Keepin’ It To Myself
Average White Band Lyrics


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Now and again it occurs to me
I'm giving away much more than I ought to be
Oh, yes I am
And today I got a letter
Telling me things that I better not believe
But I don't know if I can
But you're the last in a long line of mistakes I've made
I'm tired of giving my heart and soul to a masquerade
So I'm gonna be

Keepin' it to myself
Let it build up inside of me
Keepin' it to myself
Baby, I tried

Well it makes no difference
I always thought that it was planned
When you get everything a man has to give
You now you got to return it
But every time I build my dreams
Find that love is not all what it seems to be
And I keep getting burned
But from now on I'm gonna quit
Before I commit myself
To any woman I meet
And I'll get by without love for a while
And get into something else

Keepin' it to myself
Let it build on up inside




Keepin' it to myself
Baby, I tried

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Average White Band's song Keepin’ It To Myself talk about the singer's realization that they tend to give away more than they should in a relationship. They receive a letter that warns them about something but they don't know if they can believe it. The singer speaks about being tired of making mistakes in love and giving their heart and soul to someone's illusion. The last mistake has led them to decide that they will keep their emotions and feelings inside rather than giving them away to anyone. They declare that they will try to keep everything to themselves and consciously suppress their emotions from spilling out. The singer continues to say that they always believed in making an effort towards love and relationships, but every time they invest themselves in someone, they always seem to face disappointment. Hence, the singer is tired of getting burned and is ready to move on from the world of love and focus on something else.


The song is an excellent representation of an individual's struggle between their desire for love and their fear of getting hurt, leading them to willingly seal off their emotions from others. It portrays the internal conflict that an individual goes through while deciding to let go of a part of themselves to fall in love. The song highlights the fear of commitment and the fear of getting hurt, leading the singer to want to keep everything to themselves. The meaning behind the lyrics is relatable and strikes a chord with many, thus making the song evergreen.


Line by Line Meaning

Now and again it occurs to me
Every so often, I realize


I'm giving away much more than I ought to be
I'm sharing too much of myself with others


Oh, yes I am
It's true


And today I got a letter
Recently I received a message


Telling me things that I better not believe
Informing me of falsehoods I shouldn't trust


But I don't know if I can
I'm not sure if I have the ability


But you're the last in a long line of mistakes I've made
You're the most recent error in a series of many I've committed


I'm tired of giving my heart and soul to a masquerade
I'm exhausted from putting so much effort into a deceptive performance


So I'm gonna be
Therefore, I will


Keepin' it to myself
Keeping my feelings private


Let it build up inside of me
Allowing my emotions to accumulate within me


Baby, I tried
I made an effort, but it didn't work out


Well it makes no difference
It doesn't matter


I always thought that it was planned
I used to believe it was deliberate


When you get everything a man has to give
Upon obtaining all a person can offer


You now you got to return it
It's expected you'll give back something in return


But every time I build my dreams
However, every time I envision a positive future


Find that love is not all what it seems to be
I realize that romance isn't always straightforward


And I keep getting burned
I continue to get hurt


But from now on I'm gonna quit
Yet, moving forward I will stop


Before I commit myself
Before I dedicate my time and energy


To any woman I meet
To any new potential partner


And I'll get by without love for a while
I'll manage without romance temporarily


And get into something else
I'll pursue a different interest instead


Keepin' it to myself
Keeping my feelings private


Let it build on up inside
Allowing my emotions to accumulate within me


Baby, I tried
I made an effort, but it didn't work out




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