Take Care
[d.o.p] Lyrics
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Kindly or to dismay
Where the sticks and stones are left to the side
And you take out knives to play
I might have taken this the wrong way
The advice that you gave
All the while you stood there waiting, waiting for a ride
I know I didn't tell you but couldn't you see?
That I wasn't taking passengers
I was trying to take care of me
It hurts to know you thought I should have done better
At my worst
It hurts to know that for you
I couldn't put myself first
I know it's a two-way street
But, babe, I was drowning
When my ship was sinking I was trying to survive
All the while you stood there waiting, waiting for a ride
I know I didn't tell you but couldn't you see?
That I wasn't taking passengers
I was trying to take care of me
You said let someone in
You said open the door
You said I was so far away
You said you couldn't stand it anymore
I said self-care's not selfish
I said I just need some time
I said you weren't the only one I put away
I said there were others left behind
Maybe if I remembered you were there
the whole time
We wouldn't be saying goodbye
When my ship was sinking
I was trying to survive
All the while you stood there waiting
Waiting by my side
I know I didn't tell you
I know I should've told you
The song "Take Care" by [d.o.p] is a heartfelt examination of a relationship that has turned sour due to difficulties in communication and understanding. The opening lines of the song refer to the two ways that people can give advice - kindly, or in a way that is intended to hurt. The second option, as the lyrics suggest, involves taking out knives to play, which can be interpreted as a metaphor for inflicting emotional pain.
The song goes on to explore the aftermath of a challenging time in the relationship, where one person was struggling to keep their head above water while the other stood by, seemingly waiting for a chance to judge and criticise. The line "I know I didn't tell you but couldn't you see? That I wasn't taking passengers, I was trying to take care of me" highlights the importance of self-care, but also the difficulty of explaining this to someone who may not understand or have experienced similar struggles.
As the song progresses, there is a sense of regret and sadness for what has been lost. Both parties are shown to have made mistakes - the singer for not communicating their needs more clearly, and the other person for not being more understanding or supportive. The final lines, "I know I didn't tell you, I know I should've told you" suggest that there could have been a different outcome if only they had been able to express themselves more fully.
Overall, "Take Care" is a poignant and relatable song about the challenges of navigating relationships, especially when dealing with issues of mental health or emotional wellbeing.
Line by Line Meaning
There are two ways to give advice
Advice can be given in a gentle or harsh manner
Kindly or to dismay
In a nice or unpleasant way
Where the sticks and stones are left to the side
Physical violence is not the answer
And you take out knives to play
Using words to hurt someone instead of physical violence
I might have taken this the wrong way
I may have misunderstood your advice
The advice that you gave
What you told me to do
When my ship was sinking I was trying to survive
When I was struggling, I was doing my best to keep afloat
All the while you stood there waiting, waiting for a ride
You were waiting for me to rely on you to save me
I know I didn't tell you but couldn't you see?
Even though I didn't say it, couldn't you tell?
That I wasn't taking passengers
I didn't have the capacity to take care of anyone else
I was trying to take care of me
I was doing what I thought was best for myself
It hurts to know you thought I should have done better
It's painful to realize you expected more from me
At my worst
When I was struggling the most
It hurts to know that for you
It's painful to know that in your eyes
I couldn't put myself first
I couldn't prioritize myself
I know it's a two-way street
I understand that relationships involve effort from both sides
But, babe, I was drowning
But, darling, I was really struggling
You said let someone in
You advised me to open up to others
You said open the door
You encouraged me to be more receptive
You said I was so far away
You felt like I was distant from you
You said you couldn't stand it anymore
You expressed that you were tired of the way things were
I said self-care's not selfish
I believed that taking care of myself was necessary, not selfish
I said I just need some time
I explained that I needed space to take care of myself
I said you weren't the only one I put away
I let you know that you weren't the only person I distanced myself from
I said there were others left behind
I mentioned that I had other relationships that I needed to work on
Maybe if I remembered you were there
Perhaps if I had acknowledged your presence earlier
the whole time
The entire time I was struggling
We wouldn't be saying goodbye
We wouldn't be parting ways like this
Waiting by my side
Being patient and supportive during a difficult time
I know I should've told you
I realize I should have communicated better with you
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Written by: Anne O'Rourke
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[Rihanna]
Know youโve been hurt by someone else
I can tell by the way you carry yourself
If you let me, hereโs what Iโll do
Iโll take care of you
Iโve loved and Iโve lost
[Drake]
Iโve asked about you and they told me things
But my mind didnโt change
And I still feel the same
What's a life with no fun, please donโt be so ashamed
Iโve had mine, youโve had yours we both know
We know, they donโt get you like I will
My only wish is I die real
Cause that truth hurts, and those lies heal
And you canโt sleep thinking that he lies still
So you cry still, tears all in the pillow case
Big girls all get a little taste
Pushing me away so I give her space
Dealing with a heart that I didnโt break
Iโll be there for you, I will care for you
I keep thinking you just donโt know
Trying to run from that, say youโre done with that
On your face girl, it just donโt show
When youโre ready, just say youโre ready
When all the baggage just ainโt as heavy
And the parties over, just donโt forget me
Weโll change the pace and we'll just go slow
You wonโt ever have to worry,
You wonโt ever have to hide
You've seen all my mistakes
So look me in my eyes
[Rihanna]
Cause if you let me, hereโs what Iโll do
Iโll take care of you
Iโve loved and Iโve lost
[Drake]
Yeah
Itโs my birthday, I'll get high if I want to
Canโt deny that I want you, but I'll lie if I have to
Cause you donโt say you love me
To your friends when they ask you
Even though we both know that you do (you do)
One time, been in love one time
You and all your girls in the club one time
All so convinced that youโre following your heart
Cause your mind donโt control what it does sometimes
We all have our nights though, donโt be so ashamed
Iโve had mine, youโve had yours, we both know
We know, you hate being alone
You ainโt the only one
You hate the fact that you bought the dream
And they sold you one
You love your friends but somebody shoulda told you sominโ to save you
Instead they say,
Don't tell me, I don't care
If you hurt, I don't tell you
You don't care, if your true
Don't tell me, I don't care
If you hurt, I don't tell you
You don't care, if your true
[Rihanna]
Know youโve been hurt by someone else
I can tell by the way you carry yourself
If you let me, hereโs what Iโll do
Iโll take care of you
Iโve loved and Iโve lost
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This song is timeless as fuck... Sounds just as fire as the first time.
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Yessir
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No kizzy!
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Honestly it does
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Who's watching in 2024?
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