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Does Your Mama Know About Me
Bobby Taylor & The Vancouvers Lyrics


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(Does your mama know about me?
Does she know just what I am?
Will she turn her back on me)
Or accept me as a man?
And what about your Dad?
Did you think of what he'll say?
Will he be understanding
Or does he think the usual way?
Maybe I shouldn't worry
But I've been through this before
And I'd like to get things straight
Before I'm knocking on your door
(Does your mama know about me?
Does she know just what I am?
If she says forget about me)
Do you think you'd understand?
And what about your friends?
Do you care what people say?
Will you accept the burdons
I know will surely come your way?
Maybe I shouldn't worry
But I've been through this before
And I'd like to get things straight
Before I'm knocking on your door
(Does your mama know about me?
Does she know just what I am?
Will she turn her back on me?)
Or accept me as a man?
We've got to stand tall
Can't stumble or crawl
We've got to be strong
For love that's so right
Can't be wrong
And every day I see it grow
And I don't want to let it go
I guess that's why I gotta know
(Does your mama know about me?
Does your mama know about me?
Does your mama know about me?
Does your mama know about me?
Does your mama know about me?)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Does Your Mama Know About Me" by Bobby Taylor & The Vancouvers revolve around a man questioning if the girl he is interested in has told her mother and father about him, a Black man. He wonders if her mother and father will accept him or turn their backs on him, and if her friends will accept the "burdens" that come with being with a Black man. He wants to make sure that everything is clear before he approaches her door.


This song touches on the topic of interracial relationships, which was a taboo topic during the time the song was released. The lyrics reveal the concerns and anxieties Black men had about dating interracially in the 1960s. The song was released in 1968, which was a time of social and political unrest in America. The Civil Rights Movement was in full swing, and the song serves as a reflection of the time.


One interesting fact about the song is that it was written by Tommy Chong, who would later become famous as part of the comedy duo Cheech and Chong. Another interesting fact is that the song features a spoken monologue by producer Brian Holland in the middle of the song, which was a rare technique at the time. The song reflects the sound of Motown, which was the label that Bobby Taylor & The Vancouvers were signed to. The song reached number 29 on the US Billboard Hot 100 chart in 1968.


Chords:
Verse: Am, Dm, G, C
Chorus: F, G, C


Note: The actual chords might vary based on individual interpretations.


Line by Line Meaning

Does your mama know about me?
Asking if the person's mother knows about the singer's existence and identity


Does she know just what I am?
Questioning if the person's mother knows the singer's true identity


Will she turn her back on me)
Worried if the person's mother will reject the singer


Or accept me as a man?
Hoping if the person's mother will accept the singer as a mature individual


And what about your Dad?
Asking about the person's father's opinion


Did you think of what he'll say?
Asking if the person has considered the father's response


Will he be understanding
Questioning if the father will be accepting


Or does he think the usual way?
Worried if the father will hold conservative views


Maybe I shouldn't worry
Expressions of self-doubt


But I've been through this before
Drawing from past experiences


And I'd like to get things straight
Asking for clarity and honesty in the relationship


Before I'm knocking on your door
Wanting to establish these details before progressing further in the relationship


(Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question from earlier


If she says forget about me)
Asking if the person would abandon the singer if the mother objects


Do you think you'd understand?
Questioning if the person is empathetic towards the singer's situation


And what about your friends?
Asking how the person's social circle would react


Do you care what people say?
Asking about the person's attitude towards social pressure


Will you accept the burdons
Asking if the person will be willing to take on the challenges that may arise


I know will surely come your way?
Acknowledging the difficulties that may arise


We've got to stand tall
Recognizing the importance of confidence in the relationship


Can't stumble or crawl
Emphasizing the need to remain firm and determined


We've got to be strong
Reiterating the importance of strength and resilience


For love that's so right
Reminding the person that their connection is important


Can't be wrong
Stating the importance of their love being right


And every day I see it grow
Noticing the development and growth of their relationship


And I don't want to let it go
Expressing a desire to maintain the relationship


I guess that's why I gotta know
Explaining their motivation for seeking clarification


(Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question from earlier


Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question again


Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question again


Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question again


Does your mama know about me?
Repeating the question again




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: THOMAS CHONG, TOM BAIRD

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Eugene Reed

I'm So Glad To Know Music Like This.
Today's Music Is Do Very Hard To Appreciate.

This Song Snd Many From That Time Period Has Stood The Test Of Time.

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All comments from YouTube:

George Rodriguez

It doesn't get old... I still love these types of songs.
No one sings like this anymore

Toni Williams

I just finished listening to this beautifully sung ballad! I miss this type of music! But I'm glad that I grew up in an era that produced so many talented artist! I'm thankful to be able to listen to Ole Skool music on Youtube

Scott Burton

This certainly qualifies as a lost hit-Outstanding song!

Lanae Marie

I remember my Dad listening to this record back in the 90s when I was a kid. I’m 39, and I appreciate music from this time.

Linda Harris

It's 2022, and I'm still loving this song 🥰

Keith Davis

Great record make u think what he's talking getting a point across about things back in the race relations ☝ TOWN PHILLY just going back in time

Mike Milburn

Yes I still love that song ever since I was a little child back in 1968 Mike Milburn my first love and her name was Evelyn

Margo Langley

I total agree, Ms Harris!

Keith Davis

True good comment 👍

Micheal Sweeney

,,2023 right there with you love this song

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