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Intentional Heartache
Dwight Yoakam Lyrics


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She drove South I-95 straight through Carolina
She didn't use no damn map to find her way
She pulled off on a state route just north of Charlotte
And took mostly county roads the rest of the day.

She said I'll give you an intentional heartache
That'll hurt a lot worse than the one he left in me
Would you all step back? so a girl might to get started.
And then he won't have to look twice to see.

She drove up across the yard and though his momma's garden
Didn't touch the brakes, she slammed right into his Chevrolet
Tossed out his clothes, boots, Bud cap, and signed Dale Jr. poster
Then shot the whole mess neon green, a can of DuPont spray

She said I'll give you an intentional heartache
That'll hurt a lot worse than the one he left in me,
Would you all step back? so a girl might to get started,
And he won't have to look twice to see.

She said I'll give you an intentional heartache
That'll hurt a lot worse than the one that you left in me
And tell your little tramp to step back, so your new ex-wife can get started
And you won't have to look twice to see

She said watch this!
Then she sprayed that Bud cap bright green,
Said "Connie put that can of spray paint down!"
Just watch this,

Then she pulled them Nakona boots out, sprayed them neon too
Put the can down Connie!
She give it hell with that can of spray paint
He kept yelling at her

Put the can down
And she sprayed to him ,
Then she did a little dance on top of that Dale Jr. poster,
Just kind of a hoochie coochie

"Alright! Connie,"
He said "I saw ya Connie, now put it down"
Said "watch this," run over to the passenger side of that Monte Carlo
And she sprayed tramp

On the hood, on the back of the house
They tried to call her sister
What was that girl's name?
Said "you gotta come get this girl!"

Nancy, I think. Said watch this,
Said look here,
Look here. Watch this!

She run that girl back up on the porch.
She was screaming Tramp this and Tramp that
Oh yeah she gave him an intentional heartache,
"Alright , alright Connie I heard ya."

His momma was cryin' in on the floor,
His daddy said "told ya that girl was gonna get like that"
She said watch this here.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Dwight Yoakam's song Intentional Heartache tell the story of a woman who has been hurt by a man and decides to take revenge. She drives down South I-95 and takes mostly county roads to avoid using a map. She then drives to the man's house and wrecks his car, throws out his belongings, and sprays everything neon green with a can of DuPont spray paint. She is not done yet, so she sprays the word "tramp" on the hood of the car and back of the house to warn the man's new lover to stay away. Throughout the song, she repeats the phrase, "I'll give you an intentional heartache that'll hurt a lot worse than the one he left in me," indicating that this is not just about revenge but also about the woman reclaiming her power and autonomy.


The song portrays a strong and empowered woman who refuses to be victimized by a man's mistreatment. She takes matters into her own hands and enacts her revenge on her own terms, showing her strength and resilience. The repeated phrase "watch this" highlights her confidence and determination as she takes action against her former lover.


Line by Line Meaning

She drove South I-95 straight through Carolina
She drove down the highway in search of revenge.


She didn't use no damn map to find her way
She didn't care about directions or guidance in her quest for revenge.


She pulled off on a state route just north of Charlotte
She got off the highway and took a state route.


And took mostly county roads the rest of the day.
She used smaller roads and paths to avoid being seen, but also to slow down the journey and savor the anticipation of revenge.


She said I'll give you an intentional heartache
She declared her intention to hurt her ex worse than he hurt her.


That'll hurt a lot worse than the one he left in me
Her ex caused her pain, but she wants him to feel more than double the pain she felt.


Would you all step back? so a girl might to get started.
She asked the others present to step back and witness her revenge plot against her ex-lover.


And then he won't have to look twice to see.
She wants her ex-lover to experience the revenge, to realize the gravity of his mistake, and to understand who caused him his pain and heartache.


She drove up across the yard and though his momma's garden
She drove recklessly, with zero regard for anyone or anything in her path.


Didn't touch the brakes, she slammed right into his Chevrolet
She methodically destroyed everything that belonged to him, every materialistic possession that he cared about.


Tossed out his clothes, boots, Bud cap, and signed Dale Jr. poster
She threw his most treasured items outside and sprayed them with neon green spray paint.


Then shot the whole mess neon green, a can of DuPont spray
She sprayed every object she threw out with neon green spray paint, signifying her vengeance.


She said I'll give you an intentional heartache
She reiterated her desire to cause her ex pain.


That'll hurt a lot worse than the one he left in me,
She continued to emphasize the point that her pain was not enough, and she wants him to suffer more.


Would you all step back? so a girl might to get started,
She continued requesting that the others step back and witness the revenge she was exacting on her ex.


