That Way" strongly expresses the emotional turmoil of a person who is going through a tough time in their life. The metaphor of the storm brewing out on the open sea is symbolic of the emotional storm that the person is going through. They feel like they are drowning in their pain and are desperate for a spark to reignite their soul. The heartbreak season has left its mark on the person, and they feel lost in the dark. However, the person realizes that this is not the only way and that things can change. The line "It doesn't have to be that way" is an assertion that things can get better with hope, perseverance, and a refusal to give up.


The remaining lyrics follow the same theme of a person trying to overcome the negativity in their life. The person feels like they are trapped in a black night, filled with heartaches and a freight train of negative thoughts. The line "you can't find love in a stranger's bed" is a reminder to the person that rushing into something new will not heal their pain. The song ends on a somber note, with the person feeling wasted and helpless. The line "suicide ain't a matter of degree" serves as a cautionary reminder that giving up is not a solution.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a storm brewing out on the open sea
There's trouble approaching and it's getting closer


Sweeping its way here to you and me
It will soon affect us both


But all the lights are out and the streets are dark
Things seem bleak and hopeless


And there's a soul without a fire trying to find a spark
Someone is struggling to find motivation or inspiration


And this heartbreak season, it's leaving its mark on me
The difficult experiences have had an impact


But it doesn't have to be that way
Things can be different


It's not the way that it has to be
How things currently are is not the only option


It's coming over the walls and I'm drowning in it, can't you see?
The emotions are overwhelming and suffocating


It's not the way that it has to be
There are alternatives


Doesn't have to be that way
The situation can change for the better


Black night sitting heavy all around
The atmosphere feels oppressive and negative


I got a mind full of heartaches and hand me downs
Memories of past difficulties are weighing heavily


I got a freight train screaming inside my head
Thoughts and emotions are intense and overwhelming


That says you can't find love in a stranger's bed
It's not healthy or fulfilling to seek affection in casual relationships


And my mouth is full of all the words that I wish I had said
Regret over unspoken thoughts or feelings


It's so much harder now
The current situation is more challenging than before


That the blues skies have gone away
The previous optimism or hopefulness is now absent


I wish I had just one more day
A desire to go back and make things right or different


Whiskey like water flowing down a drain
Alcohol consumption is excessive and unproductive


And I'm wasted as a candle in a hurricane
Emotional turmoil has left the artist feeling burned out and helpless


But you can't stop something that's this far gone
It's difficult to change something that's already progressed so far


Goodbyes are easier than I was wrongs
It feels easier to walk away, even if it means admitting fault


And suicide ain't a matter of degree
Mental health should not be taken lightly or dismissed as insignificant




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: WILL HOGE

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