Be a Man
Wordsworth Lyrics


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[Verse 1:]
Hit the play button, got a chance to say something
The pen to the page touching like a paint brushing
Carriages, baby daddies, but we ain't husbands
Marriage is in the future, but we ain't rushing
It's a design we began that's defining a man
Money, women, fights, spending time in the can
A father only shows a boy how to become a man
Not true, single parents showed a mother can
Stepdad tried to show your mom his raising abilities
Was rent free, now she want paying utilities
Your responsibilities was grades, babysitting, no work
Just keeping from those convict facilities
It's cool that, once you were the man of the house
But when your mom finds a man then you should plan to be out
And I don't want to be a failure neither
Coming to jail to see us, reading mail, using mail to free us
Finally Ma, I did it, my music's coming
Tell you everything so you know that I'm doing something
See the shame in my face when I ask you for money
So embarrassed almost had Khadijah asking you for me
Wanna be a man, but I know my pride will kill me
I'm your son, so if I didn't aks you'd find it silly
In my memory my worst day is
Asking you for money so I can go and buy your birthday gift
[Chorus:]
Probably didn't think I'd make it but I survived
Standing looking at the sky as time would fly
And you knew I'd be a man when I decide
Surprise Surprise, Surprise Surprise
Probably didn't think I'd make it but I survived
Standing looking at the sky as time would fly
Everything's good 'cause you stood by my side
Surprise Surprise, Surprise Surprise

Wave your hands side to side [x8]
[Verse 2:]
Superficial, showing off for the group that's with you
Artificial, yes man in your crew makes you official
And ladies jump in your car, cruising the city
Picking guys how they look so that their children are pretty
Midguided, but inspired, from our hoods came songs
Buying things to the make up for a childhood that's gone
Better days now steps away, close to the edge
Went through enough, but it's tough, rougher roads are ahead
Pledge to good health, long life, we toast and break bread
Cause we made it past the age we were supposed to be dead
Fabric of life, what I compose is a thread
Poems I've said go beyond violets blue and roses are red
When gone they'll have a monumental stone of a throne
Sculpted of me, chin in my hand, holding my head
The lessons written in these rhymes, like a blessing in disguise




The fittest survive and real recognice likewise
[Chorus x2]

Overall Meaning

In Wordsworth's song "Be a Man," he reflects on what it means to be a man, how he survived through struggles, and ultimately how he wants to make his mother proud by pursuing his music career. In the first verse, Wordsworth touches on the common beliefs of what defines a man, such as fighting, money, and women. He also acknowledges that being a man goes beyond those stereotypes, and single mothers can show their sons how to become a man. Wordsworth's own struggle with asking his mother for money shows the difficulty in reconciling pride and humility, as he wants to be self-sufficient but also wants to make his mother happy.


In the second verse, Wordsworth critiques the toxic masculinity and materialism of his community, where men try to impress others with superficiality. However, he also acknowledges the inspiration that comes from his community's experience, which he expresses through his art. He also honours the importance of family in surviving life's obstacles.


Overall, "Be a Man" is a song about perseverance, self-reflection, and celebrating the idea that being a man is not defined by a set of standards, but rather the ability to overcome emotional and societal obstacles.


Line by Line Meaning

Hit the play button, got a chance to say something
I have a platform and opportunity to express myself through music


The pen to the page touching like a paint brushing
My lyrics are like artwork, carefully crafted and expressive


Carriages, baby daddies, but we ain't husbands
We may have children, but we're not yet ready for marriage


Marriage is in the future, but we ain't rushing
We understand the importance of marriage but are taking our time to get there


It's a design we began that's defining a man
As we navigate through life, we are creating our own definition of what it means to be a man


Money, women, fights, spending time in the can
Part of our journey involves dealing with financial struggles, relationships, conflicts, and even imprisonment


A father only shows a boy how to become a man
Traditionally, it's a father's role to teach his son how to be a man, but it's not the only way


Not true, single parents showed a mother can
A single mother can also effectively teach her son what it means to be a man


Stepdad tried to show your mom his raising abilities
Sometimes, stepfathers try to take on the role of raising a boy into a man


Was rent free, now she want paying utilities
Living rent-free with a stepfather isn't a long-term solution, and eventually, financial responsibilities need to be addressed


Your responsibilities was grades, babysitting, no work
As a young man, your responsibilities should be focused on education and family, not work


