I Really Don't Want to Know
Andy Williams Lyrics


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Oh how many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, oh how many, I wonder
But I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Oh how many lips have kissed you
And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
But I really don't want to know

So always make, make me wonder
And always make, make me guess
And even, you know even if I ask you
Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess

Just let it, let it remain your secret
Oh for darling, darling I love you so




No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know

Overall Meaning

In Andy Williams's song "I Really Don't Want to Know," the lyrics speak of a lover's fear of knowing about their partner's past relationships. The song obsesses over the idea of how many other people have been with the love interest, with the lyrics detailing how many arms and lips have held and kissed them. The singer wonders about these past relationships but ultimately decides that they do not want to know the details of them. The singer of the song expresses concern in asking their partner directly since they do not want to know the answer, which may spoil their current relationship.


The song is both a lamentation of the singer's lack of control over their partner's past experiences and a celebration of the present love that they share. The singer is so consumed with their love for their partner that they would rather ignore the possibility of anyone else being with them. Essentially, the song is about the power of love and how it makes people feel both possessive and insecure at the same time.


Overall, the lyrics to "I Really Don't Want to Know" are an honest portrayal of what it feels like to be in a loving relationship while simultaneously grappling with the insecurities that come with it.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh how many arms have held you
The singer wonders how many people have embraced his lover in the past.


And hated to let you go
The singer suspects that these people didn't want to say goodbye to his lover.


How many, oh how many, I wonder
The singer is curious about the exact number of people who have held his lover.


But I really don't want, I don't wanna know
Despite his curiosity, the singer does not actually want to know the answer.


Oh how many lips have kissed you
The singer wonders how many people have kissed his lover in the past.


And set, set your soul aglow, yes they did
The singer imagines that these kisses made his lover feel alive and happy.


How many, oh how many, I wonder, yes I do
The singer remains curious about the number of people who have kissed his lover.


But I really don't want to know
Despite his curiosity, the singer does not actually want to know the answer.


So always make, make me wonder
The singer wants his lover to keep him guessing, to keep him intrigued.


And always make, make me guess
The singer wants his lover to keep him in suspense, to keep him thinking.


And even, you know even if I ask you
The singer acknowledges that he might someday ask his lover about her past, despite his reservations.


Oh darling oh don't you, don't confess
The singer hopes that his lover won't tell him about her past, even if he asks.


Just let it, let it remain your secret
The singer wants his lover to keep her past a secret from him, to preserve the mystery between them.


Oh for darling, darling I love you so
The singer professes his love for his lover, despite his worries about her past.


No wonder, yeah no wonder, I wonder
The singer acknowledges that his curiosity is natural, given his strong feelings for his lover.


Mmm, 'cause I really don't want, I don't wanna know
Despite his curiosity, the singer does not actually want to know the answer to his questions about his lover's past.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, DistroKid, BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Spirit Music Group, Songtrust Ave, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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Comments from YouTube:

Laurie Ditchburn

Wonderful Floyd Cramer type of arrangement on piano~and as usual Andy does a beautiful, moving, heartfelt vocal.

John Gray

Barbara Gray commenting here, the song is Beautiful and the rendition is flawless! I love both of them

T Karcher

Why is this song not famous to this day?

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