Why can't we be friends
After the Fire Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

One thing leads to another, better think before you talk
When it comes to hurting each other we learn to trip before we learn to walk
Words can be so detrimental, quick to hurt and slow to mend
So why can't we be friends?
Anyone can criticise things, anyone can break things down
It's not so easy to revive things, once it's dead it's hard to bring around
What about some words to build on, we all need them now and then
So why can't we be friends?

He can't help it cause he's ugly, she can't help the way she stares
Look at you, you're not so lovely, you look as though your face has been repaired
Let's start thinking of each other, we could start a whole new trend
So why can't we be friends?

People like to give me a hard time, put me up against the wall
I see them standing on the touchline waiting round to see me when I fall
Sorry if I disappoint you but that is not what I intend
So why can't we be friends?
Why can't we be friends?
Why can't we be friends?




Why can't we be friends?
Why can't we be...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of After the Fire’s song “Why Can’t We Be Friends” explores the theme of human relations, specifically the importance of building and maintaining positive relationships. Through the use of metaphorical language, the song highlights the dangers of allowing our emotions to take control, and how we should be more mindful of what we say to one another. The first verse cautions listeners to be more thoughtful before they speak, pointing out that words can be hurtful and slow to heal. The next verse encourages us to be builders and not breakers, and to use our words to construct positive relationships. The third verse advocates for us to have a more empathetic view of others, to learn to appreciate their differences, and to reject prejudices that can create obstacles to building relationships. The chorus is a plea for peace and unity among people from the same community, ethnicity, or race.


“Why Can’t We Be Friends” was written and first recorded in 1975 by War, a funk band from California. Their version of the song became a hit in the US, reaching number 6 on the Billboard chart. The song is generally regarded as a classic of the funk and soul genre. After the Fire’s version, which was released in 1982, was an unexpected hit in Europe, where it reached the top 10 in several countries. They reworked the song, bringing in a more rock-oriented sound, with a guitar riff that replaced War’s distinctive horn section.


Line by Line Meaning

One thing leads to another, better think before you talk
It's important to consider the consequences of your words and actions before you act.


When it comes to hurting each other we learn to trip before we learn to walk
We tend to hurt others before we learn to empathize with them and communicate effectively.


Words can be so detrimental, quick to hurt and slow to mend
Words have the power to harm deeply and are often difficult to repair.


So why can't we be friends?
Why can't we put aside our differences and work towards a harmonious relationship?


Anyone can criticise things, anyone can break things down
It's easy to criticize or destroy things, but it takes effort to build them up.


It's not so easy to revive things, once it's dead it's hard to bring around
It's difficult to restore something that's been broken or destroyed, and it may require a lot of work.


What about some words to build on, we all need them now and then
What if we choose to use our words to uplift and inspire instead of tearing down? We all need encouragement at times.


He can't help it cause he's ugly, she can't help the way she stares
People should not be judged or criticized for things beyond their control, such as their physical appearance or quirks.


Look at you, you're not so lovely, you look as though your face has been repaired
This line is likely sarcastic and poking fun at someone. It suggests that the person being criticized has had plastic surgery or has otherwise altered their appearance.


Let's start thinking of each other, we could start a whole new trend
If we choose to focus on empathy and kindness towards others, it could lead to a positive shift in our relationships and society as a whole.


So why can't we be friends?
This line is a refrain and repetition of the main question posed by the song. Why can't we choose to get along and work together?


People like to give me a hard time, put me up against the wall
The artist is likely describing situations in which they are unfairly criticized or attacked by others.


I see them standing on the touchline waiting round to see me when I fall
The singer perceives others as waiting for them to fail, so they can criticize or tear them down even more.


Sorry if I disappoint you but that is not what I intend
The singer does not want to let others down or cause harm, but they are being unfairly judged regardless.


So why can't we be friends?
This line is repeated multiple times to emphasize the main message of the song - why can't we all simply get along and treat each other with kindness and respect?




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

@Real80sCCM

In an effort to post your requests we have been paying for albums out of our own pockets both physical and digital but the costs have become a bit prohibitive. If you can help us out by participating in a little crowd funding you can get some special perks.

https://www.patreon.com/Real80sCCM

@coolnegative

Yup......

More Versions