First love
Attrition Lyrics


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My first love is belief in
The castles that I'm building
God, I'm glad to see you
Storming my cathedral

Remember me?
Remember me
My second is a scene
From Baudelaire's ravine
I emptied my oasis
Into deserts full of dreams

Remember me?
Remember me

My third is growing wild
In the gardens of our mind
I'd pick up roses silently
And hand them to a child

Remember me?
Remember me





Remember me?
Remember me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Attrition's song "First Love" depict the singer's three different forms of love. The first love is the belief in the castles that the singer is building, which can be interpreted as the hope and dreams that they have for their future. The second love is a scene from Baudelaire's "ravine," which could symbolize being lost and consumed by negative thought patterns or emotions. The singer has emptied their oasis into deserts full of dreams, suggesting that they've given up on their own happiness to focus on aspirations that may be unattainable. Lastly, the third form of love "grows wild in the garden of our mind." This love is pure and innocent, symbolized by the roses the singer silently picks and hands to a child.


The recurring lines "Remember me? Remember me" throughout the song could be viewed as a plea or a reminder to hold onto memories and experiences of love. The singer wants to be remembered, which speaks to the fear of being forgotten or replaced.


Overall, the lyrics of "First Love" explore the complexities of love and how it can manifest in different forms throughout one's life. From the hopeful aspirations of building the "castles" in our minds, to the lost feeling of being in the "ravine," to the pure and simple love that resides within us all, the song paints a picture of the multifaceted nature of love and the different ways it can impact our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

My first love is belief in
My first love is the sense of trust and faith in something or someone.


The castles that I'm building
The aspiration and pursuit of building dreams and achieving goals.


God, I'm glad to see you
The joy of encountering the divine or experiencing a spiritual connection.


Storming my cathedral
The act of confronting and challenging established religious beliefs or traditions.


My second is a scene
My second love is a vivid memory or moment that holds a special meaning.


From Baudelaire's ravine
Referencing poet Charles Baudelaire's struggle with addiction and depression.


I emptied my oasis
I gave up my safe and comfortable place, leaving myself without security.


Into deserts full of dreams
Into a barren landscape where hope and the fulfillment of desires seem impossible.


My third is growing wild
My third love is untamed and unpredictable, with potential for growth and transformation.


In the gardens of our mind
In the internal landscape of our thoughts and emotions.


I'd pick up roses silently
I would quietly gather beautiful moments or memories.


And hand them to a child
And offer them to a younger generation, as a symbol of hope and inspiration.


Remember me?
Do you recall and acknowledge my existence or influence?


Remember me?
Do you remember the impact I have made on your life, or the world around us?




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