Been so long
°²ÄÝËþ±´¿Ë(Anita Baker) Lyrics


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I won't be neglected
I won't be denied
The pleasure of your kisses
The pleasure of your smile

I think you take for granted
I'll always be here
Just because I love you
It doesn't mean I won't disappear

Chorus
Been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby
Been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby

Thoughts and mellow memories
Of once upon a time
Slowly creepin' on me
And they linger on my mind

Just let somebody love you
I just don't know why
Whenever I get close to you
You want to run and hide

Chorus
It's been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby
It's been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby
It's been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby
It's been so long. .. Of missin' you, baby

We began lovers' dance
The road was smooth to romance
And we sang love sweet song every day

I believe that love would stay in my heart
Now it's torn all apart
It's gone away, I can't stay, I've got to say
I don't believe that you could do me this way

Now don't you understand
I'm in need of comfort
The comfort of your hand in mine
And what I feel inside
Why don't you come closer
I can't hide

Been so long
Been so long. .. Can't hide
Been so long
Been so long. .. It's too long, won't you come on, baby
Been so long. .. Won't you come home, see about me
See about me





Been so long

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of “Been So Long” by Anita Baker convey a sense of longing and frustration in a relationship that is not satisfying the singer's needs. She asserts that she won't be neglected or denied the pleasures of being with her partner. She feels that her love is being taken for granted, and just because she loves her partner doesn't mean that she will always be there. She has been missing her partner for a long time, and memories of their once happy relationship keep creeping up on her. She pleads with her partner to let her love them, and doesn't understand why they keep pushing her away. The lyrics imply that the relationship has hit a rough patch and the singer wants her partner to come closer and provide her with the comfort she needs.


An interesting fact about this song is that it was released as a single in 1990, and it became one of Anita Baker's most popular songs. It was written by singer-songwriter Michael Powell and was produced by Anita Baker and her longtime collaborator, Michael J. Powell. Another interesting fact is that the song was originally written for another artist, but Baker heard the demo and decided to record it herself. It was included on her fourth studio album, "Compositions", which earned her a Grammy Award for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance in 1991. "Been So Long" was a hit on both the R&B and Adult Contemporary charts, peaking at number four and number six, respectively.


Line by Line Meaning

I won't be neglected
I refuse to be ignored or treated as unimportant


I won't be denied
I won't take "no" for an answer or be refused what I deserve


The pleasure of your kisses
I desire the enjoyment and happiness from exchanging kisses with you


The pleasure of your smile
I desire the joy and delight that comes from seeing you smile


I think you take for granted
I have the impression that you don't appreciate or value me enough


I'll always be here
I'll continue to be present and available even if you don't recognize it


Just because I love you
My feelings of affection toward you doesn't mean that I'm obligated to stay in a situation that doesn't fulfill me


It doesn't mean I won't disappear
I might choose to leave and remove myself from this relationship


Been so long...Of missin' you, baby
It's been a while since we've been apart and I've been feeling the pain of missing you


Thoughts and mellow memories
Recollections of past experiences and feelings that bring me a sense of calmness and nostalgia


Of once upon a time
Of a time that seems like a fairy tale in the distant past


Slowly creepin' on me
Gradually invading my thoughts and emotions


And they linger on my mind
They remain persistent and lasting in my thoughts and memories


Just let somebody love you
Open yourself up to receiving love and affection from someone


I just don't know why
I can't understand why you resist or are reluctant to accept love


Whenever I get close to you
Every time I try to be intimate with you


You want to run and hide
You seem to want to avoid or escape the intimacy and vulnerability of our relationship


We began lovers' dance
We started a romantic relationship with excitement and anticipation


The road was smooth to romance
It was an easy and effortless path to falling in love


And we sang love sweet song every day
Our affection and devotion for each other was expressed through words and actions constantly


I believe that love would stay in my heart
I trusted that my love would endure and be reciprocated


Now it's torn all apart
Now it's ruined or destroyed


It's gone away, I can't stay, I've got to say
The love has vanished, and I can't continue this relationship, I need to express this


I don't believe that you could do me this way
I don't believe that you've acted towards me in this hurtful and disappointing manner


Now don't you understand
Can't you see or comprehend what I'm feeling?


