My Heart's Not In It
Yo La Tengo Lyrics


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Since you left me I've been out with other guys
But they don't see the love light shining in my eyes
And when they want to kiss goodnight
I just can't seem to do it right

My heart's not in it, oh no
My heart's not in it, oh no
Cause my heart still belongs to you

Cause when I think that someone else has won my heart
I find it's only wishful thinking on my part
And there's just nothing I can do
To get that feeling I had with you

My heart's not in it, oh no
My heart's not in it, oh no
Cause my heart still belongs to you

I don't know just what my friends are telling you
But if they say I'm doing fine, it's just not true
I may run with the crowd and stay out late
But baby let me set you straight

My heart's not in it, oh no
My heart's not in it, oh no
Cause my heart still belongs to you





My heart's not in it, oh no

Overall Meaning

The song "My Heart's Not In It" by Yo La Tengo is a classic ballad about heartbreak and longing. The song's narrator is lamenting the loss of a past love, and although they have been out with other people, they cannot seem to find anyone who compares to their former partner. The lyrics describe the complete lack of interest in pursuing new relationships, despite the fact that the singer has tried. The chorus "My heart's not in it, oh no. My heart's not in it, oh no. Cause my heart still belongs to you," repeats the central message of the song.


The song is a poignant reminder of the fact that sometimes, no matter how much you try, you simply cannot move on from someone you love. The singer's heart still belongs to their former partner, and they are unable to find any joy in dating anyone else. The lyrics capture the sadness and longing that come with a breakup, and the difficulty of letting go of someone who you still love.


Overall, "My Heart's Not In It" is a beautiful, melancholy song that speaks to the universal experience of heartbreak. Its gentle melody and intimate lyrics make it a classic ballad and a favorite of indie music fans.


Line by Line Meaning

Since you left me I've been out with other guys
I have been dating other people since you broke up with me


But they don't see the love light shining in my eyes
None of them make me feel the way I felt when I was with you


And when they want to kiss goodnight, I just can't seem to do it right
I can't reciprocate their affection because my heart is still with you


Cause my heart still belongs to you
Even though we are no longer together, my heart still loves and yearns for you


Cause when I think that someone else has won my heart, I find it's only wishful thinking on my part
I try to convince myself that someone else has taken your place, but that is just a figment of my imagination


And there's just nothing I can do, to get that feeling I had with you
No matter how hard I try, I cannot replicate the love and connection I had with you


I don't know just what my friends are telling you, but if they say I'm doing fine, it's just not true
I am not okay without you, regardless of what my friends may be saying to you


I may run with the crowd and stay out late, but baby let me set you straight
I may be socializing and partying to try and distract myself from missing you, but deep down I am still hurting


My heart's not in it, oh no
I am not fully invested in these new relationships because my heart is still with you




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