Happiness' Border
Youth Group Lyrics


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He was invited so he came to the wedding,
Even though he hadn't seen her
For two months or three,
And there over silver cutlery and bedding
She told him that she'd never felt so happy.

He lived his life out of order,
Stopped at happiness' border.
They read his crimes out aloud,
But he'll never know how
To make her so happy when there's a crowd.

Although she'd never agreed in theory
She felt, biologically, it was time.
Still, the whole rigmarole makes her uneasy,
That's why they were drinking this cask wine





She will be left lonely,
But she will be right.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Youth Group's song "Happiness' Border" depicts a complex story of a man at a wedding who meets a woman whom he had not seen in two to three months. As they sit and dine together, the woman expresses how happy she is at that moment. However, the man seems to be struggling with his own sense of happiness, as he has lived his life out of order and never quite managed to cross over into true contentment. The lyrics suggest that the man has a troubled past as they mention reading out his "crimes" aloud. Despite his flaws, he longs to make the woman happy, but struggles with doing so when in a crowd.


The woman in the story seems to be conflicted about her own feelings towards marriage, as she never agreed with the idea in theory but feels the biological pressure to settle down. She is drinking cask wine and feels uneasy about going through the whole "rigmarole" of getting married. The final line of the song "She will be left lonely, but she will be right" indicates that she may be better off alone and not getting married despite societal pressures.


Overall, the song is an insightful commentary on societal pressures to find happiness through conventional means such as marriage while navigating personal struggles and personal definitions of happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

He was invited so he came to the wedding,
He attended the wedding after receiving an invitation, despite not having seen her in two or three months. During the event, she confessed to feeling extremely happy.


Even though he hadn't seen her
He hadn't had any contact with her. Despite this, he accepted the invitation to her wedding.


For two months or three,
He had not seen her for a period that ranged between two to three months.


And there over silver cutlery and bedding
While having dinner, we found ourselves surrounded by luxurious silver cutlery and high-quality bedding.


She told him that she'd never felt so happy.
During the wedding, the bride stated that she had never felt happier than she was at that moment.


He lived his life out of order,
His life lacked order and structure.


Stopped at happiness' border.
He made choices that interfered with his pursuit of happiness, causing him to seek it elsewhere.


They read his crimes out aloud,
They read his wrongdoings aloud for others to hear.


But he'll never know how
He won't understand how to make her joyful when in public.


To make her so happy when there's a crowd.
He doesn't understand how to please her when they're surrounded by people.


Although she'd never agreed in theory
Despite her not feeling comfortable with the idea of marriage in principle,


She felt, biologically, it was time.
She felt that it was the right time for her to get married biologically.


Still, the whole rigmarole makes her uneasy,
Nonetheless, the entire process of getting married makes her uncomfortable.


That's why they were drinking this cask wine
That's the reason they're drinking this cask of wine.


She will be left lonely,
After the wedding, she may feel isolated.


But she will be right.
Despite feeling lonely, she knows that she's made the right decision.




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