Just keeping from those convict facilities
By staying focused on education and family, you can avoid ending up in prison


It's cool that, once you were the man of the house
It's a natural feeling to want to be the man of the house when you're growing up without a father figure


But when your mom finds a man then you should plan to be out
It's still important to respect your mother's choices and not overstay your welcome when she finds a new partner


And I don't want to be a failure neither
I don't want to disappoint my mother, and I want to be a successful man


Coming to jail to see us, reading mail, using mail to free us
My mother has been there for me, even when I was in jail, and she used her resources to help me


Finally Ma, I did it, my music's coming
I'm proud to share with my mother that my music is finally being recognized


Tell you everything so you know that I'm doing something
I want my mother to know that I'm actively pursuing my dreams and making progress


See the shame in my face when I ask you for money
It's difficult for me to ask my mother for financial help, and I feel ashamed when I have to do so


So embarrassed almost had Khadijah asking you for me
I was so embarrassed that I almost had someone else ask my mother for money on my behalf


Wanna be a man, but I know my pride will kill me
I want to be self-sufficient and not have to rely on my mother, but my pride may be my downfall


I'm your son, so if I didn't aks you'd find it silly
Because I'm her son, it's not silly for me to ask my mother for help when I need it


In my memory my worst day is
Asking my mother for money because it symbolizes my struggle with financial independence


Asking you for money so I can go and buy your birthday gift
Even though I had to ask my mother for money, it was so I could buy her a gift and show my appreciation


Superficial, showing off for the group that's with you
Sometimes, we prioritize superficial things like impressing our friends


Artificial, yes man in your crew makes you official
Having people who agree with everything you say can make you feel more important or validated


And ladies jump in your car, cruising the city
Women can be attracted to status and material possessions, and some men take advantage of that


Picking guys how they look so that their children are pretty
Women may choose their partners based on physical appearance in hopes of having attractive children


Midguided, but inspired, from our hoods came songs
Growing up in difficult circumstances can lead to misguided behavior, but this same environment can also inspire creativity


Buying things to the make up for a childhood that's gone
Some people try to fill the void left by a difficult childhood by buying material possessions


Better days now steps away, close to the edge
Despite past struggles, a better future is within reach


Went through enough, but it's tough, rougher roads are ahead
Although we've already gone through a lot, there may be more challenges and struggles to come


Pledge to good health, long life, we toast and break bread
Despite life's difficulties, we make a commitment to living a healthy, long life and celebrate by sharing food with loved ones


Cause we made it past the age we were supposed to be dead
Despite the odds, we've survived and are living past the age that we were statistically expected to die


Fabric of life, what I compose is a thread
Life is like a fabric, and I'm adding to it by creating and expressing myself


Poems I've said go beyond violets blue and roses are red
My poetry has a deeper meaning and significance beyond typical rhymes about flowers


When gone they'll have a monumental stone of a throne
When I pass away, I'll leave behind a legacy that will be remembered for a long time


Sculpted of me, chin in my hand, holding my head
My legacy will be a representation of me, with my signature pose and demeanor


The lessons written in these rhymes, like a blessing in disguise
Through my music, I'm sharing important life lessons, even if they're not always apparent or obvious


The fittest survive and real recognice likewise
Those who are strong and resilient are the ones who will thrive and succeed, and others will recognize and respect that


Wave your hands side to side [x8]
This line is a command to the audience to participate and celebrate along with the music




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Sasha Laban

2020, still Rockin 1 of the finest underrated Wordsmiths to ever bless ears with Lyrics. Wordsworth

Ricky Palacios

this is some real shit, WAY BETTER THEN ANYTHING O THE RADIO RIGHT NOW!!! ANYONE CAN SAY WORDS BEHIND A BEAT, BUT SOMEONE THAT CAN MAKE A STORY PLAY OUT IN YOUR HEAD, THAT TRUE ART!! MAD RESPECT KID!!!!!!!!!!

Simson

More views! This song deserves it!

J. Baked

Still bumping in 2019 folks

Oscar Gomez

So dope!

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WOrds an unknown GOAT since verse 1

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That's Facts.

chrisctlr

It should have more views, but hopefully it's because they've all had the album since 04' like me.

jay sullivan

Do you know what the scene from the beginning is taken from? I'm never able to find anything on it.

cambridge16

668 views and no comments? Where are the people that LOVE real, good, meaningful, music?

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