I Really Don
Andy Williams Lyrics


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Oh how many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, oh how many, I wonder
But I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Oh how many lips have kissed you
And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
But I really don't want to know

So always make, make me wonder
And always make, make me guess
And even, you know even if I ask you
Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess

Just let it, let it remain your secret
Oh for darling, darling I love you so




No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "I Really Don't Want to Know" by Andy Williams describe a man who is in love with a woman but struggles with the thought of her past relationships. He imagines all the other men who have held her and kissed her, but he doesn't want to know the exact number or details because the thought of it is too painful for him. He pleads with her to keep her past a secret, even if he asks her about it, because he loves her so much that he doesn't want anything to come between them.


The song's melancholic tone is enhanced by Williams's smooth, soulful voice and the sweeping orchestration. The repetition of the phrase "I really don't want to know" throughout the song emphasizes the singer's reluctance to face the truth about his lover's past. The lyrics present a universal theme of jealousy and possessiveness in romantic relationships, in which an insecurity about the partner's past can lead to feelings of inadequacy.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh how many arms have held you
How many other people have been intimate with you?


And hated to let you go
Were they sad when you left them?


How many, oh how many, I wonder
I can't stop wondering how many other lovers you've had


But I really don't want, I don't wanna know
I don't actually want to know the answer to my questions


Oh how many lips have kissed you
How many other people have kissed you like I have?


And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
Did they ignite your passion like I do?


How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
I'm still consumed with the thought of how many lovers you've had


But I really don't want to know
I'm afraid the answer will hurt me more than the wondering


So always make, make me wonder
I like being in suspense about your past with other lovers


And always make, make me guess
I enjoy the mystery of imagining your past relationships


And even, you know even if I ask you
Even if I demand answers from you


Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess
Please don't tell me the truth about how many lovers you've had


Just let it, let it remain your secret
Keep your past to yourself and let me imagine who you were with


Oh for darling, darling I love you so
I cherish our relationship, despite my curiosity about your past


No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
It's no surprise that I continue to wonder about your past lovers


Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know
I'm better off not knowing the truth about your previous relationships




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, DistroKid, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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Comments from YouTube:

Laurie Ditchburn

Wonderful Floyd Cramer type of arrangement on piano~and as usual Andy does a beautiful, moving, heartfelt vocal.

John Gray

Barbara Gray commenting here, the song is Beautiful and the rendition is flawless! I love both of them

T Karcher

Why is this song not famous to this day?

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