U Donā€™t Know
Alison Wonderland feat. Wayne Coyne Lyrics


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Oh-oh
Oh-oh
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Oh-oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
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Donā€²t lose, you better than yourself
Tryna tell me all these faking sounds
I see what it really is
Honest words will never fix

Give it to me, I can hold my own
I know what it's like to be alone
No need to keep me in the dark
Already been, I felt that spark

You donā€²t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

You need them anyway, I got it
Don't make your own delay, you got it
Look at me standing straight, I'm on it
(Baby, I donā€²t know)
For me to find my way, I get it
You need them anyway, I got it
(Baby, I donā€²t know)

Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh

Friends that never come will never go
Swimming through the deep and let it show
Red flag
Don't wait
I know
Your fate

All the highs but itā€²s never enough
Where were you when I was doing tow
Leave me your phone, all that I know
What am I so? Know that I go

You don't know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

You donā€²t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

You need them anyway, I got it (You)
Don't make your own delay, you got it (Know how)
Look at me standing straight, Iā€²m on it (You)
(Baby, I don't know)
For me to find my way, I get it
You need them anyway, I got it
(Baby, I don't know)

You donā€²t know how it is
(Baby, I donā€²t know)
You don't know
You donā€²t know
(Baby I don't know)

You donā€²t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

You don't know how it is




For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Alison Wonderlandā€™s U Donā€™t Know featuring Wayne Coyne touch upon themes of self-empowerment and emotional independence, while at the same time examining the flawed dynamics of relationships. The song starts with a series of ā€œohsā€, setting the stage for the melodic and atmospheric track featuring Coyneā€™s distinctive falsetto. The singer then goes on to urge the listener not to lose sight of themselves, and not to be taken in by fake sounds and insincere words. They claim to see things as they really are, and question the relevance of words that do not reflect reality.


The chorus is a repetition of the phrase ā€œYou donā€™t know how it is for someone else to own you, someone else to throw your heart aroundā€. The use of the word ā€œownā€ is significant, as it implies that the singer sees relationships as a kind of ownership, where one person has power and control over the other, and can use their emotions as a weapon. However, they also claim to ā€œgot itā€, to have the ability to stand straight and find their own way, and suggest that the listener, too, should not rely on others for their sense of self-worth, but rather find it within themselves.


The second verse delves further into this theme, as the singer laments the fact that even though they have experienced the highs of a relationship, it was never enough, and that they were left alone at their lowest points. The bridge then brings a sense of resolution, as the singer claims that they do not know everything, but that they are willing to find their own way, and see the truth of their situation.


Overall, the lyrics of U Donā€™t Know convey a feeling of self-acceptance and strength, while also touching upon the hurtful dynamics of relationships, and the importance of asserting oneself and not relying on others for validation.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't lose, you better than yourself
Don't give up on yourself, you are capable of more than you think.


Tryna tell me all these faking sounds
People are speaking insincere words and I am aware of it.


I see what it really is
I can see the truth behind the facade.


Honest words will never fix
Telling the truth won't solve everything.


Give it to me, I can hold my own
I am confident in my abilities to handle anything.


I know what it's like to be alone
I understand the feeling of solitude.


No need to keep me in the dark
Don't hide the truth from me.


Already been, I felt that spark
I have already experienced that feeling of attraction.


You don't know how it is
You haven't experienced it firsthand.


For someone else to own you
To be completely controlled and manipulated by someone else.


Someone else to throw your heart around
To have your emotions played with and toyed with.


You need them anyway, I got it
You may think you need them, but I can take care of it myself.


Don't make your own delay, you got it
Don't hold yourself back, you are capable of achieving your goals.


Look at me standing straight, I'm on it
I am handling the situation confidently and with determination.


(Baby, I don't know)
I am not sure about everything.


For me to find my way, I get it
I understand that I must figure things out on my own.


Friends that never come will never go
People who are never there for you in the first place will not bother leaving your life.


Swimming through the deep and let it show
Going through deep emotional waters and showing it to others.


Red flag
A warning sign of danger or potential harm.


Don't wait
Take action now, don't hesitate.


I know
I understand what is happening and what needs to be done.


Your fate
Your destiny, what will happen to you.


All the highs but it's never enough
Experiencing moments of intense happiness, but still feeling unfulfilled.


Where were you when I was doing tow
You were not there to support me when I needed it the most.


Leave me your phone, all that I know
Give me all the information that you have.


What am I so? Know that I go
What is my purpose? I understand that I must keep moving forward.


You don't know how it is
You haven't experienced it firsthand.


You need them anyway, I got it (You)
You may think you need them, but I can handle it myself.


Don't make your own delay, you got it (Know how)
Don't hold yourself back, you know what to do.


Look at me standing straight, I'm on it (You)
I am handling the situation confidently and without help.


(Baby, I don't know)
I am unsure about everything.


You don't know
You are unaware of the situation or what someone else is going through.




Writer(s): Alexander Timothy Burnett, Mike Parvizi, Andrew Swanson, Alexandra Sholler

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@wh33p

Oh-oh
Oh-oh
Oh-oh

No one knows you better than yourself
Tryna tell me all these faking sounds
I see what it really is
Honest words will never fix
Give it to me; I can hold my own
I know what itā€™s like to be alone
No need to keep me in the dark
Already been, I felt that spark

[CHORUS:]
You donā€™t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

You need them anyway, I got it
Donā€™t make your own delay, you got it
Look at me standing straight, Iā€™m on it
(Baby, I donā€™t know)
For me to find my way, I get it
You need them anyway, I got it
(Baby, I donā€™t know)

Oh-oh
[repeat]

Friends that never come will never go
Swimming through the deep and let it show
Red flag, donā€™t wait; I know, your fate
All the highs but itā€™s never enough
Where were you when I was doing tow
Leave me your phone, all that I know
What am I so? Know that I go

[CHORUS:]
You donā€™t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around
[repeat]

You need them anyway, I got it (You)
Donā€™t make your own delay, you got it (Know how)
Look at me standing straight, Iā€™m on it (You)
(Baby, I donā€™t know)
For me to find my way, I get it
You need them anyway, I got it
(Baby, I donā€™t know)

[CHORUS:]
You donā€™t know how it is
(Baby, I donā€™t know)
You donā€™t know
You donā€™t know (Baby I donā€™t know)

[CHORUS:]
You donā€™t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around

[CHORUS:]
You donā€™t know how it is
For someone else to own you
Someone else to throw your heart around



All comments from YouTube:

@thinnnsabin

I never saw a guy eating a donut in such an angry way.

@daphne__x4626

Lmao but so true

@sosiglord4451

lol he lost it

@Soyarin

eat*

@katquinzel9044

LMAO SAME

@michaelzhang5074

Soya angrily* too

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@zoeyisnotokay7232

I was laughing when he was eating the doughnut than I realized what was happening it went 0 to 100 real quick

@jksbananamilk

same O_O

@antarcfroze

he's forcing the girl to listen to his mix-tape xD lmao, lololol

@zoeyisnotokay7232

Lol

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