You Don't Bring Me Flowers
Barbra Streisand Lyrics


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You don't bring me flowers
You don't sing me love songs
You hardly talk to me anymore
When I come through the door at the end of the day

I remember when
You couldn't wait to love me
Used to hate to leave me

Now after lovin' me late at night
When it's good for you, babe
And you're feeling alright
Well, you just roll over and turn out the light
And you don't bring me flowers anymore

It used to be so natural (used to be)
Talk about forever
But used-to-bes don't count anymore
They just lay on the floor 'til we sweep them away

And baby, I remember
All the things you taught me
I learned how to laugh
And I learned how to cry
Well, I learned how to love
And I learned how to lie

So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
(So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye)
You don't bring me flowers anymore

Well, you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
Well, you don't say you need me




And you don't sing me love songs
You don't bring me flowers anymore

Overall Meaning

In Neil Diamond's "You Don't Bring Me Flowers," the lyrics are a powerful depiction of a relationship that has lost its spark. Barbra Streisand and Neil Diamond's haunting performance of the song together emphasizes this sentiment. The song portrays a couple that has grown apart as their love has faded away. The lyrics in the song express how the instances of affection such as bringing flowers, singing love songs, and simply talking have become a thing of the past.


The song also highlights how the couple's conversations have slowed down, and they hardly talk anymore. The couple's intimacy is just a mechanical routine, where a night of love-making satisfies only the physical pleasure of the partner but lacks any emotional attachment. The line "And you're feeling alright, well, you just roll over and turn out the light" depicts this reality. Barbra and Diamond's emotive delivery of the lyrics portrays a tale of love that once was full of sparks and passion but has lost its fire.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't bring me flowers
You don't show me any kind gestures or affection anymore


You don't sing me love songs
You don't express your love for me in any way, even through music


You hardly talk to me anymore
We barely have any communication or conversation at all


When I come through the door at the end of the day
When I return home from my daily routine


I remember when
I recall a time in the past


You couldn't wait to love me
You were enthusiastic about loving me and couldn't wait to express it


Used to hate to leave me
You had a hard time saying goodbye to me


Now after lovin' me late at night
Nowadays, after having intimate moments with me at night


When it's good for you, babe
When it's convenient for you and you're satisfied with it


And you're feeling alright
When you're content with the way things are


Well, you just roll over and turn out the light
You simply turn your back and ignore me by switching off the light


And you don't bring me flowers anymore
You don't show me any signs of appreciation or romance anymore


It used to be so natural (used to be)
It used to happen effortlessly


Talk about forever
We used to discuss being together for a long period of time


But used-to-bes don't count anymore
But reminiscing about the past doesn't matter or have any significance anymore


They just lay on the floor 'til we sweep them away
Memories of the past just accumulate and are eventually forgotten


And baby, I remember
And my dear, I recall


All the things you taught me
All the valuable lessons and experiences you shared with me


I learned how to laugh
You taught me how to find joy in life


And I learned how to cry
You taught me how to express my emotions, even when they were sad


Well, I learned how to love
You taught me how to love deeply


And I learned how to lie
You taught me how to keep secrets and hide the truth


So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
So it would seem that I could find the courage to end our relationship


(So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye)
(So it seems like telling you goodbye would be easy)


Well, you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
You would expect that I could find a way to bring our relationship to an end


Well, you don't say you need me
You don't express any need for me in your life


And you don't sing me love songs
You don't do anything to express your love for me


You don't bring me flowers anymore
You don't make any effort to show me romantic gestures anymore




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Spirit Music Group
Written by: Alan Bergman, Marilyn Bergman, Neil Diamond

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@vindictivevillain

You don't bring me flowers
You don't sing me love songs
You hardly talk to me anymore
When I come through the door at the end of the day

I remember when
You couldn't wait to love me
Used to hate to leave me

Now after lovin' me late at night
When it's good for you, babe
And you're feeling alright
Well, you just roll over and turn out the light
And you don't bring me flowers anymore

It used to be so natural (used to be)
Talk about forever
But used-to-bes don't count anymore
They just lay on the floor 'til we sweep them away

And baby, I remember
All the things you taught me
I learned how to laugh
And I learned how to cry
Well, I learned how to love
And I learned how to lie

So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
(So you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye)
You don't bring me flowers anymore

Well, you'd think I could learn how to tell you goodbye
Well, you don't say you need me
And you don't sing me love songs
You don't bring me flowers anymore



All comments from YouTube:

@marklinroth3014

I first heard this song in the fall of 1977 as a freshman in college. I though that has got to be the saddest song I've ever heard. Having spent middle and high school as chicken #10, I swore that if I was ever lucky enough to have a woman in my life I would never let that happen. 25 years on, I still bring random flowers to Martha and surprise her with random events. I still hold the door for her and meet her at the airport with a bouquet (man, does she get comments from the women and I get dirty looks from the guys.) I sing to her also, even though with my skill that makes dogs whine. Yeah, newlyweds got nothing on us. And I make sure to listen to this song at least once a year so I never forget how important it is to hold her in the limelight.

@hummingbird9221

years! You are a wise man!

@Mindy-ny8pm

You're a wonderful person

@vernanelson4469

One fortunate lady your wife is. So good to hear how much you value her.

@oscarrocharealtorcaribemx7474

Me da gusto saber que has hecho cosas maravillosas a través de los años, y es un gusto saber que esta canción te inspira para dar lo mejor de ti a tu esposa. Que sigan juntos muchos años más!!!

@oscarrocharealtorcaribemx7474

I'm glad to know that you've done wonderful things over the years, and it's nice to know that this song inspires you to give your best to your wife. May they continue together for many more years!!!

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@andrewh5457

Been married 38 years, and still bring my wife flowers every week.

@munsters2

RE:Andrew H. 1976 weeks x $30 = $59280

@tfinn7

& worth every penny ....try lawyers

@andrzejzyczynski

good for you

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