You Remind Me of Home
B. Gibbard & A. Kenny Lyrics


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You remind me of home:
The paint cracks when the water leaks
From the rusty pipes that are just beneath my feet
You remind me of home:
The heater's warm but fills the room with a
Potpourri of dust and gas fumes

You remind me of home:
A broken bed with dirty sheets that creaks
When I am shifting in my sleep
You remind me of home:
In a suburban town with nothing to do,
Patiently waiting for something to happen

But the foundation is crumbling
And becoming one with the ground
While you lay there in slumber
You're wasting your life,
Wasting Your Life
You're wasting your life,
Wasting Your Life
You're wasting your life,
Wasting Your Life
You're wasting your life,
Wasting Your Life
Wasting Your Life
Wasting Your Life

You remind me of home:




Sitting on a thrift store couch
I'm trying to get this all down

Overall Meaning

In "You Remind Me of Home" by Benjamin Gibbard and Andrew Kenny, the opening lyrics describe a sense of familiarity and nostalgia, comparing the listener or a significant other to elements of home. The imagery of cracked paint and rusty pipes suggests a sense of imperfection and wear that is characteristic of a lived-in space. The leaky water and dusty gas fumes evoke a sense of discomfort and decay, highlighting the flaws that can be found in even the most familiar places.


The following verses continue to paint a picture of a home that is not quite ideal - from a broken bed with creaky sheets to a suburban town lacking excitement. The lyrics convey a feeling of stagnation and longing for change, as the singer finds themselves in a situation where they are waiting for something to happen but feeling trapped in the monotony of their surroundings. There is a sense of restlessness and dissatisfaction underlying these descriptions of home, suggesting a yearning for something more fulfilling or meaningful.


The chorus shifts the tone, with an urgent plea to awaken from complacency and actively engage with life. The repeated refrain of "You're wasting your life" emphasizes a sense of urgency and potential regret, calling attention to the dangers of passivity and inaction. The imagery of a crumbling foundation and wasting away while in slumber conveys a sense of missed opportunities and the consequences of not seizing the moment to live fully.


The final verse brings a sense of vulnerability and honesty, as the singer reflects on their current state while sitting on a thrift store couch, metaphorically trying to make sense of it all. The act of trying to "get this all down" suggests a desire to capture and understand the complexities of life and home, even when faced with imperfections and uncertainties. Overall, "You Remind Me of Home" delves into themes of nostalgia, dissatisfaction, and the need for self-awareness and action in order to avoid wasting one's life and missing out on the potential for growth and fulfillment.


Line by Line Meaning

You remind me of home
Thinking of familiar surroundings and memories


The paint cracks when the water leaks
Signs of decay and neglect in the home


From the rusty pipes that are just beneath my feet
Evidence of aging infrastructure and disrepair


The heater's warm but fills the room with a potpourri of dust and gas fumes
Seeking comfort in a less than ideal environment


A broken bed with dirty sheets that creaks
Uncomfortable and unsettling sleeping arrangements


When I am shifting in my sleep
Struggling to find peace and rest


In a suburban town with nothing to do, Patiently waiting for something to happen
Feeling stuck in a dull and uninspiring place


But the foundation is crumbling And becoming one with the ground
The deterioration of the home mirroring personal struggles


While you lay there in slumber
Ignoring the problems or challenges at hand


You're wasting your life, Wasting Your Life
A call to recognize and address self-destructive behavior


Wasting Your Life
Repeating the message of the need for change


Sitting on a thrift store couch I'm trying to get this all down
Reflecting on past experiences and trying to make sense of them




Lyrics Β© Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Benjamin Gibbard

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Comments from YouTube:

@greendaylove1111

Ben Gibbard is such an incredible artist, whether he's creating his own music, Death Cab for Cuties, or the Postal Service, it's all his amazing artistry. Β I could listen to his voice for the rest of my life, Ben is magic <3

@beccamorrison9733

Exactly, I'm proud to say Ben and I are from the same place. Also, have you heard Death Cab's new album?? It's called Kintsugi. It drops today but you can listen to it on NPR

@greendaylove1111

That's awesome you're from the same place as Ben! And yes I got the new album today and I'm soooooo excited to listen to it, all of Death Cab's music is incredible <3

@kurtgrunsky6761

I was never a huge Death Cab listener, but the first time I heard them was at a summer camp I used to go to. After all the campers in the cabin had gone to bed for the night, we could sometimes hear music that the counselors responsible for that cabin would be playing quietly on a small speaker in their back room. It was never loud enough to keep us awake, but I was something of an insomniac and I ended up hearing a lot of what they were playing during that time. Very often, it would be Death Cab's softer songs, and one time it was this one. The "wasting your life" bit really stuck with me; while that section was repeating, I remember hearing someone (and I couldn't tell if it was coming from the counselor's back room or from a fellow insomniac kid on our side of the cabin) ask audibly above the music "Are you wasting your life?" There was no reply. That particular moment affected me deeply for some reason. I'm not sure I can articulate exactly why, and I can't say I would credit it with bringing about a huge paradigm shift for my own life or anything - this was not the catalyst to making me realize I was wasting my life and needed to turn it around. Still, something felt strangely poignant and poetic about that moment and I'm still thinking about it more than 13 years later.

@beccamorrison9733

Remember when this was used on a Dell commercial and it was basically them just subtly saying that we're wasting our life on computers???Β 

@Its.rilly.tessa.

this gives me nostalgia

@HappyHourSketch

Love me some Ben Gibbard!

@MKatz1121

All these songs have really clever lyrics and great guitar! I'm a big fan.

@matthewarcher7398

This is honestly the best Ben song I have ever heard. Don't know why. I never really got into Death Cab but I liked this EP a lot.

@obsidianrosetarot

This song sounds directed at me.

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