Stay together for the kids
♫ Blink 182 Lyrics


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It's hard to wake up
When the shades have been pulled shut
This house is haunted
It's so pathetic
It makes no sense at all
I'm ripe with things to say
The words rot and fall away
What stupid poem could fix this home
I'd read it every day

So here's your holiday
Hope you enjoy it this time
You gave it all away
It was mine
So when you're dead and gone
Will you remember this night
Twenty years now lost
It's not right

Their anger hurts my ears
Been running strong for seven years
Rather than fix the problems
They never solve them
It makes no sense at all
I see them everyday
We get along, so why can't they?
If this is what he wants
And this is what she wants
Then why is there so much pain?

So here's your holiday
Hope you enjoy it this time
You gave it all away
It was mine
So when you're dead and gone
Will you remember this night
Twenty years now lost
It's not right

So here's your holiday
Hope you enjoy it this time
You gave it all away
It was mine
So when you're dead and gone
Will you remember this night
Twenty years now lost
It's not right
It's not right




It's not right
It's not right

Overall Meaning

In "Stay Together For The Kids", Blink 182 tackles the heavy topic of divorce and its impact on children. The opening lines of the song reveal a sense of despair, as the singer finds it difficult to cope with the emotional turmoil of their broken home. The words "This house is haunted" suggest that the memories of happier times linger on, making it hard to move on. The lyrics also highlight the futility of trying to make things better, with the lines "I'm ripe with things to say, the words rot and fall away" indicating a sense of helplessness.


The chorus, "So here's your holiday, hope you enjoy it this time, you gave it all away, it was mine", can be interpreted as a message to the parents who have split up, accusing them of abandoning their responsibilities and leaving their children to deal with the aftermath. The lyrics "twenty years now lost, it's not right" further emphasize the devastating long-term effects that divorce can have on a family.


The final verse suggests that the parents are still consumed by their own issues and refuse to address the root of the problem. The line "Rather than fix the problems, they never solve them" highlights the cycle of dysfunction that can result from unresolved conflicts. The song ends with a repetition of "It's not right", driving home the sense of hopelessness and frustration felt by the children caught in the middle of a broken home.


Line by Line Meaning

It's hard to wake up
The situation is so difficult that it's hard to even start the day


When the shades have been pulled shut
The house is so sad and depressing that even the natural light is kept out


This house is haunted
The memories and emotions that linger in this house are overwhelming and suffocating


It's so pathetic
The state of affairs in this family is so sad and hopeless


It makes no sense at all
The way the family handles their problems and relationships is irrational and ineffective


I'm ripe with things to say
There are so many thoughts and emotions inside, waiting to be expressed


The words rot and fall away
But when the time comes to speak, the words dissolve and disappear


What stupid poem could fix this home
No amount of words or art can heal the deep wounds and issues within the family


I'd read it every day
Even though it wouldn't fix things, the artist would still hold onto any hope or comfort available


So here's your holiday
The family tries to put on a happy front and enjoy their breaks despite their troubles


Hope you enjoy it this time
But there is always a sense of sadness and false happiness in these moments


You gave it all away
The parents' constant fights and failures have robbed the children of their happiness and stability


It was mine
The family dynamic was once good and loving, but it's now been taken away


So when you're dead and gone
The singer ponders whether the parents will even realize the damage they have caused


Will you remember this night
Will the parents remember the moments when they tore their family apart and caused so much pain?


Twenty years now lost
The years that the family could have spent together in happiness and health are now gone forever


Their anger hurts my ears
The constant fighting and yelling between the parents is physically and emotionally painful for the children


Been running strong for seven years
This situation has been going on for far too long and the impact on the family is getting worse


Rather than fix the problems
The parents choose to ignore or exacerbate the issues instead of trying to solve them


They never solve them
The family is stuck in a cycle of hurt and pain because the parents refuse to address the root causes of their problems


I see them everyday
The artist witnesses the destructive behavior of the parents on a daily basis


We get along, so why can't they?
The children are able to maintain good relationships with each other, which begs the question of why the parents can't do the same


If this is what he wants
The parents' issues stem from their conflicting desires and decisions


And this is what she wants
Their individual wants and needs are at odds with each other, causing tension and pain


Then why is there so much pain?
The singer questions why their parents' desires are causing so much hurt and damage


It's not right
The situation within this family is unjust and unfair, and no one deserves to suffer like this




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MARK HOPPUS, TOM DE LONGE, TRAVIS BARKER, TRAVIS L BARKER

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@Mr.Scootini

Yeah I think most of us fell through the cracks.
School just wants to to graduate, they don’t care as much if you cheat or not on tests. They just want to get themselves a good score so they can get more money.
Teachers are crushed by the amount of work, student behavior, educational board requirements, im sure there’s more.
Parents just want to see you succeed. But they won’t tell you how to. Or teach you how to bc that’s the “schools job”

I think there is a fundamental disconnect between parents, school boards and teachers.

