We're Not Supposed To Be Lover
Adam Green Lyrics


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Picture a place that's far from danger
A nicer place to cash your chips
I'm not the one holding you hostage
Squeezed in between my lips

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends, like they'd have us believe
We're not supposed to know each other
Accept my apology

I was a babe stuck in a tree branch
Banging on my rusty cradle bars
Until I stole your middle finger
Now who's the one in charge?

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends, like they'd have us believe
We're not supposed to know each other
Accept my apology

Vain, underground, fist, face down
Bruise as they heal my pain
Food on the flight
Bread, fist, bite
Drop from the orange juice crane

Picture a person you've forgotten
Kissing your brother or your friend




Picture a wounded entertainer
Cutting his hair again

Overall Meaning

In the first verse of the song, Adam Green presents an alternate reality to the world he inhabits. It's a world that is free from danger, where he and his partner can exist without any threat to their relationship. The line "I'm not the one holding you hostage" suggests that there is some kind of force that is keeping them apart, something beyond their control. The image of being "squeezed in between my lips" is interesting because it could represent a passionate embrace or a stifling, controlling behavior.


The chorus of the song, "We're not supposed to be lovers or friends, like they'd have us believe" suggests that society has certain expectations about how relationships should be, and they don't conform to these norms. They aren't supposed to know each other, which seems like a strange sentiment to express, especially if they are supposed to be lovers. The line "accept my apology" has a sense of finality to it, like he's admitting defeat and asking for forgiveness for something he can't control.


In the second verse, Adam Green sees himself as a helpless child, "a babe stuck in a tree branch", until he grabs hold of his partner's finger, asserting himself in their relationship. The line "now who's the one in charge?" suggests a power dynamic shift. The chorus repeats again, suggesting that the expectations placed on them are constraining their relationship.


In the last few lines of the song, Adam Green presents disjointed images, seemingly unrelated to each other. It's as if he's trying to make sense of a world that doesn't conform to his expectations. The line "picture a wounded entertainer cutting his hair again" is particularly striking, as it suggests a celebrity who is struggling to maintain their public image.


Line by Line Meaning

Picture a place that's far from danger
Imagine a peaceful and safe haven


A nicer place to cash your chips
A place to relax and unwind


I'm not the one holding you hostage
You're not obligated to be with me


Squeezed in between my lips
The kiss between us is passionate


We're not supposed to be lovers
Society doesn't expect us to be in love


Or friends, like they'd have us believe
Even being friends isn't what the world perceives


We're not supposed to know each other
Our relationship isn't socially acceptable


Accept my apology
I'm sorry for loving you, even though I shouldn't


I was a babe stuck in a tree branch
I was hopeless and helpless


Banging on my rusty cradle bars
Trying to escape my reality


Until I stole your middle finger
I was liberated by you


Now who's the one in charge?
The balance of power in the relationship has shifted


Vain, underground, fist, face down
Self-centered and defeated


Bruise as they heal my pain
The pain of love leaving a lasting mark on me


Food on the flight
A moment of relief


Bread, fist, bite
The small moments of sustenance


Drop from the orange juice crane
The fall from a hopeful moment


Picture a person you've forgotten
Imagine someone who was once important


Kissing your brother or your friend
Experiencing a moment of intimacy with someone unexpected


Picture a wounded entertainer
Imagine someone whose facade is cracking


Cutting his hair again
Trying to regain control and composure




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Adam Green

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Theresia Maria Weber

Picture a place that's far from danger;
A nicer place to cash your chips
I'm not the one holding you hostage
Squeezed in between my lips

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends like theyd have us believe
We're not supposed to know eachother;
Accept my apology

I was a babe stuck in a treebranch
Banging on my rusty cradle bars
Until I stole your middle finger
Now who's the one in charge?

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends like theyd have us believe
We're not supposed to know eachother;
Accept my apology

Vein underground
Fist
Face
Down
Ooze as they heal my pain
Food on the flight
Breakfast bite
Drop from the orange juice crane



All comments from YouTube:

chartum

This song is so beautifully written. The last stanza (and the whole thing) is some incredible songwriting.

Theresia Maria Weber

❤️

Theresia Maria Weber

Drop from the orange juice crane.

Esther Lang

This song broke my heart, break my heart and will do forever. But in the most beautiful way this can happen ❤

Bjørn Bakland

The world's most underrated artist

Theresia Maria Weber

Picture a place that's far from danger;
A nicer place to cash your chips
I'm not the one holding you hostage
Squeezed in between my lips

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends like theyd have us believe
We're not supposed to know eachother;
Accept my apology

I was a babe stuck in a treebranch
Banging on my rusty cradle bars
Until I stole your middle finger
Now who's the one in charge?

We're not supposed to be lovers
Or friends like theyd have us believe
We're not supposed to know eachother;
Accept my apology

Vein underground
Fist
Face
Down
Ooze as they heal my pain
Food on the flight
Breakfast bite
Drop from the orange juice crane

m

picture a person you've forgotten
kissing your brother or your friend
picture a wounded entertainer
cutting his hair again

Marco Natura

Beautiful! I love it!

God King Emperor

when i was a kid i felt in love with this beautiful Jewish girl we both loved each other but her parents hated me because i wasn't a jew. i try to explain to them that i loved her and i wanted her to be part of my life and how i would protect her and take care of her. but they didn't care.all they care was if i was a jew or not. and one day my girlfriend told me to run away and forget all about it. but i know i couldn't do that to her because at that time i didn't have a stable job or a home. i needed to finish my studies. unfortunately their parents moved out of state and i never herd from her again.that was a time when internet or smart phones were even a thing. so i never found out where she when.but every time i listen to this song it brings so many memories of the girl i loved.

Rex K

Beautiful.

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