How Long
Barbara Dickson Lyrics


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CHORUS :

How long has this been going on?
How long has this been going on?

Well your friends with their fancy persuasion
Don't admit that it's part of a scheme
But I can't help but have my suspicion
'Cause I ain't quite as dumb as I seem

Well you said you were never intending
To break up our scene in this way
But there ain't any use in pretending
It could happen to us any day

CHORUS

Well your friends and their gentle persuasion
Don't admit it's part of a scheme
But I can't help but have my suspicion
'Cause I ain't quite as dumb as I seem

Well you said you were never intending
To break up our scene in this way
But there ain't any use in pretending
It could happen to us any day





CHORUS (TO FADE)

Overall Meaning

Barbara Dickson's song "How Long" is a ballad about suspicion and doubt in a relationship. The chorus repeats the question, "How long has this been going on?" This question is meant to suggest that there may be something going on behind the scenes which the singer is not aware of but is slowly catching on to. She admits that her partner's friends, with their "fancy persuasion", may not be telling the whole truth about what is going on, but she is not as dumb as she seems and can sense that something is amiss.


The song reflects the common experience of feeling a sense of unease in a relationship but not having concrete evidence to support suspicions. The singer expresses her doubt by pointing out that it could happen to them any day, and there is no use pretending that their relationship is immune to temptation or outside influences. The song is a plea for honesty and clarity in communication between partners, and a warning that relationships can easily fall apart when trust is eroded.


Overall, Barbara Dickson's "How Long" is a poignant reflection on the fragility of romantic relationships and the importance of honesty and trust. It is a reminder that even the most seemingly solid relationships can dissolve quickly when there is a lack of transparency and a failure to confront suspicions head-on.


Line by Line Meaning

Well your friends with their fancy persuasion
Your friends, with their manipulative ways, make me suspicious.


Don't admit that it's part of a scheme
They won't openly acknowledge that they're trying to deceive me.


But I can't help but have my suspicion
Despite their denial, I still feel doubtful and uneasy.


'Cause I ain't quite as dumb as I seem
I may seem naive, but I'm not completely oblivious to what's going on.


Well you said you were never intending
You claimed that breaking us up was not your intention.


To break up our scene in this way
You didn't plan on causing disruption in our relationship.


But there ain't any use in pretending
However, it's pointless to pretend that it couldn't happen to us.


It could happen to us any day
The threat of our relationship falling apart is always looming over us.


Well your friends and their gentle persuasion
Your friends, who use subtler tactics, make me wary.


CHORUS
The singer wonders how long this situation will go on.


CHORUS (TO FADE)
Repetition of the singer's question about how long this will continue until the song fades out.




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