Tearin' Up My Heart
★N Sync Lyrics


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It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

(Hey, yeah)
Baby I don't understand
Just why we can't be lovers
Things are getting out of hand
Trying too much, but baby we can't win

Let it go
If you want me girl, let me know
I am down, on my knees
I can't take it anymore

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

(Ooh, alright)
Baby don't misunderstand (don't misunderstand)
What I'm trying to tell ya
In the corner of my mind (corner of my mind)
Baby, it feels like we're running out of time

Let it go
If you want me girl, let me know
I am down, on my knees
I can't take it anymore

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Tearin' up my heart and soul
We're apart I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Tearin' up my heart and soul (alright)
We're apart I feel it too (I feel it too)
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart, I feel it too
And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you





And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
With or without you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of ★N Sync’s song “Tearin’ Up My Heart” express the pain and confusion of being in a difficult relationship. The opening lines provide a concise statement of the situation: “it’s tearin’ up my heart when I’m with you, but when we are apart, I feel it too.” The singer is communicating that no matter what, the pain and heartache of the relationship is still felt. The second verse suggests that the lovers are struggling to communicate, as they are trying “too much” but still seem unable to “win.” Throughout the song, the singer pleads with the other person, asking them to “let it go” and to “let me know” if they want the relationship to continue.


The chorus of “Tearin’ Up My Heart” perfectly captures the tortured feeling of being in love with someone who causes an immense amount of pain. The repetition of the phrase “tearin’ up my heart” emphasizes the emotional toll the situation is taking on the singer. The bridge of the song contains some of the most heart-wrenching lyrics, as the singer admits that “no matter what I do, I feel the pain with or without you.” This line perfectly depicts the struggle of wanting to leave a toxic relationship but also suffering from the pain of being without the person. The song ends with the repetition of the chorus, once again highlighting the emotional turmoil of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
Being with you is causing me extreme heartache and emotional distress.


But when we are apart, I feel it too
Even when we're not together, I still feel the same level of pain and heartbreak.


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of what I do to try to alleviate this pain, it remains constant.


With or without you
Whether you're with me or not, the pain persists.


Baby I don't understand
I'm confused about why we can't be together.


Just why we can't be lovers
I'm struggling to comprehend why we can't pursue a romantic relationship.


Things are getting out of hand
Our situation is becoming too difficult to handle on my own.


Trying too much, but baby we can't win
We're putting in a lot of effort, but we're unable to succeed because of the circumstances.


Let it go
We should abandon our pursuit of being together because it's causing too much pain and distress.


If you want me girl, let me know
If you still want to pursue a romantic relationship with me, you need to let me know.


I am down, on my knees
I'm begging you to communicate your true feelings and intentions towards me.


I can't take it anymore
The emotional turmoil and pain is becoming too overwhelming for me to handle on my own.


Baby don't misunderstand (don't misunderstand)
I'm worried about you misinterpreting my words or actions.


What I'm trying to tell ya
I'm attempting to communicate something important to you.


In the corner of my mind (corner of my mind)
I've been thinking about this a lot and it's constantly on my mind.


Baby, it feels like we're running out of time
I'm concerned that we don't have much time left to make a decision about our relationship.


Tearin' up my heart and soul
You're causing me emotional distress that's affecting not just my heart, but my soul as well.


We're apart I feel it too
Even when we're not together, I still feel the same level of emotional pain and turmoil.


And no matter what I do, I feel the pain
Regardless of how I try to alleviate this pain, it persists within me.


With or without you
Whether you're with me or not, the pain is still present and affecting me.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Karitian Lundin, Martin Karl Sandberg

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