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Barbara Mason Lyrics


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"Hello Barbara, this is Shirley
I would like you to know that the man...
Now wait a minute Shirley
I'm a young woman
And can't afford to all the things you do for this man
I don't even have A job
And I can't buy his clothes, pay his car notes
And I surely can't keep money in his pocket
But I can give him what he needs, when he needs it
And that's all he expects from me"

I can give him love
From his woman to you
There is a thing or two I'd like to say
I don't care who claims this man
I'm gonna love him in a way...
Woman to woman
He spent last night with me
Stayed here cause this is where he wanted to be
From his woman to you
I've got to make it
Just play as I can

Seems to me you're doing to much for the man
From his woman to you
That you begging loving
It's giving up yourself
And I feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for you
I don't mind sharing
If you don't bother me
I won't bother you
From his woman to you
I don't know what you're gonna, gonna do
But he is giving to me
What he is getting from you
Woman to woman
That's the truth
From his woman to you
Seems like you're the fool
I;m his only woman

And I love him
And I ain't about to give him up
I'm his only woman, woman to woman
I just want to let you know




That I ain't gonna never, never let him go
Woman to woman, I'm his only woman

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Barbara Mason's song "You" reveal a conversation between two women, Shirley and Barbara. Shirley is likely the wife or girlfriend of the man whom Barbara is seeing. Shirley confesses to Barbara that she does everything for their man, such as buying him clothes and paying his car notes, but laments that she cannot afford to do more for him. Barbara responds by saying that she is unable to do all the things Shirley does but is capable of giving him what he needs - love. She goes on to confess that the man spent the night with her and that she loves him too. The rest of the song emphasizes that Barbara is willing to share the man with Shirley, but she is his only woman, and she won't give him up.


The song explores the complex dynamics of love, jealousy, and infidelity. Barbara assumes the role of a mistress who falls in love with a man who already has a woman. She is fully aware of the situation but contends that she can give him what he needs. However, Shirley, on the other end, seems to be doing everything for the man, including begging for his love, which implies that he might not be fully committed to her. Barbara's confidence and self-assuredness in the song seem to suggest that she knows what the man wants and how to keep him.


Line by Line Meaning

Hello Barbara, this is Shirley
Shirley speaks to Barbara


I would like you to know that the man...
Shirley wants Barbara to know about a man


Now wait a minute Shirley
Barbara interrupts Shirley


I'm a young woman
Barbara identifies herself


And can't afford to all the things you do for this man
Barbara cannot do what Shirley does for the man


I don't even have A job
Barbara doesn't have a job


And I can't buy his clothes, pay his car notes
Barbara cannot finance the man's expenses


And I surely can't keep money in his pocket
Barbara can't support his finances


But I can give him what he needs, when he needs it
Barbara can provide the man with what he wants


And that's all he expects from me
The man doesn't want anything else from Barbara


I can give him love
Barbara can give the man love


From his woman to you
Barbara speaks to Shirley as a rival


There is a thing or two I'd like to say
Barbara wants to clarify something


I don't care who claims this man
Barbara isn't concerned with who he is with


I'm gonna love him in a way...
Barbara will love him differently from Shirley


Woman to woman
Barbara addresses Shirley as a fellow woman


He spent last night with me
The man stayed with Barbara last night


Stayed here cause this is where he wanted to be
The man chose to spend the night with Barbara


I've got to make it
Barbara will do whatever it takes


Just play as I can
Barbara will try her best


Seems to me you're doing to much for the man
Barbara thinks Shirley is doing too much for the man


That you begging loving
Shirley is asking for love


It's giving up yourself
Shirley is sacrificing herself


And I feel sorry for you, I feel sorry for you
Barbara pities Shirley


I don't mind sharing
Barbara is willing to share the man


If you don't bother me
As long as Shirley doesn't bother Barbara


I won't bother you
Barbara won't bother Shirley


I don't know what you're gonna, gonna do
Barbara doesn't know what Shirley will do


But he is giving to me
The man is giving something specific to Barbara


What he is getting from you
Barbara knows what the man is getting from Shirley


That's the truth
Barbara is speaking the truth


Seems like you're the fool
Barbara thinks Shirley is foolish


I'm his only woman
Barbara is the man's only woman


And I love him
Barbara loves the man


And I ain't about to give him up
Barbara won't let the man go


I just want to let you know
Barbara is informing Shirley


That I ain't gonna never, never let him go
Barbara won't ever let the man go


Woman to woman
Barbara addresses Shirley as a fellow woman


I'm his only woman, woman to woman
Barbara repeats that she is the man's only woman




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BETTYE JEAN BARNES CRUTCHER, LESTER A. SNELL

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@danielcorreias

Eu costumava amar tudo em você
Eu costumava pensar que não poderia viver sem você
Eu costumava preencher, todo o meu mundo ao seu redor
E você me machucou tão mal (você me machucou tão mal)
E sobre você eu não sinto o mesmo, porque você nunca me amou de todo (você nunca me amou
Eu era um tolo de cair como eu fiz
Eu costumava esperar pelo seu telefonema, mas você não me ligaria de todo
Eu costumava esperar, para você tarde da noite
Eu acho que você vai se apressar e voltar para casa e tudo ficaria bem,
Mas você nunca me amou de todo (você nunca me amou)
Eu era um tolo de cair como eu fiz
Você nunca me amou de todo (você nunca me amou)
Eu era um tolo de cair como eu fiz

Você nunca me amou em tudo

Houve momentos em que pensei que você estaria lá para mim
Então eu, eu acordaria, era apenas um sonho,
Porque você nunca me amou em tudo
Eu era um tolo de cair como eu fiz
Você nunca me amou de todo (você nunca me amou)
Eu era um tolo para cair como eu fiz (eu era um tolo)
Não, você estava fingindo (você nunca me amou)



@chavez5308

I used to love everything about you
I used to think I couldn't live without you
I used to fill, my whole world around you
And you hurt me so bad (you hurt me so bad)
And about you I don't feel the same, cause u never loved me at all (u never loved me
I was a fool to fall like I did
I used to wait for your phone call, but you wouldn't call me at all
I used to wait, for you late at night
I'd think you'll hurry up and come home and everything would be alright, 
But you never loved me at all (u never loved me at all)
I was a fool to fall like I did
You never loved me at all (you never loved me at all)
I was a fool to fall like I did

U never loved me at all

There were times that I thought you would be there for me
Then I, I would wake up it was only a dream, 
Cause you never loved me at all
I was a fool to fall like I did
You never loved me at all (u never loved me)
I was a fool to fall like I did (I was a fool)
No, you were pretending (you never loved me)



All comments from YouTube:

@davidbarajas3553

When ever my wife is upset at me, she blasts this song!

@sirresebethea

Oh wow

@gresiaperez7646

😂😂😂

@jimenor5540

That's what they are good at, emotional black mail,a lot of men get into trouble or die trying to prove they love their wife,... men should realize they were not born to prove that...

@chrissygonzalez743

That's me lol

@Shirlene-wm9vs

Yes,all us!!

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@naomisunset

Such a moving song.. her voice gives me chills 🥶🤯 I love oldies!

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Let Em Know Prima 👌

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Love this woman

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