This Bed Is Getting Crowded
Alejandro Escovedo Lyrics


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This bed is getting crowded
One, two, three
This bed is getting crowded, baby
Who you want me to be?
I'll be your lover in the midnight
I'll be your lover in the dawn
I'll be your lover when the party's raging
Long after everybody's gone

This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love
Call it what you want
But it don't feel like love to me

This bed is getting crowded
Baby something feels wrong
Let's go somewhere quiet
Somewhere we can be alone
You got a statue in your front yard
And it bleeds on cue
All these arms and legs and limbs
Who do you want me to do?

This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love
Call it what you want
But it don't feel like love to me

This bed is getting crowded
I look up it's four a.m.
Am I here with you
Are you here with me?
Or are we both here with him?

I'll be your lover in the midnight
I'll be your lover in the dawn
I'll be your lover when the party's in full swing
Baby, I'll be your lover when everybody's gone

This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love
This ain't love




Call it what you want
But it don't feel like love to me

Overall Meaning

In the song "This Bed Is Getting Crowded," Alejandro Escovedo sings about a relationship that feels more like a physical arrangement than a romantic one. The repeated line "This ain't love" reinforces this sense of disillusionment, indicating that there is something missing or unsatisfying in the connection between the singer and their partner. The opening lines of the song set the scene for this dynamic, with the bed becoming crowded as the singer asks "who you want me to be?" This suggests a lack of authenticity or a sense of performing for the other person in order to maintain their interest.


The second verse introduces a strange element to the relationship: a bleeding statue in the partner's front yard. This surreal image suggests that there is something dark or twisted about the dynamics at play, and the repeated references to body parts ("arms and legs and limbs") reinforce this sense of being objectified or used. The final verse introduces a third person into the mix, leaving the singer unsure of who they are really sharing the bed with. The repeated assurances to be a lover at all hours and the focus on the physicality of the connection despite the lack of romantic passion reinforce the idea that this relationship is about satisfying base desires rather than genuine love.


Overall, "This Bed Is Getting Crowded" paints a bleak picture of a relationship that has devolved into a physical arrangement lacking any true emotional depth. The focus on performance and objectification, as well as the surreal and unsettling imagery, create a sense of discomfort and unease in the listener.


Line by Line Meaning

This bed is getting crowded
The relationship is becoming suffocating and cramped


One, two, three
Counting the number of people in bed, including the singer


Who you want me to be?
The singer feels like they are losing their identity and asking who the partner wants them to be


I'll be your lover in the midnight
The artist is willing to fulfill any role the partner desires, including a lover in the middle of the night


This ain't love
The relationship is not based on love


Call it what you want
The singer suggests that the relationship may have a different name or label


But it don't feel like love to me
Despite what the partner calls it, the singer does not feel like it is a genuine love connection


Baby something feels wrong
The artist senses that there is a problem in the relationship


Let's go somewhere quiet
The artist suggests a change of environment to try to fix the relationship


You got a statue in your front yard
The partner's possessions or surroundings are strange or unsettling to the artist


And it bleeds on cue
The partner's strange possessions have eerie or unsettling qualities


All these arms and legs and limbs
The crowded bed is described using body parts


Who do you want me to do?
The singer is unsure of what the partner wants from them


I look up it's four a.m.
The singer is unsure of the time and the state of their relationship


Am I here with you
The singer is questioning if they are truly in the moment with the partner


Are you here with me?
The artist is unsure if the partner is fully present in the relationship


Or are we both here with him?
The artist suggests that a third person may be present in the relationship


I'll be your lover when the party's in full swing
The singer is willing to participate in the party lifestyle with the partner and be their lover during those times




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, THE BICYCLE MUSIC COMPANY
Written by: ALEJANDRO ESCOVEDO, CHUCK PROPHET

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