I'm in need of comfort
I require care and support during this difficult time


The comfort of your hand in mine
I want to feel the warmth and reassurance of your physical touch


And what I feel inside
The intense emotions and thoughts that consume me


Why don't you come closer
Why don't you move towards me and show me more love and support


I can't hide
I can't suppress or conceal my feelings anymore


It's too long, won't you come on, baby
It's been too much time apart, can't you come back to me


Won't you come home, see about me
Will you please return home and check in on me, give me the care and attention I need




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Lyrics:



I dunno what I was thinking,
Leaving my child behind,
Now I suffer the curse and now I am blind

With all this anger, guilt and sadness,
Coming to haunt me forever,
I can't wait for the cliff at the end of the river,

Is this revenge I am seeking,
Or seeking someone to avange me
Stuck in my own paradox I wanna set myself free

Maybe I should chase and find
before they'll try to stop it
It won't be long before I'll become a puppet



It's been so long,
Since I last have seen my son
lost to this monster
to the man behind the slaughter

Since you've been gone
I've been singing this stupid song
So I could ponder
The sanity of your mother



I wish I lived in the present
With the gift of my past mistakes
But the future keeps luring in like a pack of snakes

Your sweet little eyes, your little smile,
is all I remember
Those fuzzy memories mess with my temper

Justification is killing me
But killing isn't justified
What happened to my son, I'm terrified

It lingers in my mind and the thought keeps on getting bigger,
I'm sorry my sweet baby, I wish I've been there.



It's been so long,
Since I last have seen my son
lost to this monster
to the man behind the slaughter

Since you've been gone
I've been singing this stupid song
So I could ponder
The sanity of your mother



@Adam81467

I don't know what I was thinking
Leaving my child behind
Now I suffer the curse and now I am blind
With all this anger, guilt and sadness
Coming to haunt me forever
I can't wait for the cliff at the end of the river
Is this revenge I am seeking?
Or seeking someone to avenge me?
Stuck in my own paradox, I wanna set myself free
Maybe I should chase and find
Before they'll try to stop it
It won't be long before I'll become a puppet
It's been so long
Since I last have seen my son lost to this monster
To the man behind the slaughter
Since you've been gone
I've been singing this stupid song so I could ponder
The sanity of your mother
I wish I lived in the present
With the gift of my past mistakes
But the future keeps luring in like a pack of snakes
Your sweet little eyes, your little smile is all I remember
Those fuzzy memories mess with my temper
Justification is killing me
But killing isn't justified
What happened to my son? I'm terrified
It lingers in my mind
And the thought keeps on getting bigger
I'm sorry my sweet baby, I wish I've been there
It's been so long
Since I last have seen my son lost to this monster
To the man behind the slaughter
Since you've been gone
I've been singing this stupid song so I could ponder
The sanity of your mother



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@noahhampsten1634

imagine your son gets clapped and you write a banger about it

@Red21957

Underrated commentt!!!💀💀💀😭😭😭


Edit: Yes I know it's not underrated anymore but it was when I first commented... Damn chill people

@amazingdann1165

Lol

@perfect8476

The fact that you used clapped made it funnier

@shushles

dude don't make me laugh, it's 2 am and my parents are gonna kill me if they notice I'm awake 💀
edit: I got clapped

@killa-b4741

I just died laughing at that

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@dantectopus8997

Child: *Get brutally murdered by a purple dude*

Mother: Pass me the mic...

@Val23995

HAHAHAHAH epic

@GamerLucario-gg5pl

Dantectopus Lol

@pureintellectualbeing3575

True

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