Dear Paul
Barbie's Cradle Lyrics


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Dear Paul oh my old friend
I always liked you but you always liked to go
I loved you from the classroom window
But you were busy making girls like me miserable
Chasing the high school girls

Dear Paul I was changed
My very first addiction was named after you
And I stared and I shed some tears
Then started writing songs to comfort me while I wait
But like some things you never came

don't you know eleven years is a long time
To freeze a heart eleven years is long enough
To make a girl insane

Dear Paul would you stay far
And be the bicycle that I never had
And I've tried different kinds of ice cream
And some made my throat sore
But you were only bliss
So ill visit you in dream

Cause you know eleven years is a long time
To freeze a heart eleven years is long enough
To make a girl insane Paul

You make a girl insane Paul




You make a girl insane Paul
You make a girl insane

Overall Meaning

The song "Dear Paul" by Barbie's Cradle is a nostalgic and emotional piece written for an old friend named Paul whom the singer always had feelings for but was never reciprocated. The lyrics talk about how the singer loved Paul from afar, even from a classroom window, but Paul was too busy chasing after high school girls, leaving the singer miserable. The song then shifts to the singer's first addiction, which was named after Paul. The lyrics further reveal how the singer has tried to move on with different experiences, such as trying different kinds of ice cream that left her throat sore, but nothing compares to the bliss she felt with Paul.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the pain and longing that the singer feels after eleven long years of being frozen in the past. She expresses how eleven years of holding on to this unrequited love is enough to drive a girl insane. The end of the song illustrates that although the singer knows she can only visit Paul in her dreams now, she will still always love him and the memories they shared together.


Overall, "Dear Paul" is a moving and heartfelt ballad that captures the pain of unrequited love and the nostalgia of old friendships. The song's powerful emotions are conveyed through the lyrics and Barbie's Cradle's delicate musical arrangement.


Line by Line Meaning

Dear Paul oh my old friend
The singer is addressing a person named Paul who she has known for a long time and considers a friend.


I always liked you but you always liked to go
The singer has always had a favorable view of Paul, but he has never stayed in one place for very long.


I loved you from the classroom window
The singer had a romantic attraction to Paul while they were in school together.


But you were busy making girls like me miserable
Paul was known for being involved with multiple girls, and this behavior caused problems for the singer and others like her.


Chasing the high school girls
This line reinforces the idea that Paul was interested in younger girls and frequently pursued them.


Dear Paul I was changed
The singer's feelings towards Paul changed over time, likely due to his behavior and treatment of her.


My very first addiction was named after you
Paul was the subject of the singer's first obsession or infatuation.


And I stared and I shed some tears
The singer is reflecting on her emotions towards Paul and how they affected her over time.


Then started writing songs to comfort me while I wait
The singer turned to music as a way to cope with her feelings towards Paul and her waiting for him to reciprocate her feelings.


But like some things you never came
Despite her best efforts, the singer was never able to form a romantic relationship with Paul, and he never returned her affection.


don't you know eleven years is a long time
The singer is expressing frustration over the length of time she has waited for Paul to return her affections.


To freeze a heart eleven years is long enough
The singer has been waiting for so long that her emotions have become stagnant and unchanging.


To make a girl insane
The constant waiting and unrequited love has had a negative impact on the singer's mental health.


Dear Paul would you stay far
The singer is expressing a desire for distance from Paul in order to move on from her feelings for him.


And be the bicycle that I never had
The singer is comparing her desire for a new and healthy relationship to her childhood desire for a bicycle she was never able to have.


And I've tried different kinds of ice cream
The singer has experimented with other romantic partners or experiences.


And some made my throat sore
These experiences may have been unpleasant or painful for the singer.


But you were only bliss
Despite the negative aspects of her feelings towards Paul, the singer still associates him with positive emotions and experiences.


So ill visit you in dream
The singer has accepted that a romantic relationship with Paul is not possible, and she will only encounter him in her dreams or memories.


Cause you know eleven years is a long time
The singer is repeating this line to emphasize how much time has passed and how long she has waited for an outcome that has never been realized.


To freeze a heart eleven years is long enough
This line is repeated to reinforce the idea that the singer's emotions have been stagnant and unchanging because of the length of time she has waited for Paul.


To make a girl insane Paul
The singer's emotions towards Paul have had a negative impact on her mental state and well-being.


You make a girl insane Paul
This line is repeated to emphasize the negative impact Paul has had on the singer and her emotions.


You make a girl insane Paul
The repetition of this line at the end of the song further emphasizes the singer's frustration and negative emotions towards Paul.




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