Girl Can't Be Herself
Alicia Keys Lyrics


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When a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world
When a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world

In the morning from the minute that I wake up
What if I don't want to put on all that make up?
Who says I must conceal what I'm made of?
Maybe all this Maybelline is covering my self-esteem
Whose job is it to straighten out my curves?
I'm so tired of that image, that's my word
What if today I don't feel like putting heels on?
Who are you to criticize when beauty's only in the eyes
Of the beholder
So behold her
Sing, sing, sing, why, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh?
Yo, yo-yo

'Cause when a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world
When a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world

Uh, uh, I'm so secure with insecurities
Why is being unique such an impurity?
Why are the numbers on the scale like a god to me?
All of these indifferences are based on our appearances
We please to be appeased
The truest pleasure is the fact that we can breathe
Think it into existence, do it, then achieve
A fairy tale reality, beauty was with a beast
I, I, I'm the image of your reflection
Ah, and you're the image of my reflection
Sing, sing, sing, why, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh?
Why, oh?

'Cause when a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world
When a girl can't be herself no more
I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world

Oh
Ay, uh!




Oh!
Oh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Alicia Keys's song "Girl Can't Be Herself" convey a powerful message about societal pressures and the struggle for self-acceptance. The song speaks to the pressure women often face to conform to certain standards of beauty and behavior, and the toll it can take on their identity and self-esteem.


The opening lines, "When a girl can't be herself no more, I just wanna cry for the world," express a sense of frustration and sadness about the limitations placed on women and their ability to express their true selves. The repetition of "I just wanna cry for the world" emphasizes the universal impact of this issue, highlighting how societal norms constrain not only individual women but also society as a whole.


The second verse delves further into the specific challenges women face in maintaining a certain appearance. The line "What if I don't want to put on all that make up?" questions the expectation for women to wear makeup as a means of concealing their natural features. The mention of Maybelline, a well-known makeup brand, symbolizes the pressure to conform to a certain beauty standard. The verse also addresses the pressure to conform to body shape ideals, with the line "Whose job is it to straighten out my curves?" expressing frustration with the expectation to modify one's physical appearance.


The chorus reinforces the central theme of the song, with Keys passionately singing, "When a girl can't be herself no more, I just wanna cry for the world." This repetition emphasizes the emotional weight carried by women who feel stifled by societal expectations. The song concludes with vocal ad-libs and exclamations, further accentuating the frustration and intensity of the emotions being conveyed.


Overall, "Girl Can't Be Herself" serves as a powerful anthem for embracing personal authenticity and challenging societal norms that limit women's self-expression.


Line by Line Meaning

When a girl can't be herself no more
When a girl is unable to express her true identity any longer


I just wanna cry, I just wanna cry for the world
I feel deep sadness and compassion for the state of the world when this happens


In the morning from the minute that I wake up
From the moment I wake up in the morning


What if I don't want to put on all that make up?
What if I choose not to wear makeup?


Who says I must conceal what I'm made of?
Who determines that I have to hide my true essence?


Maybe all this Maybelline is covering my self-esteem
Perhaps the makeup I apply is masking my confidence


Whose job is it to straighten out my curves?
Why is it someone else's responsibility to define and shape my body?


I'm so tired of that image, that's my word
I am exhausted by the societal expectations of beauty


What if today I don't feel like putting heels on?
What if I don't want to wear high-heeled shoes today?


Who are you to criticize when beauty's only in the eyes of the beholder
You have no right to judge, as beauty is subjective


So behold her
Thus, observe and recognize her for who she truly is


Sing, sing, sing, why, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh?
Expressing the need to vocalize these frustrations


Yo, yo-yo
Slang interjection used for emphasis or to grab attention


'Cause when a girl can't be herself no more
Because when a girl is unable to be her authentic self any longer


Uh, uh, I'm so secure with insecurities
I am paradoxically confident in my own vulnerabilities


Why is being unique such an impurity?
Why is it seen as wrong or impure to be different?


Why are the numbers on the scale like a god to me?
Why do I place such importance on my weight as if it has divine power?


All of these indifferences are based on our appearances
All these divisions and prejudices stem from how we look


We please to be appeased
We strive to please others in order to gain their approval


The truest pleasure is the fact that we can breathe
The ultimate joy lies in the simple act of being alive


Think it into existence, do it, then achieve
Manifest your desires through thoughts, actions, and perseverance


A fairy tale reality, beauty was with a beast
Imagine a world where beauty and imperfection coexist harmoniously


I, I, I'm the image of your reflection
I am a mirror image of your own self


Ah, and you're the image of my reflection
And you reflect who I am as well


Sing, sing, sing, why, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh?
Continue to voice these questions and concerns


Oh
An exclamation expressing emotion or realization


Ay, uh!
An interjection conveying excitement or agreement


Oh!
An exclamation of surprise or emphasis




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Alicia Augello Cook, Mark Batson, Harold Lilly Jr., Sean Martin

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