Red Hat
AFI Lyrics


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I'm on the sea so bargain with me
So I can be home once again
To lose ways
To sing
An odd time of death
To lose and not to win
Why must I always have to lose with an easy life
Why can't I just pretend to fall asleep
No longing goes through the night
Caroline was greater for breaking down the set
Wanting to find a look
Can't remember days
The days we posses
Only the day she left
I see her in the crucifix
My mind begins to slip
My love had fallen right to a T
Then I close my eyes and the tears begin to run
The nightmare has just begun
Why must I always have to lose with an easy life




Why can't I just pretend to fall asleep
No longing goes through the night

Overall Meaning

In AFI's song Red Hat, the singer is on the sea, seeking to be home. The lyrics express a sense of loss, both of direction and in relationships. The lines "To lose ways/To sing" indicate a desire to let go of old patterns and perhaps start anew, through the act of singing - an expression of emotion and a form of release. The idea of "an odd time of death" suggests a feeling of disorientation and uncertainty, as if the singer is caught in the middle of some transition or change.


The chorus of the song repeats the question "Why must I always have to lose with an easy life / Why can't I just pretend to fall asleep", conveying a sense of frustration and weariness. The reference to Caroline, who is "greater for breaking down the set", could be interpreted as a nod to those who challenge the status quo or resist societal norms. The lines "Can't remember days / The days we possess / Only the day she left" reveal a painful memory of a past relationship, where the moments of happiness have faded into oblivion, leaving only the pain of the present.


In the final lines, the singer sees their lost love in the crucifix, a symbol of sacrifice and redemption. The reference to "fallen right to a T" could be a play on words, suggesting both the idea of falling in love and of falling to a cross. The tears that follow indicate a sense of grief and mourning, as if the singer is reliving the loss all over again.


Overall, Red Hat conveys a sense of searching, loss, and longing, while also touching on themes of rebellion and sacrifice.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm on the sea so bargain with me
I am in a difficult situation, so please try to make a deal with me


So I can be home once again
I want to return home as soon as possible


To lose ways
To forget the path ahead


To sing
To express myself through music


An odd time of death
A strange and unpredictable moment of ending


To lose and not to win
To experience failure instead of success


Why must I always have to lose with an easy life
Why do I have to face difficulties even when my life is supposedly easy?


Why can't I just pretend to fall asleep
Why can't I escape reality by pretending to sleep?


No longing goes through the night
I don't feel any desire or hope during the night


Caroline was greater for breaking down the set
Caroline achieved something great by disrupting the norm


Wanting to find a look
Searching for a distinct style or appearance


Can't remember days
Unable to recall specific memories


The days we posses
The moments we hold onto


Only the day she left
I only remember the day she left me


I see her in the crucifix
I associate her with the image of a crucified person


My mind begins to slip
I am losing control of my thoughts and emotions


My love had fallen right to a T
My love had perfectly aligned with my expectations


Then I close my eyes and the tears begin to run
I can't help but cry when I reflect on my past experiences


The nightmare has just begun
I am about to face a difficult and painful situation




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