Although Bryant was never Atlantic Starr's only lead singer -- Wayne and David Lewis also provided their share of lead vocals -- she was a major asset. So it came as quite a disappointment when she left Atlantic Starr in 1984 to pursue a solo career. But all was not lost. The talented Barbara Weathers was hired as a replacement and 1985's As the Band Turns -- Atlantic Starr's first post-Bryant album and sixth album overall -- found the outfit unveiling a smaller lineup that consisted of Weathers, the Lewis Brothers, and Phillips. Sudderth, Daniels, Archer, and Carroll were all gone, but despite those personnel changes, Atlantic Starr was still distinctive and recognizable. As the Band Turns, which contained the major hit "Secret Lovers," turned out to be Atlantic Starr's last album for A&M; in 1987, they moved to Warner Bros. and fared well with the album All in the Name of Love and the smash hit "Always." A syrupy adult contemporary ballad, "Always" reflected the Lewis Brothers' desire to have the type of crossover success that Whitney Houston and Lionel Ritchie had been enjoying in the '80s; they got their wish when "Always" soared to number one on both the pop and R&B charts.
After All in the Name of Love, Weathers left the band to pursue a solo career and was replaced by Porscha Martin, who was featured on 1988's We're Movin' Up. Martin was around for a few years before being replaced by Rachel Oliver (Atlantic Starr's fourth female vocalist) in the early '90s. Atlantic Starr's relationship with Warner Bros. ended after 1991's Love Crazy, and in 1994, the band recorded one album for Arista: Time. That album was a commercial disappointment and the single "I'll Remember You" only made it to the fifties on Billboard's R&B and pop singles charts. Time (which was David Lewis' last album with the band) found a fifth female singer, Aisha Tanner, replacing Oliver. And when 1999's Legacy was distributed by the small, independent Street Solid label, Atlantic Starr unveiled yet another lineup -- one that consisted of two Lewis Brothers (Wayne and Jonathan) as well as Oliver (who had returned and replaced Tanner) and a new male singer named DeWayne Woods. Although Legacy received very little attention, Atlantic Starr hung in there and was still performing for die-hard fans when the 21st century arrived.
My Mistake
Atlantic Starr Lyrics
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I've caused a lot of pain
'Cause I never really knew
What love could put someone through
I just wanted excitement
Wanted what I want but
Didn't fulfil my needs
And now that I see the picture
We all have our wants
I know everyone's got their needs
Oh but somehow what I wanted
Overruled my needs I was living
In a fantasy
All I needed was to see
True love needs romance
And it took me so long to learn
Then one day I would really see
How painful it'd really be
When you lose your love
I should've realized
That you can't disguise
Love when it's real
I should've known the reality
When I set her free
She said you didn't love me
I knew that it was my mistake
There's a million times
I felt that I'd found love
But each time it turned out to be
None of the things I'd ever dreamed of
One day I met her
I hoped that she'd be different
From the rest
I would finally live my adventure
Had she only agreed
Oh but I should've realized
That you can't disguise
Love when it's real
I should've known
True love wouldn't be
When she looked at me
And said she didn't love me
I knew that it was my mistake
The lyrics to Atlantic Starr's song "My Mistake" tell the story of a person who has caused a lot of pain due to their lack of understanding of what love truly entails. The individual in the song confesses that they just wanted excitement and to fulfill their own desires, but failed to understand how their actions impacted those they claimed to love. They admit to living in a fantasy and failing to see that true love requires romance, something they only learned after losing their love. They then reflect on the fact that they should have realized that you cannot disguise real love and that it was their mistake for not recognizing the reality of the situation before it was too late.
The lyrics of "My Mistake" are a reflection on the complexities of love and relationships. It shows that love requires effort and an understanding of other people's needs, which can be difficult to recognize and navigate. This song highlights the importance of recognizing the value of love and how it must be nurtured, appreciated, and protected. It also recognizes the reality that sometimes, love may be lost due to our own shortcomings and mistakes.
Line by Line Meaning
Look what I have done
I'm reflecting on my actions and their consequences.
I've caused a lot of pain
My actions have hurt someone else deeply.
'Cause I never really knew
What love could put someone through
I didn't understand the impact my behavior could have on someone I claimed to love.
I just wanted excitement
Wanted what I want but
Didn't fulfil my needs
I prioritized my own desires and didn't consider that my actions might hurt others.
And now that I see the picture
Please pardon me
After reflection, I understand the harm I caused and ask for forgiveness.
We all have our wants
I know everyone's got their needs
Oh but somehow what I wanted
Overruled my needs
I recognize that we all have desires and needs, but I let my wants take priority over the needs of others and myself.
I was living
In a fantasy
All I needed was to see
True love needs romance
I was living in a world of my own making and didn't understand the importance of real emotional connection in a romantic relationship.
And it took me so long to learn
Then one day I would really see
How painful it'd really be
When you lose your love
It took me a while to understand the importance of true love and the heartbreak that comes when you lose it.
I should've realized
That you can't disguise
Love when it's real
I should have known that real love cannot be faked or hidden.
I should've known the reality
When I set her free
She said you didn't love me
I should have understood the reality of the situation when I let her go, but I didn't realize until she told me that I didn't truly love her.
There's a million times
I felt that I'd found love
But each time it turned out to be
None of the things I'd ever dreamed of
I thought I had found love many times before, but now I realize that those were just illusions.
One day I met her
I hoped that she'd be different
From the rest
I would finally live my adventure
Had she only agreed
I met someone who I thought was going to be different, someone who I thought would be the one. But it didn't work out the way I hoped.
True love wouldn't be
When she looked at me
And said she didn't love me
I knew that it was my mistake
I finally understood that true love requires two people to feel the same way, and when she told me she didn't love me, I realized I had made a mistake by not recognizing that earlier.
Writer(s): David Lewis, Wayne Lewis
Contributed by James W. Suggest a correction in the comments below.