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Cowgirls Don't Cry
Brooks & Dunn Lyrics


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Her daddy gave her, her first pony
Then taught her to ride
She climbed high in that saddle
Fell, I don't know how many times
He taught her a lesson that she learned
Maybe a little too well

Cowgirls don't cry, ride, baby, ride
Lessons in life are gonna show you in time
Soon enough, you're gonna know why
It's gonna hurt every now and then
If you fall get back on again
Cowgirls don't cry

She grew up, she got married
But it never was quite right
She wanted a house, a home and babies
He started comin' home late at night
She didn't let him see it break her heart
She didn't let him see her fall apart

'Cause cowgirls don't cry, ride, baby, ride
Yeah, lessons of life are gonna show you in time
Soon enough, you're gonna know why
It's gonna hurt every now and then
If you fall get back on again
Cowgirls don't cry

Phone rang early one mornin'
Her mama's voice, she'd been cryin'
Said, "It's your daddy, you need to come home
This is it, I think he's dyin'"
She laid the phone down by his head
The last words that he said

Cowgirl don't cry, ride, baby, ride
Lessons of life show us all in time
Too soon God'll let you know why
If you fall get right back on
The good Lord calls everybody home
Cowgirls don't cry

Overall Meaning

In Brooks & Dunn's song Cowgirls Don't Cry, the lyrics tell the story of a girl who was taught to ride horses by her father. She fell off the horse many times, but her father always taught her to get back up and not to cry. The song implies that these lessons of perseverance and resilience helped her to stay strong throughout her life, dealing with challenges and heartbreaks.


The second verse of the song tells the story of how the cowgirl grew up, got married, and tried to create a life for herself. However, her marriage was not what she hoped for and she faced disappointment and heartache. Despite this, she didn't let this experience break her spirit and continued to hold on to her strength and resilience, a trait commonly associated with cowgirls.


The song takes a poignant turn in the last verse, where she hears that her father is dying and rushes to be with him. As she puts the phone down by his head, he tells her once again, "Cowgirls don't cry." The song's chorus repeats the message that was instilled in the cowgirl from a young age - to keep riding, even if she falls down, because losses and setbacks are part of life.


Overall this song is a tribute to the strength and determination of cowgirls, and the message that the life-long lessons they learn from their fathers are key to their success.


Line by Line Meaning

Her daddy gave her, her first pony
Her father gave her a beginning to her love for riding.


Then taught her to ride
The father taught her how to handle the pony and ground skills.


She climbed high in that saddle
She became fearless and comfortable with riding because of her father's guidance.


Fell, I don't know how many times
She had to learn and accept the harsh realities of riding through falling multiple times.


He taught her a lesson that she learned
Her father taught her that cowgirls don't cry or give up but to persist and persevere.


Maybe a little too well
The lesson was instilled deep in her, maybe too deep for her own good.


Cowgirls don't cry, ride, baby, ride
The chorus is a reminder of the lesson: cowgirls are strong and resilient with the ability to keep going even if they fall.


Lessons in life are gonna show you in time
No matter how hard it may be, life will teach you the necessary lessons that may seem trying or painful.


Soon enough, you're gonna know why
Eventually, the reasons for the trials of life will become clear.


It's gonna hurt every now and then
Pain will come as a part of life's trials and lessons.


If you fall get back on again
The mantra of cowgirls: never give up, always keep going even if you fall.


She grew up, she got married
She moved through life even as she got older and met someone to share her life with.


But it never was quite right
Despite her aspirations and dreams for a happy life, something always felt off or incomplete.


She wanted a house, a home and babies
She had common dreams and aspirations of many young women to have a family and settle down.


He started comin' home late at night
Her husband began to stray from their marriage, causing turbulence in their life together.


She didn't let him see it break her heart
Although hurt and brokenhearted by her husband's infidelity, she continued to stay strong and persevering even if it hurt.


She didn't let him see her fall apart
She recognized that cowgirls don't cry or show vulnerability, so she kept her struggles hidden.


Phone rang early one mornin'
Unexpected news came to her one morning.


Her mama's voice, she'd been cryin'
Her mother, in tears, delivered the news that her father was dying.


Said, 'It's your daddy, you need to come home
She had to return home to pay her respects and goodbye to her father.


This is it, I think he's dyin'
The news was serious, and he might not make it.


She laid the phone down by his head
She said her farewell over the phone to her father who was on his deathbed.


The last words that he said
Her father's last words of encouragement and love.


Cowgirl don't cry, ride, baby, ride
Her father's last words were about carrying on the lesson and to keep living a strong, resilient life.


Lessons of life show us all in time
Life will show you what you need to learn eventually through both bitter and sweet experiences.


Too soon God'll let you know why
God will shed light on the reason for the struggles but maybe after one's life.


If you fall get right back on
A reminder to cowgirls of their strength and that they should keep going after failure.


The good Lord calls everybody home
Accepting the inevitability of death and that everyone will eventually leave this earth.


Cowgirls don't cry
A final reminder of her father's lesson: to be resilient, strong and to never give up.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Ronnie Dunn, Terry McBride

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Comments from YouTube:

HaunnaThree

I’m a boy, but my mom always used to play me this song when I was around 3. I’m 16 now and I still use this song to encourage me to keep myself up. I have been through 15 years of abuse and have always kept myself going. Country music has always kept me going. I love this song.

CryMeARiver63

Sending you a BIG cyber HUG !! 💖

Tom Demoss

Just read your reply about the song cowgirls don't cry. Hope all is well with you, young man. My family understands hard times. If you need to talk send a message, every young person needs a different point of view. Sometimes a stranger whose heart is in the right place can help.

Jo-Lo 69

Just so long as you have great music like this in your heart you will be just fine. God bless you. X

Larry Smith

You don't have to do it alone. Here for you if you need to talk

Deborah Farris

​@CryMeARiver63 ❤

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Regan Pool

My dad dedicated this song to me. I bawl every time I listen to it. I’ll always be his “cowgirl” ❤️

Valerie🌹

Same

Derek Jones

2020 and I'm still listening to this song with a tear in my eye.

Maranda Ashcraft

same

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