Unlove You
Armin van Buuren Lyrics


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Tell me where, tell me where
Why the hell they do that?
We went from hugs to kissing to making love
And when you see me now it's a pound of regret on my back

Am I supposed to act like you ain't used to throw it back like that
Off that alcohol
Tell me how am I supposed to only look at you as my homie
I'ma keep it real girl I can't do that at all, no

Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
Something I just don't think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
Cause I don't know how to unlove you
How to unlove you

How the hell did you expect me to
Not think about the shower when I see you
I used to have your legs shaking
Now when you see me it's "Hey friend"
What the hell am I supposed to do?

Am I supposed to act like you ain't used to throw it back like that
Off that alcohol
Tell me how am I supposed to only look at you as my homie
I'ma keep it real girl I can't do that at all, no

Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
Something I just don't think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
'Cause I don't know how to unlove you
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
Something I just don't think I can do, no
Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
'Cause I don't know how to unlove you
How to unlove you





We can't be friends
How the hell am I supposed to unlove you?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Armin van Buuren's song, Unlove You, describe the pain and confusion felt by someone who is struggling to move on from a past romantic relationship. The lyrics speak of how the relationship progressed from innocent hugs to passionate love-making, but ended with a sense of regret and sorrow. The singer is haunted by reminders of their past intimacy and cannot seem to keep their feelings platonic when they're around their ex-partner, which makes it difficult for them to just be friends.


The lyrics highlight the difficulty of moving on from a past love, especially when they still have such strong feelings for their ex-partner. The singer is torn between their wish to be with their ex again and the belief that it is impossible to return to what they once had, as well as the confusion felt when trying to transition from lovers to friends. The song implies the realization that sometimes we have to face the pain of walking away completely, as it may be impossible to move on and forget.


Overall, Unlove You is a soulful and heart-wrenching song that captures the emotions of someone struggling to move on from a past love. It is a reflection on the difficulties of letting go and trying to move forward, while struggling with the memories that still linger.


Line by Line Meaning

Tell me where, tell me where
Armin van Buuren is asking his past lover where they went wrong and why they decided to separate.


Why the hell they do that?
He is frustrated and puzzled by their breakup.


We went from hugs to kissing to making love
Armin van Buuren describes the progression of their physical intimacy.


And when you see me now it's a pound of regret on my back
He regrets the end of their relationship and feels the weight of that regret whenever they meet.


Am I supposed to act like you ain't used to throw it back like that
Armin van Buuren wonders if he should ignore all the passionate moments they shared together.


Off that alcohol
Their relationship was not always sober, and the influence of alcohol could have played a role in their separation.


Tell me how am I supposed to only look at you as my homie
He can't only see her as his friend after they were so much more in the past.


I'ma keep it real girl I can't do that at all, no
Armin van Buuren admits that he cannot just be friend with her.


Said if we can't be lovers we can't be friends
He realizes he cannot have a platonic friendship with her.


Something I just don't think I can do, no
It is not possible for him to just be friends with her.


'Cause I don't know how to unlove you
He does not know how to get rid of his love for her.


How the hell did you expect me to
Armin van Buuren is questioning his past lover's expectations after the break up.


Not think about the shower when I see you
He remembers the intimate moments they shared, such as being in the shower together.


I used to have your legs shaking
He remembers how he was able to pleasure her in their past intimate moments.


Now when you see me it's 'Hey friend'
She has relegated him to the friendzone, which he struggles with.


What the hell am I supposed to do?
He is at a loss on how to respond to this new status quo.


We can't be friends
He knows that being friends is not an option for him.


How the hell am I supposed to unlove you?
Armin van Buuren is still struggling to come to terms with his love for his past lover.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing, Cloud9
Written by: Armin van Buuren, Benno de Goeij, Jesse Wilson, Shaffer Smith, Tierce Person

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Comments from YouTube:

@arminvanbuuren

Incredibly proud of my collab with Ne-Yo, this is UNLOVE YOU!
Premiered the Club Mix in last night's ASOT show: https://youtu.be/AG6iwgDW1T8?t=21717

@Vernardo

WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me bro?!

@ShafferBrah

@@Vernardo he kids you not

@Vernardo

@@ShafferBrah ugh, that was suppose to be my reaction.

@travelnerd1218

Man I still miss Your song This is What it feels like 😭😭

@estrellamvb

Ohhh what a good track, it sounds great !!! 🎶❤👆🤩

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@minosperatikos9719

This sounds like a 2010 Ne-Yo banger. Amazing track.

@asdfghjklqwrtyy

Agree with u

@Gardesion

Because it somewhat is, I can't find it anymore but Ne-Yo sang 90% of these lyrics in some other song with a pretty much similiar beat. I thought it was a demo called We Can't Be Friends.

@QuiperSlack

Check out Nicky Romero Remix^^

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