So What
B.o.B Lyrics

Everybody plays the fool
Everyone makes mistakes and gets hurt in relationships

There's no point in wondering why people do what they do
Trying to understand someone's behavior is pointless because people act in unexpected ways

It's alright to be confused
It's natural to feel uncertain and unclear about a situation

But don't lose sight of the truth
Remember to stay grounded in what you know to be true

Girl, it's him, it's not you
His behavior is not a reflection of you

So what if he don't call when he's supposed to
Don't worry about whether he sticks to a schedule or not

So what if he don't care
It's not your responsibility to care about his lack of caring

So what if when you cry he don't hold you
His lack of comfort when you cry is not a reflection of your worth

You don't need him to be there
You are an independent person and do not require someone else to be present for you to be okay

So what if when you're mad he says you're crazy
His derogatory comment when you're angry is a reflection of his own insecurities

You just make him insecure
Your expression of emotion threatens his sense of control

No, you didn't lose the girl you used to be
Your experiences do not take away from the core of who you are

You just let yourself get a little hurt
You experienced pain, but it does not define you

It happens to the best of us
Everyone goes through difficult experiences in relationships, regardless of their strengths or weaknesses

And you don't have to be ashamed
You should not feel embarrassed or guilty for giving your all in a relationship

For giving everything you got when they don't know what they have
Even if your partner did not appreciate your efforts, your actions were still valid

Sometimes jumping ain't so safe
Taking risks can be dangerous and uncertain

But when the parachute don't open, girl, don't feel so bad
If your expectations and hopes are not met in a relationship, it is not your fault

So what if when you're mad he says you're crazy
His derogatory comment when you're angry is a reflection of his own insecurities

Oh, oh, oh
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So what if when you're mad he says you're crazy
His derogatory comment when you're angry is a reflection of his own insecurities

You just make him insecure
Your expression of emotion threatens his sense of control

No, you didn't lose the girl you used to be
Your experiences do not take away from the core of who you are

You just let yourself get a little hurt
You experienced pain, but it does not define you

But so what
In the grand scheme of things, these problems are insignificant

It happens to the best of us
Everyone goes through difficult experiences in relationships, regardless of their strengths or weaknesses

So what
Don't dwell on the negative aspects of a situation

So what
In the grand scheme of things, these problems are insignificant

So what
It's not worth being upset over

It happens to the best of us
Everyone goes through difficult experiences in relationships, regardless of their strengths or weaknesses