Gotta Get Over You
Aslyn Lyrics


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if i wanted to believe you, i guess i could
and if i wanted to understand you, i guess i would
but my days would go blank and i'd be freezing naked
'cause stripped of you, well, that's modestly all that i know
so i'm not ready to get over you 'cause

if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over every piece that puzzled you and me
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over feeling my heart and tasting and seeing
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over Earth, Wind, and Fire
change the soap in the shower
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over singing this song for hundreds of hours

so boy while you chip in some understanding, i'll make a deal with my mess
and cleaning up what i want to BE SAYING is my first big step
when i close my eyes and everything i run into
is stubbing me with bruises of memories of you
i'm not ready to get over you 'cause

if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over every piece that puzzled you and me
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over feeling my heart and tasting and seeing
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over Earth, Wind, and Fire
change the soap in the shower
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over singing this song for hundreds of hours

waffle house jokes and romantic comedies
avon cologne and credit card entries
butter on popcorn and that mercury sable
the whole darn state of north carolina
my pink leather jacket and cherry hi-see
when i'm finally without you
can't figure out what'll be left of me

if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over every piece that puzzled you and me
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over feeling my heart and tasting and feeling
if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over Earth, Wind, and Fire




change the soap in the shower
if i gotta get over you, i gotta STOP singing this song for hundreds of hours

Overall Meaning

Aslyn's song "Gotta Get Over You" is a powerful expression of the difficulty of moving on from a past love. The lyrics are deeply personal and introspective, as the singer grapples with the process of letting go. The opening lines suggest a reluctance to fully believe and understand the person in question, but the thought of losing them entirely is too much to bear. The singer acknowledges that their identity and sense of self is tied up in this person, and without them, they feel adrift and exposed.


The chorus repeats the phrase "if I gotta get over you," emphasizing the magnitude of the task at hand. It's not just about forgetting a single person, but rather disentangling oneself from all the memories, feelings, and associations that are tangled up in that relationship. The references to Waffle House jokes, Avon cologne, and other specific details serve to illustrate the extent to which this person permeates every aspect of the singer's life. The use of vivid imagery - like stubbing one's toe on memories of the past - further underscores the pain involved in trying to move forward.


Overall, the song is a bittersweet reflection on the end of a relationship and the challenge of moving on. The singer is realistic about the difficulties involved, but ultimately resolved to try and piece together their sense of self without this person.


Line by Line Meaning

if i wanted to believe you, i guess i could
I have the ability to convince myself that you are truthful, but I choose not to


and if i wanted to understand you, i guess i would
I have the ability to empathize with you, but I choose not to


but my days would go blank and i'd be freezing naked
Without you, my life would be empty and I would feel vulnerable


'cause stripped of you, well, that's modestly all that i know
I define myself based on our relationship, without you I would have no identity


so i'm not ready to get over you 'cause
I am not emotionally prepared to move on from our relationship


if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over every piece that puzzled you and me
If I am going to move on, I have to let go of everything that reminds me of our past relationship


if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over feeling my heart and tasting and seeing
I have to stop experiencing emotions associated with you and everything that reminds me of you


if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over Earth, Wind, and Fire
Even things that have nothing to do with our relationship, like my favorite band, I have to let go of to move on


change the soap in the shower
I have to change even the smallest details of my life that remind me of you


if i gotta get over you, i gotta get over singing this song for hundreds of hours
I have to stop dwelling on our past and move forward


so boy while you chip in some understanding, i'll make a deal with my mess
While you try to understand my feelings, I will work on myself and fix my emotional turmoil


and cleaning up what i want to BE SAYING is my first big step
Addressing my emotions and expressing how I truly feel is an important step towards moving on


when i close my eyes and everything i run into is stubbing me with bruises of memories of you
Every memory associated with you causes me pain and prevents me from moving on


waffle house jokes and romantic comedies
Even things that seem insignificant, like inside jokes and movies, remind me of you and prevent me from moving on


avon cologne and credit card entries
Even things like smells and financial records remind me of our past relationship


butter on popcorn and that mercury sable
Even random things like snacks and cars remind me of you


the whole darn state of north carolina
Even the entire state where we had memories together is a reminder of our past relationship


my pink leather jacket and cherry hi-see
Even my personal belongings have memories associated with you


when i'm finally without you
When I am finally able to move on from our relationship


can't figure out what'll be left of me
I feel so defined by our past relationship that I am unsure of who I am without you


if i gotta STOP singing this song for hundreds of hours
I need to stop dwelling on the past and focus on moving forward




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: HEATHER MITCHELL

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