You Don’t Know Me
Armand van Helden Lyrics


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What is my problem with man, you ask?
No, I ask you what is man's problem with me

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?
You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?

I don't ask for nothing
I'm always holding my own
Everytime I turn around
There's something

People talking about what they don't know
And when I try to move on up
They always pulling me down

I'm tired and I've had enough
It's my life
And I'm living it now
You don't know...

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?

I always wonder why
People try to hurt me
No happiness in their own lives
So they act by all their jealousy

Who are you to say that I'm living wrong
Always telling me what to do
I decided, I gotta be strong
What made you think that I needed you
You don't know me

You don't even know me
Oh, you don't know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand the way that I feel
You don't understand me
You can't even see the way I feel
So why do you judge my life?
Oh, yeah, you don't know me

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
You don't understand
So why do you judge my life?
So why do you judge my life?

You don't even know me
You don't know me
You say that I'm not living right
You say I'm not living right
You don't understand me
You don't understand, yeah
So why do you judge my life?

You don't even know me
You don't even know...
You say that I'm not living right
While I'll be go with you
You don't understand me
Tell me who...
So why do you judge my life?
You say they judge my life

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
I don't ask for nothing
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?
But give me...
Being down, down, down, down

You don't even know me
Are you think what you talk about
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me
You don't understand
So why do you judge my life?
Why do you judge my life?

You don't even know me
The way you can do
You say that I'm not living right
But I'll be go with you
You don't understand me
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?
So why do you judge my life?

Oh... tell

Who are you?
You say I'm not living right
Everything I try to do
You haven't walked in my shoes

I'm gonna move on
It's my life, it's my life
It's my life, it's my life
It's my life, it's my life

Aaah!

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life
Everything I try to do, oh

You don't even know me
Oh, you really fuck around
You say that I'm not living right
When I'm going in
You don't understand me
And a lot of my problems
So why do you judge my life?
I need any friend

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right




You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Armand Van Helden's "You Don’t Know Me" deal with the issue of judgment and how people often form opinions about someone without truly knowing them. The song begins with a question about what the problem is with man, and the response is to ask why man has a problem with the singer. This sets the stage for the rest of the song, which argues that people are quick to judge and criticize others without understanding their circumstances.


The first verse features the singer expressing frustration that people are judging them without really knowing who they are or what they are going through. The chorus reinforces this idea, emphasizing that the judgment is unwarranted because those people don't truly understand the singer's life. The second verse delves deeper into the singer's frustration and asks why people try to hurt them, suggesting that it is rooted in jealousy or some other source of unhappiness.


Line by Line Meaning

What is my problem with man, you ask?
I ask you what is man's problem with me


You don't even know me
You say that I'm not living right, You don't understand me, So why do you judge my life?


I don't ask for nothing
I'm always holding my own, Everytime I turn around, There's something


People talking about what they don't know
And when I try to move on up, They always pulling me down


I'm tired and I've had enough
It's my life, And I'm living it now


I always wonder why
People try to hurt me, No happiness in their own lives, So they act by all their jealousy


Who are you to say that I'm living wrong
Always telling me what to do, I decided, I gotta be strong, What made you think that I needed you


You don't even know me
Oh, you don't know me, You say that I'm not living right, You don't understand the way that I feel, You don't understand me, You can't even see the way I feel, So why do you judge my life?


So why do you judge my life?


While I'll be go with you
Tell me who...


Being down, down, down, down
But give me...


Are you think what you talk about
But I'll be go with you


The way you can do
You say that I'm not living right


But I'll be go with you
You don't understand me, So why do you judge my life?


Who are you?
You say I'm not living right, Everything I try to do, You haven't walked in my shoes


It's my life, it's my life


Oh, you really fuck around
You say that I'm not living right, When I'm going in, And a lot of my problems, I need any friend


So why do you judge my life?


Everything I try to do, oh


You say that I'm not living right
You don't understand me, So why do you judge my life?


And a lot of my problems
I need any friend


So why do you judge my life?




Writer(s): Kossi Gardner, Duane Harden, Armand van Helden

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@rarebird_82

I'm 40 but I hear this and I'm instantly 16, in the club in 1999 after my GCSE exams ❤ WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE!

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😂 24 years ago ya know lol

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Same age, same feeling, from Canada

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