When You Really Love Someone
Alicia Keys Lyrics


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I'm a woman
Lord knows it's hard
I need a real man to give me what I need
Uh, sweet attention, love and tenderness
When it's real, it's unconditional
I'm telling y'all

'Cause a man just ain't a man
If he ain't man enough
To love you when you're right
Love you when you're wrong
Love you when you're weak
Love you when you're strong

Take you higher
When the world got you feeling low (ooh)

He's giving you his last
'Cause he's thinking of you first
Giving comfort when he's thinking that you're hurt
That's what's done when you really love someone

I'm telling y'all
I'm telling y'all

'Cause you're a real man
Lord knows it's hard
Sometimes you just need a woman's touch
Sweet affection, love and support
When it's real it's unconditional
I'm telling y'all, oh

'Cause a woman ain't a woman
If she ain't woman enough
To love you when you're right (uh-huh)
Love you when you're wrong (yeah)
Love you when you're weak (uh-huh)
Love you when you're strong

Take you higher, oh
When the world got you feeling low, whoa
She's giving you her best
Even when you're at your worst (worst)
Giving comfort when she's thinking that you're hurt
That's what's done when you really love someone

I'm telling y'all
I'm telling y'all

Sometimes you wanna argue
Sometimes you wanna fight
Sometimes it's gonna feel like it'll never be right
But something so strong keeps you holding on
It don't make sense, but it make a good song

'Cause a man just ain't a man
If he ain't man enough
To love you when you're right (woo)
Love you when you're wrong
Love you when you're weak
Love you when you're strong
Love you when you're strong

Take you higher
When the world got you feeling low (oh-ooh)

He's giving you his last
'Cause he's thinking of you first
Giving comfort when he's thinking that you're hurt
Oh, that's what's done when you really love someone

I'm telling y'all
I'm telling y'all

I'm telling you
That a woman just ain't a woman
If she ain't woman enough to
Love you when you're right
Love you when you're wrong
Love you when you're weak (to hold ya)
Love you when you're strong

Take you higher and higher
When the world got you feeling low (low)

She's giving you her best
Even when you're at your worst (even when you're at your worst, baby)
Giving comfort when she's thinking that you're hurt
That's what's done when you really love someone
I'm telling y'all
I'm telling y'all
I'm telling y'all

Hm-hm, yeah
Hm-hm, yeah
Hm-hm, yeah
Hm-hm, yeah
Hm-hm, yeah (yeah)
Hm-hm, yeah (yeah)




Hm-hm, yeah (yeah)
Hm-hm, yeah

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Alicia Keys's song When You Really Love Someone express the profound and abiding love between two people who are committed to each other. She begins by lamenting the difficulty of being a woman who needs a man to fulfill her emotional and physical needs. She hopes to find a man who will give her sweet attention, love, and tenderness, and when she finally does, it will be true and unconditional. She urges men to be "man enough" to love their partners through thick and thin, uplifting them when they are feeling low, and being their support system when they need it most.


Likewise, Alicia Keys emphasizes that women too need to embody the qualities of unconditional love and support to be considered "woman enough" for their partners. The lyrics express the idea that loving another person is never easy, and that disagreements and arguments are bound to occur. When these conflicts arise, Alicia Keys stresses the importance of holding onto the underlying love that you share and persevering through the tough times to emerge stronger on the other side.


In short, when you really love someone, you give them your all, no matter the circumstances. These lyrics are ultimately a call for people to be kind, patient, and gentle with the ones they love, as these are the building blocks of true and lasting relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm a woman
As a woman, I have certain needs and desires that only a real man can fulfill.


Lord knows it's hard
It can be difficult to find a man who genuinely meets all the needs of a woman.


I need a real man to give me what I need
To feel truly fulfilled, I require a man who can provide me with sweet attention, love, and tenderness.


Sweet attention, love, and tenderness
These are the things that make a woman feel loved and appreciated, and she needs them from a man.


When it's real, it's unconditional
Real love is unconditional and doesn't waver based on circumstances or situations.


I'm telling y'all
I want to make it clear to everyone that this is the truth.


'Cause a man just ain't a man
A man who can't provide all the things a woman needs and desires cannot truly be considered a man.


If he ain't man enough to
A real man must be strong enough to love a woman in all circumstances.


To love you when you're right
He must support and show love when a woman is doing well.


Love you when you're wrong
He must also love and support you, even when you make mistakes.


Love you when you're weak
In moments of weakness, a true man will provide comfort, support, and care.


Love you when you're strong
Even when you're strong, a real man will continue to show love and support.


Take you higher
A real man will help you become the best version of yourself and lift you up in times of adversity.


When the world got you feeling low
He will be there to support and uplift you even when it seems like the world is against you.


He's giving you his last
When a man truly loves a woman, he will do everything in his power to make her happy and provide for her needs.


'Cause he's thinking of you first
The needs and desires of the woman he loves will always be at the forefront of his mind.


Giving comfort when he's thinking that you're hurt
In times of pain or distress, a man who loves will be there to comfort and provide support.


That's what's done
These are the actions of a man who truly loves a woman.


Sometimes you wanna argue
Relationships have their ups and downs, and sometimes there will be disagreements.


Sometimes you wanna fight
Arguments can sometimes escalate into fights.


Sometimes it's gonna feel like it'll never be right
During tough times, it may feel like the relationship will never get back on track.


But something so strong keeps you holding on
Despite the challenges, the love between two people can be so strong that it keeps them together.


It don't make sense but it make a good song
The power of love can be inexplicable, but it often makes for great music and art.


I'm telling you
I want to emphasize this point to make it clear.


That a woman just ain't a woman
A woman who can't provide all the things a man needs and desires cannot truly be considered a woman.


If she ain't woman enough to
A real woman must be strong enough to love a man in all circumstances.


Take you higher and higher
A real woman will help you become the best version of yourself and lift you up in times of adversity.


She's giving you her best
When a woman truly loves a man, she will give her all to make him happy and provide for his needs.


Even when you're at your worse
Even when a man is at his lowest, a woman who loves him will continue to provide support and care.


Giving comfort when she's thinking that you're hurt
In times of pain or distress, a woman who loves will be there to comfort and provide support.


That's what's done
These are the actions of a woman who truly loves a man.


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Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Alicia J. Augello-Cook, Kerry D. Brothers Jr.

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