He Decides
Ace of Base Lyrics


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Can't you hear them whispering
Around you all the time
Can't you tell the difference between
Things when you're in love
I hear your voice is trembling
Every time when he's around
Your detached engagements
In the things I say means love, oh

He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be happy
He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be sad

If he doesn't love you, you're afraid that you
Can't go on
Living without loving never makes a person
Strong, no
If he really loves you, let him show you that
Instead
I will be here with you 'cause I know that
You're afraid of love

He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be happy
He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be sad

You'll never change my mind my friend, don't
Let that feeling go
This love might change your world around
In time you'll have to know, oh yeah

Whether you should go

Oh yeah

He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be happy
He decides whether you should smile
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be sad

Whether you should be happy
Whether you should cry
Whether you should be happy

He decides
Whether you





I know that
He decides

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "He Decides" by Ace of Base question the power dynamics in a romantic relationship. The lyrics describe a woman who is unable to make decisions for herself, even about her own emotions. This is exemplified by the line "He decides whether you should smile, whether you should cry, whether you should be happy." The singer expresses concern and frustration for the woman and her inability to assert her own agency in her relationship. With the repetition of the phrase "He decides," the singer emphasizes the woman's lack of control and agency in the relationship.


The song delves deeper into the notion of love and how it can cloud judgement and make it difficult to distinguish reality from emotional attachments. The lines "Can't you tell the difference between things when you're in love" and "Your detached engagements in the things I say means love" further underline the song's message. These lines suggest that when we are blinded by love, we may fail to see the faults in the relationship or the other person's behavior, erroneously interpreting it as an act of love.


In the chorus, the singer reassures the woman that she can find strength in herself regardless of whether or not the relationship continues. The line "Living without loving never makes a person strong" suggests that love can be a catalyst for growth and emotional strength, but it's not everything.


Overall, "He Decides" is a sobering reflection on love and control within a relationship, urging listeners to be aware of power dynamics and to assert their own agency in matters of the heart.


Line by Line Meaning

Can't you hear them whispering
Do you not hear the whispers of those around you?


Around you all the time
The whispers are constantly present in your life


Can't you tell the difference between
Are you not able to distinguish between


Things when you're in love
What you perceive as true or false when you are in love


I hear your voice is trembling
I can tell that your voice is shaky


Every time when he's around
Whenever he is present


Your detached engagements
Your lack of interest in what I'm saying


In the things I say means love, oh
Indicates that you are in love


He decides whether you should smile
Your happiness is determined by him


Whether you should cry
He controls your emotions


Whether you should be happy
He has power over your joy


If he doesn't love you, you're afraid that you
You fear not being loved by him


Can't go on
You feel incapable of moving forward


Living without loving never makes a person
Without love, one can never truly live


Strong, no
It does not lead to strength


If he really loves you, let him show you that
Only if he truly loves you should you trust him


Instead
Otherwise


I will be here with you 'cause I know that
I will support you because


You're afraid of love
You fear love


You'll never change my mind my friend, don't
Your persuasion will not alter my beliefs


Let that feeling go
Let go of that impulse


This love might change your world around
This affection possesses the ability to drastically adjust your life


In time you'll have to know, oh yeah
Eventually, you must make a choice


Whether you should go
If you should leave or stay


He decides whether you should smile
Your positive outlook is at his mercy


Whether you should cry
He has power over your tears


Whether you should be happy
Your satisfaction is up to him


Whether you should be sad
He determines your sorrow


He decides whether you should be happy
Your contentment is in his hands


Whether you should cry
Your sadness is dictated by him


Whether you should be happy
Your joy is controlled by him


He decides
He has the final say


Whether you
Everything about you


I know that
I am aware of this fact


He decides
He has the ultimate authority




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JONAS BERGGREN

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on Break My Stride

This is is not ace of base singing it is really unique 2 but was taken for granted that it was ace of base because they sound very like them.it wasn't checked right.

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on Break My Stride

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