To Me
Alina Baraz Lyrics


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It's been a while since you heard from me
I stay alone
Protect my energies
Found a little love
Lost my sanity
(Can we do it over?)
And then one day it just came to me
(Can we do it over?)

I'm not asking for too much
I'm asking the wrong motherfucker
Just 'cause we're in love
Doesn't mean that we're right for each other
Can't keep makin' a home out of you
Just 'cause you're asking me to
I'm not asking for too much
(Can we do it over?)

Here's to
Good people, good nights
Good highs, good health
Some tears, some stress
But I count my blessings
Here's to
Good music, great sex
Little time to feel alive
Little time to get it right

Back to, to another place in time
Where I give myself the chance to find
What it is, what it is that I like
I'm just tryna grow
Keep an open mind
Go ahead, do your thing
Take your time
Tell me what it is, what it is that you find

Not asking for too much
I'm asking the wrong motherfucker

So here's to
Good people, good nights
Good highs, good health
Some tears, some stress
But I count my blessings
Here's to
Good music, great sex
Little time to feel alive
Little time to get it right

When it comes to you I lose my control
You move like the water half time
And every time I leave, I lose more than I know
(Can we do it over?)
(Can we do it over?)

Let me talk my shit
Let me talk my shit and go
Let me talk my shit
Then I'll go




Let me go
Let me go

Overall Meaning

The song "To Me" by Alina Baraz is a song about self-love and staying true to oneself. The lyrics reflect the ups and downs of a relationship where the singer is asking for a second chance. The song starts off with the singer saying that it has been a while since they heard from their partner, and that they have been protecting their energies while also finding love and losing their sanity. The chorus expresses that the singer is not asking for too much, but is asking the wrong person for it, and that just because they are in love, it does not mean that they are right for each other. The singer is not willing to continue making a home out of their partner if they are not compatible.


The second verse of the song acknowledges the ups and downs of life, with the singer counting their blessings and being grateful for the good things in their life, such as good people, good nights, and good music. The singer also talks about growing and keeping an open mind. The bridge of the song talks about how the singer loses control when they are with their partner, and that they lose more than they know every time they leave. The song ends with the singer saying that they will talk their shit and then go, asking to be let go. Overall, the song is a powerful message about self-love and not settling for anything less than what one deserves in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

It's been a while since you heard from me
It has been quite some time since I last spoke with you.


I stay alone
I prefer to be by myself most of the time.


Protect my energies
I try to safeguard my inner peace and emotional wellbeing.


Found a little love
I have fallen for someone.


Lost my sanity
My love for this person has thrown me off balance and made me act irrational.


(Can we do it over?)
Can we start over and try something different?


I'm not asking for too much
I don't have extravagant expectations.


I'm asking the wrong motherfucker
Perhaps I should direct my requests towards someone else.


Just 'cause we're in love
Just because we have strong romantic feelings for each other.


Doesn't mean that we're right for each other
Our relationship might not be the best fit even if we care for each other deeply.


Can't keep makin' a home out of you
I can't keep relying on you as my sole source of comfort and stability.


Just 'cause you're asking me to
Just because you are requesting that I do so.


Here's to
A toast to...


Good people, good nights
Celebrating the company of good friends and experiencing enjoyable evenings.


Good highs, good health
Mentions experiencing happiness and good physical wellbeing.


Some tears, some stress
Acknowledging that life isn't always perfect, and there will be hardships.


But I count my blessings
I try to appreciate what I have.


Good music, great sex
Further celebrating pleasurable experiences.


Little time to feel alive
Being grateful for life and making the most of the time we have.


Little time to get it right
Time is fleeting, so it's essential to take every opportunity to improve and move forward.


Back to, to another place in time
Reflecting on the past and the different choices that could have been made.


Where I give myself the chance to find
Allowing myself the opportunity to explore and figure out what I want out of life.


What it is, what it is that I like
Exploring my interests and desires.


I'm just tryna grow
I'm striving for personal development and striving towards improvement.


Keep an open mind
Staying receptive to new ideas and new perspectives.


Go ahead, do your thing
Encouraging someone to pursue what makes them happy.


Tell me what it is, what it is that you find
Asking someone to share their interests and desires with me.


When it comes to you I lose my control
I find myself swept away by my feelings for you.


You move like the water half time
You are unpredictable and ever-changing.


And every time I leave, I lose more than I know
I underestimate the depth of my attachment to you.


(Can we do it over?)
Can we try to start this relationship anew?


Let me talk my shit
Allow me to express myself candidly.


And go
Once I finish speaking my truth, I will leave.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Alina Baraz, Mary Weitz, Spencer Stewart, Tyler Acord

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@elennemusic

"Just cause we're in love doesn't mean we're right for each other"
...that lyric hit the spot

@tiffanymcintyre8375

YES!!

@cinthiaguerrero4523

I felt it too

@kylo7324

Didn't it though!!???🤯

@yourgirlfriendwannabeme

Oooofff

@disasterartiest671

This lyric gives Brown and Asian parents all the more reason to set their kids up for "Arranged Marriages". Well, we screwed, fam. ;-;

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@sinovuyocinani7584

" Some tears. Some stress. But I count my blessings"
There's more to life than being stuck loving someone who doesn't love you back. 💖

@thealmighty9819

talk yo shit then!!!!!!

@sunshineandstarlight

Yes, love. 🥰✌💞🌿

@AA-rq4zs

Wow this made me cry. Thank you for this comment I needed this.

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