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I Want You to Want Me
Damhnait Doyle Lyrics


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I want you to want me, I need you to need me
I'd love you to love me, I'm beggin' you to beg me

I want you to want me
I need you to need me, I'd love you to love me
I'll shine up the old red shoes, put on a brand-new skirt
I'll come home straight from work if you say that you love me

Didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
Didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'



Feelin' all alone without a friend, you know you feel like dyin'
Oh, didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'

I want you to want me, I need you to need me
I'd love you to love me, I'm beggin' you to beg me
I'll shine up the old red shoes, put on a brand-new skirt
I'll come home straight from work if you say that you love me

Didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
Oh, didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
Feelin' all alone without a friend, you know you feel like dyin'
Oh, didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
Feelin' all alone without a friend, you know you feel like dyin'
Oh, didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'

I want you to want me, I want you to want me
I want you to want me, I want you to want me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Damhnait Doyle's "I Want You to Want Me" are about the desire for reciprocal affection and attention in a relationship. The singer longs for the other person to want and need them just as much as they do - the repetition of the phrase "I want you to want me" solidifies this desire. The singer also mentions the lengths they would go to for the other person's affection, including shining up their shoes and putting on a new outfit. The line "I'll come home straight from work if you say that you love me" indicates a willingness to prioritize the relationship and their partner's needs.
The verse "Didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin', feelin' all alone without a friend, you know you feel like dyin'" further emphasizes the singer's empathy for the other person's emotional struggles, and their desire to provide comfort and support. The repetition of "didn't I" suggests that the singer has been there for the other person in the past and expects reciprocity.


Overall, the song is about the universal desire for love and validation in a relationship. The repetition of phrases like "I want you to want me" and "didn't I see you cryin'" highlight the need for reciprocity and emotional support.


Line by Line Meaning

I want you to want me, I need you to need me
I am in love with you and I desire for you to have the same feelings towards me.


I'd love you to love me, I'm beggin' you to beg me
Not only do I want you to want me, I also yearn for you to love me so deeply that you will beg for my affection.


I'll shine up the old red shoes, put on a brand-new skirt
I am willing to make an effort for you, to dress up and take care of myself in the hopes of catching your eye.


I'll come home straight from work if you say that you love me
My love for you is so strong that I would be willing to change my daily routine just to hear you declare your love for me.


Didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
I have witnessed your pain and sadness, and I want to be the one to comfort you and make you happy.


Feelin' all alone without a friend, you know you feel like dyin'
I understand how it feels to be lonely and without companionship, and I want to be the one to fill that void for you.


Oh, didn't I, didn't I, didn't I see you cryin'
I acknowledge the emotional pain you have experienced and I want to be there for you to help you through it.


I want you to want me, I want you to want me
My desire for you is so strong that I need to reiterate it, hoping that my feelings will be reciprocated.




Writer(s): Melissa Etheridge, Rick Nielsen

Contributed by Kaitlyn E. Suggest a correction in the comments below.

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