And he won't have to look twice to see.
She wanted her ex to know that she was the one causing his pain, to not give room for doubt.


She said watch this!
She was revving up to do something even more destructive.


Then she sprayed that Bud cap bright green,
She continued spraying his belongings with neon green paint, making sure every object had a clear mark of her vengeance.


Said "Connie put that can of spray paint down!"
She disregarded anyone who tried to stop her from spraying neon green paint over everything.


Just watch this,
She was determined to continue causing harm no matter who was against her.


Then she pulled them Nakona boots out, sprayed them neon too
She continued spraying every object she had thrown outside with neon green paint, including his boots.


Put the can down Connie!
She continued disregarding anyone who tried to stop her from completing her revenge.


She give it hell with that can of spray paint
She continued spraying objects with neon green paint with apparent satisfaction and vehement determination.


He kept yelling at her
Her ex-lover tried to stop her, but he was ineffectual as she was already out of control.


Put the can down
Although she faced obstructions, she kept causing harm and continued spraying objects with neon green paint.


And she sprayed to him ,
She called out to her ex and showed him that she was responsible for his heartache.


Then she did a little dance on top of that Dale Jr. poster,
She stood on top of his favorite poster, claiming her dominance and mocking him.


Just kind of a hoochie coochie
She demonstrated dominance over him with her dancing, showing that he was no longer in control.


"Alright! Connie,"
He wanted her to stop her rampage and call off her revenge on him.


He said "I saw ya Connie, now put it down"
He finally saw her actions and was pleading with her to stop, but she refused to yield.


Said "watch this," run over to the passenger side of that Monte Carlo
She continued to enact her revenge and went over to his car to complete the destruction.


And she sprayed tramp
She sprayed the word 'tramp' on his car, claiming that he was unfaithful to her.


On the hood, on the back of the house
She made sure that every inch of the car had a mark of her vengeance and hate.


They tried to call her sister
They tried to contact her relatives to intervene and stop her from causing more damage.


What was that girl's name?
They couldn't recall the name of the girl they contacted, showing the level of confusion and desperation to prevent her destruction.


Said "you gotta come get this girl!"
They wanted someone to take her away and stop her from causing more harm.


Nancy, I think. Said watch this,
One of the contacts that the crowd tried to reach was Nancy. Meanwhile, the girl in question continued causing destruction and said, 'watch this.'


Said look here,
She was proud of her destruction and wanted everyone to witness it.


Look here. Watch this!
She continued enacting her revenge, wanting to show the extent of the pain she felt and transposing it on to him.


She run that girl back up on the porch.
She went back up to his home to continue her rampage.


She was screaming Tramp this and Tramp that
She continued to call him a 'tramp,' claiming that he was unfaithful to her.


Oh yeah she gave him an intentional heartache,
She fulfilled her promise and succeeded in enacting an intentional heartache on her ex-lover, causing him much pain and hurt.


"Alright , alright Connie I heard ya."
He understood what she was doing to him and accepted that she intentionally caused him heartache.


His momma was cryin' in on the floor,
His mother was heartbroken at the destruction her son had brought on himself.


His daddy said "told ya that girl was gonna get like that"
His father had foreseen his son's actions and had warned him against mistreating his ex.


She said watch this here.
She was proud of herself and wanted everyone to acknowledge her as the victorious one.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DWIGHT DAVID YOAKAM

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Josefina Pardo

Que Rok tan tan , fantástico!me encanta estoy bailando con mi amigo ,que músicos ! 💋💋🌻🌻🌻👌👌🙆👌🥘🥘🥘

Bob Lobblaw

This will become the theme song for chicks tearing up guys property, keying their cars, smashing their guitars, etc. Thanks a lot Dwight! : )

L Singletary

Then walk the line. Don't give us a reason cause that's all we are waiting on.

Ruby Joiner

Love it!!! If only I had the nerve with my cheating POS

TheVictorianEdge

I poured all the drinks and tea etc with vinegar. In the country. No stores. Lol. Laughed while leaving.

L Singletary

I pulled an Amber Heard on my ex before I left. I took a dump in a box then threw it and a pound of chicken livers as far as I could into all the vents the air and heat came from. I never saw him again so I do not know how he fixed it. Chicken livers rot fast and stink for a long time. I have spent many happy hours imagining how much intentional misery I left for him and his new sweetie who moved in immediately.

Louise Rawle

Rock on Dwight,this is awesome,you can see he is having a ball...love it,love him.

Påkerman 3D

Super nice music!
63 years old, but looks and sounds like 20! I want to know the secret...

L Singletary

The song is 30 years old.

Mike Monson: Songs; guitars; and gear!

So great

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