I think it’s safe to say that Americans schools are useless when it comes to getting kids, teens and young adults ready for the “real world”

It’s no wonder people fail hard after high school or college.



@Not-a-Cockroach

When we were young, the future was so bright
Woah-oh
The old neighborhood was so alive
Woah-oh
And every kid on the whole damn street
Woah-oh
Was gonna make it big and not be beat
Now the neighborhood's cracked and torn
Woah-oh
The kids are grown up, but their lives are worn
Woah-oh
How can one little street swallow so many lives?
Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for, used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams (go!)
Jamie had a chance, well, she really did
Woah-oh
Instead she dropped out and had a couple of kids
Woah-oh
Mark still lives at home 'cause he's got no job
Woah-oh
He just plays guitar and smokes a lot of pot
Jay commited suicide
Woah-oh
Brandon OD'd and died
Woah-oh
What the hell is going on?
The cruelest dream, reality
Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for, used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams (Go!)
Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for (what), used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams



@sveinunglunestad7167

Lyrics
When we were young, the future was so bright
Woah-oh
The old neighborhood was so alive
Woah-oh
And every kid on the whole damn street
Woah-oh
Was gonna make it big and not be beat


Now the neighborhood's cracked and torn
Woah-oh
The kids are grown up, but their lives are worn
Woah-oh
How can one little street swallow so many lives?


Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for, used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams (go!)


Jamie had a chance, well, she really did
Woah-oh
Instead she dropped out and had a couple of kids
Woah-oh
Mark still lives at home 'cause he's got no job
Woah-oh
He just plays guitar and smokes a lot of pot


Jay commited suicide
Woah-oh
Brandon OD'd and died
Woah-oh
What the hell is going on?
The cruelest dream, reality


Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for, used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams (Go!)


Chances thrown
Nothing's free
Longing for (what), used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives
Shattered dreams



@Xetelian

[Verse 1]
When we were young, the future was so bright (Woah)
The old neighborhood was so alive (Woah)
And every kid on the whole damn street (Woah)
Was gonna make it big and not be beat
Now the neighborhood's cracked and torn (Woah)
The kids are grown up, but their lives are worn (Woah)
How can one little street swallow so many lives?

[Chorus]
Chances thrown, nothing's free
Longing for what used to be
Still it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives, shattered dreams
(Go!)

[Verse 2]
Jamie had a chance, well, she really did (Woah)
Instead, she dropped out and had a couple of kids (Woah)
Mark still lives at home 'cause he's got no job (Woah)
He just plays guitar, smokes a lot of pot
And Jay committed suicide (Woah)
And Brandon OD'd and died (Woah)
What the hell is goin' on?
The cruelest dream, reality

[Chorus]
Chances thrown, nothing's free
Longing for what used to be
Still, it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives, shattered dreams
(Go)

[Guitar Solo]

[Chorus]
Chances thrown, nothing's free
Longing for what used to be
Still, it's hard, hard to see
Fragile lives, shattered dreams



All comments from YouTube:

@m3gAm37aLmAnX

22 years later and the kids STILL aren't alright. In fact, I think they got worse

@clacclackerson3678

I was a teacher then and I'm a teacher now. In many ways kids are kids are kids, but in some interesting and scary ways today's kids are so different that they could be regarded as a different species. And no, they are definitely NOT alright. Their parents are the kids in this film clip.

@gummyf4ngs

we, in fact, are very very much not ok

@simonkyro661

Some things get better, some things get worse

@z0901

I agree...

@Mike-dm5ut

@@clacclackerson3678
“The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.” - credited to Socrates. . .

kids are kids and always have been - its the adults that raise them that aren't alright.

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@anonymousjeffry1864

When I was 15 years old this song sounded nice.
Now I'm 39 years old and it hits on a whole other level.

@PRODBYDARKO_

Honestly

@hayvenforpeace

I know exactly how you feel. It just hits differently now 😢.

@PRODBYDARKO_

@@hayvenforpeace Its nostalgia with a hint of fuck up

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