Who Are You
3 Doors Down Lyrics


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You're not what I need anymore
Forget those games you're playin'
You're not what I need anymore
I can't hear what you're saying

If you won't listen to me
How can you tell me how I feel?
All along I told you
That I cannot feel the pain

Who are you to tell me
I'm not good enough?
All I've ever wanted was a place
Inside of you

Why should I hear what you say any longer?
When you don't even know where I've been
I feel something in me getting stronger
And I won't get kicked around again

If you won't listen to me
How can you tell me how I feel?
All along I told you
That I cannot feel the pain

Who are you to tell me
I'm not good enough?
All I've ever wanted was a place
Inside of you

If you won't listen to me
How can you tell me how I feel?
All along I told you
That I cannot feel the pain

Who are you to tell me
I'm not good enough?
All I've ever wanted was a place
Inside of you





You're not what I need anymore!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of 3 Doors Down's song Who Are You describe a situation where the singer is in a toxic relationship and is struggling to break free from it. The song talks about how the singer has had enough of the games his/her partner is playing and that he/she is no longer what he/she needs. The singer feels that he/she is not being heard and that his/her partner does not understand his/her feelings. The chorus is a powerful statement of the singer's desire to be accepted and loved for who he/she is, without judgment.


The lyrics imply a sense of frustration in the singer's voice as he/she expresses his/her emotions to the partner who is not willing to listen. The singer resolves to stand up for himself/herself and not be kicked around again. The song ends with a declaration that the singer does not need the partner anymore.


The song is about breaking free from toxic relationships and standing up for oneself. It highlights the importance of self-respect and self-worth in a relationship. It is a bold message to anyone who is struggling in a difficult relationship, that they can walk away and find something better.


Line by Line Meaning

You're not what I need anymore
I have realized that you are no longer fulfilling my needs and desires.


Forget those games you're playin'
Stop playing games with me and pretending like everything is okay.


I can't hear what you're saying
I am tuning out your words and not allowing your negativity and criticisms to affect me.


If you won't listen to me
If you refuse to listen to my perspective and feelings,


How can you tell me how I feel?
you cannot possibly know or understand what I am experiencing emotionally.


All along I told you That I cannot feel the pain
I have communicated to you that I am not willing to endure emotional pain and suffering.


Who are you to tell me I'm not good enough?
You do not have the right or authority to judge and criticize my worth and value as a human being.


All I've ever wanted was a place inside of you
All I have ever desired is to feel loved, accepted, and valued by you.


Why should I hear what you say any longer?
I am questioning the validity and usefulness of listening to your negative and critical words.


When you don't even know where I've been
You have no idea what struggles and challenges I have faced in my life.


I feel something in me getting stronger
I am sensing an internal strength and resilience building within me.


And I won't get kicked around again
I refuse to allow others to mistreat and manipulate me and I will stand up for myself.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRADLEY KIRK ARNOLD, CHRISTOPHER LEE HENDERSON, MATTHEW DARRICK ROBERTS, ROBERT TODD HARRELL

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@tehsnipatres208

The most underrated 3 Doors Down song...

@rimzoni

usually i get bored of same music but i listen them for 1,2 years and they still the best and they will be for whole life :)

@sonofgip

i cant believe this wasnt on the US release completely amazing

@Haunolder

this song is the best <3

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Love the song. shows how cool they are as a band

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hmm... i feel like i've heard this on a movie or something... love the song.

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