I Wish He Didn't Trust Me So Much
Womack Bobby Lyrics


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I'm the best friend he's got
I'd give him the shirt off my back
He knows he can trust me with his life
But he's tryin' to leave me alone
Leaves me alone with his wife

I wish he didn't trust me so much
I think he really trusts me too much

How can he be so blind?
We've both got the same good taste
He should know when he's gone on his business trips
I can't help watchin' his woman
'Cause I'm losin' my grip

I wish he didn't trust me so much
I think he really trusts me too much

Though I swear, all is not my will
But there's a way
There's a way she make me feel
Lord, I'm scared, so scared of what I do
If she starts feelin' same way too

You shouldn't trust me so much
(We got a problem)
I think you really trust me too much

It's not that she leads me on
I'm gettin' there all by myself
But just being with her all, all alone
I can't help but hopin'
That he never comes home

I wish he didn't trust me so much
I think you really trust me too much

I wish he didn't trust me so much
(We got a problem)
I think you really trust me too much

Though I swear, all is not my will
(Is not my will)
But it's somethin' about the way
The way she makes me feel
Lord, I'm so scared, scared of what I do
If she starts feelin' the same way too

I wish he didn't trust me so much
(Ooh)
I think he really trusts me too much
(I got a problem)

You can see, I'm caught up
(I wish he didn't trust me so much)
Caught up in the middle




(I think he really trusts me too much)
And I'm down, tired of playing [Incomprehensible]

Overall Meaning

"I Wish He Didn't Trust Me So Much" is a song by Bobby Womack that came out in 1985. The verses outline a man who feels guilty by the level of trust his best friend has in him, specifically when it comes to his friend's wife. He acknowledges that he's in love with her, and his friend's trust makes it harder for him to resist the temptation. The chorus delivers the crux of the song's theme by echoing that he wishes his friend didn't trust him so much, and acknowledges that his friend "really trusts me too much."


The song is layered with conflicting emotions of the singer- his love and respect for his friend and his moral compass face to face with his temptation for his friend's wife. The lyrics, written by Jim Ford and Lolly Vegas, have ambiguity that makes the need for trust a crucial factor, different than most songs which are strictly-written in black and white. Womack paints the picture of the struggles with human need and the destructive emotions that overcome the best of us when we least expect it. The song's message might not always be easy to embrace, but it communicates nuance and complexity, just like the human heart.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm the best friend he's got
I am his closest friend and confidant.


I'd give him the shirt off my back
I am always willing to help him, no matter the circumstances.


He knows he can trust me with his life
He believes in my trustworthiness to take care of his life if needed.


But he's tryin' to leave me alone
He is trying to distance himself from me.


Leaves me alone with his wife
He leaves me alone with his wife, which makes me uncomfortable and nervous.


I wish he didn't trust me so much
I am afraid that he trusts me too much and it could lead to a potential affair with his wife.


I think he really trusts me too much
I believe that his level of trust in me is too high and may endanger his marriage.


How can he be so blind?
I wonder how he cannot see the potential consequences of leaving me alone with his spouse.


We've both got the same good taste
His wife and I have similar tastes, which makes it harder for me to resist her.


He should know when he's gone on his business trips
He should be aware of the risks of leaving me with his wife during his frequent business trips.


I can't help watchin' his woman
I find myself watching his wife when he's not around against my better judgment.


'Cause I'm losin' my grip
I feel like I'm losing control and might not be able to stop myself from cheating with her.


Though I swear, all is not my will
I am not trying to actively pursue an affair with her.


But there's a way
I cannot deny that there is an attraction between us.


There's a way she make me feel
She makes me feel a way that I cannot ignore.


Lord, I'm scared, so scared of what I do
I am afraid of the consequences if I give in to my desires.


If she starts feelin' the same way too
If she reciprocates my feelings, I might not be able to stop myself from cheating with her.


You shouldn't trust me so much
He should not trust me so much to risk his marriage.


(We got a problem)
He and I have a problem that needs to be addressed.


It's not that she leads me on
I cannot blame her for my feelings and actions.


I'm gettin' there all by myself
I am responsible for my actions and feelings towards his wife.


But just being with her all, all alone
Being alone with her is a temptation that I cannot resist.


I can't help but hopin'
I find myself hoping that he never comes home and catches us.


That he never comes home
I fear that he might find out and it would destroy our friendship.


I'm caught up
I am in a difficult situation that is hard to resolve.


Caught up in the middle
I am conflicted between my friendship with him and my feelings towards his wife.


And I'm down, tired of playing [Incomprehensible]
I am tired of pretending that everything is normal and keeping my feelings bottled up.




Lyrics © ABKCO Music Inc.
Written by: HAROLD TIMOTHY PAYNE, JAMES EUBANKS, PETE LUBOFF

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Comments from YouTube:

@marquez27jones

After knowing the backstory and then listening to this…
I’m speechless 💀

@sierria64

Womack was a cold backstabbing. A peice of work😮

@215khalil6

What’s the back story

@aDDmoreJuiceTV

He was creeping with Sam Cook's wife behind his back. This Song by Bobby Womack, 1985, was him telling on himself. Womack was a favored student of Sam Cooke, the rich & influential R&B singer-songwriter. He was murdered in 1964. Just 3 months later, Womack married Cook's widow. Bobby Womack then took the hot mess to the next level, sleeping with Sam Cooke's daughter and wife. Womack is one of the most diabolical cats to ever croon a tune.🤦‍♂🤦‍♂

@KeishaHart2

Sam Cooke never saw it coming....then again Sam got killed cheating, so....

@DN-kv1un

Well... if you think the “backstory” of this song has anything to do with Sam Cooke, then fortunately your “speechless” problem should be clearing up very soon...

Sam Cooke was already dead (for 20 years) - when this song was written, recorded, and released. The song has nothing to do with Sam Cooke. The song is about something else. And someone else.

And btw, if you think it is just a random occurrence, that this video poster has your misinformed comment featured at the top of this comments page - think again.

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@gloccstarsleepy9132

He put his soul into that “I can’t help but hopin THAT HE NEVER COMES HOME”😂😂😂 cold as ice🥶🥶

@vinkeyla23

🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶

@MrPayne-pk6kl

😂😂😂

@ynicjay01

Real talk man long live bobby

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