Break Your Heart
Barenaked Ladies Lyrics


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The bravest thing I've ever done
Was to run away and hide
But not this time, not this time
And the weakest thing I've ever done
Was to stay right by your side
Just like this time, and every time

I couldn't tell you I was happy you were gone
So I lied and said that I missed you when we were apart
I couldn't tell you, so I had to lead you on
But I didn't mean to break your heart

And if I always seem distracted
Like my mind is somewhere else
That's because it's true, yes it's true
It's this stupid pride that makes me feel
Like I have to follow through
Even half-assedly, loving you

Why must I always speak in terms of cowardice?
When I guess I should have just come out and told you right from the start
Oh, why must I always tell you all I want is this?
I guess 'cause I didn't want to break your heart

And you said
What'd you think that I was gonna do
Curl up and die just because of you?
I'm not that weak, you know
What'd you think that I was gonna do
Try to make you love me as much as I love you?
How could you be so low?

You arrogant man
What do you think that I am?
My heart will be fine
Just stop wasting my time

And now I'm over you, I'll be okay
And that I've got what I want
And that's rid of you
Bye
And it's not 'cause I'll be missing you
That makes me fall apart
It's just that I didn't mean to break
No, I didn't mean to break
No, I didn't mean to break




Your heart
Your heart (ooh-ooh)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Barenaked Ladies' song "Break Your Heart" explore the singer's struggles with their own fear and pride in a romantic relationship. In the first verse, the singer reflects on past instances of running away and staying silent in the face of difficult emotions. However, as the song progresses, it becomes clear that the singer is trying to break free of these old patterns and be more honest with their partner. Despite this effort, the singer still finds themselves struggling with fear and pride, which leads to misleading communication and ultimately the breakup of the relationship.


The chorus of the song features a conversation between the singer and their former partner. The partner accuses the singer of arrogance and weakness, while the singer insists that they never intended to hurt them. The song ends with the singer expressing their relief at being free of the relationship, but also acknowledging the pain that they caused.


Line by Line Meaning

The bravest thing I've ever done
I've always been a coward, but at one point, I had the courage to run away and hide


Was to run away and hide
I was too scared to face my problems or confront the person I was with, so I fled to avoid everything


But not this time, not this time
This time, I'm not going to run away, I'll face the situation I'm in.


And the weakest thing I've ever done
On the other hand, the lowest point in my life is when I stayed like a doormat by your side.


Was to stay right by your side
No matter how you treated me, I never had the guts to leave your side.


Just like this time, and every time
Like every other time, I allowed my weakness to take over and stay with you even when it was harming me.


I couldn't tell you I was happy you were gone
I didn't have the heart to tell you that I was feeling so much relieved without you.


So I lied and said that I missed you when we were apart
Instead of being truthful, I just pretended that I've missed you even if I didn't.


I couldn't tell you, so I had to lead you on
I didn't have the courage to tell you the truth, so I led you on and gave you false hope.


But I didn't mean to break your heart
Despite all the lies and pretense, I didn't intend to hurt your emotions.


And if I always seem distracted
I'm usually not present in the moment and always lost in my thoughts.


Like my mind is somewhere else
My mind wanders around aimlessly, never staying focused on one point.


That's because it's true, yes it's true
It's true, and that's why I'm always agitated and preoccupied.


It's this stupid pride that makes me feel
My ridiculous sense of pride always creates the impression of me having to follow through even when it's pointless.


Like I have to follow through
I have a silly perception that it makes me noble to continue loving you even though it's fruitless.


Even half-assedly, loving you
Even when it's not genuine, I still felt the need to act like I loved you.


Why must I always speak in terms of cowardice?
I always use pessimistic phrasing because I'm a perpetual coward.


When I guess I should have just come out and told you right from the start
I should have been honest with you from the beginning instead of lying and misleading you.


Oh, why must I always tell you all I want is this?
I always insist on what I want because I fear to confront and work through our problems.


I guess 'cause I didn't want to break your heart
It's because I cared about you, and I didn't want to crush your sentiments towards me.


What'd you think that I was gonna do
You thought I was weak, and I'd collapse as soon as you left me.


Curl up and die just because of you?
You assumed that I couldn't survive without you, and I was emotionally dependent on you.


I'm not that weak, you know
I'm strong and capable of standing on my feet and thriving without you.


Try to make you love me as much as I love you?
I never attempted to coerce you to love me like I love you, which is pitiful.


How could you be so low?
Your audacity to underestimate me is repulsive.


You arrogant man
You are a self-centered, egocentric individual.


What do you think that I am?
What kind of person do you imagine I am to tolerate all this disrespect?


My heart will be fine
I'll heal from the hurt and disappointment you've caused me.


Just stop wasting my time
Put an end to this cycle of immaturity and waste of both our time.


And now I'm over you, I'll be okay
Now that I've let go of any attachment to you, I can confidently say I'm ready to move on and let go of the past.


And that I've got what I want
I now have what I need in life, and that doesn't include you anymore.


And that's rid of you
I'm glad you're no longer present in my life because you were a burden on me.


Bye
I'm putting things behind me, and it's time to say farewell.


And it's not 'cause I'll be missing you
Contrary to popular belief, I'm not yearning for your presence or missing you much.


That makes me fall apart
It's not because of you that I'm struggling to keep going.


It's just that I didn't mean to break
My intentions weren't to hurt you in any way.


No, I didn't mean to break
I'm genuinely sorry for any harm I may have caused you.


No, I didn't mean to break
I never intended to destroy your emotional well-being.


Your heart
I apologize for any hurt and pain I may have caused you.


Your heart (ooh-ooh)
Your sentiments towards me matter, and I realize my wrongdoing.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Steven Page

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Nova

The bravest thing I've ever done
Was to run away and hide
But not this time, not this time
And the weakest thing I've ever done
Was to stay right by your side
Just like this time, and every time
I couldn't tell you I was happy when you were gone
So I lied and said that I missed you when we were apart
I couldn't tell you, so I had to lead you on
But I didn't mean to break your heart
And if I always seem distracted
Like my minds somewhere else
That's because it's true, yes it's true
It's this stupid pride that makes me feel
Like I have to follow through
Even half-assedly, loving you
Why must I always speak in terms of cowardice?
When I guess I should have just come out and told you right from the start
Why must I always tell you all I want is this?
I guess 'cause I didn't want to break your heart
And you said
What'd you think that I was gonna do,
Curl up and die just because of you?
I'm not that weak, you know
What'd you think that I was gonna do,
Try to make you love me as much as I love you?
How could you be so low?
You arrogant man,
What do you think that I am?
My heart will be fine
Just stop wasting my time
And now I know that you will be okay, and that I got what I want
And that's rid of you
Good bye
And it's not cause I'll be missing you
That makes me fall apart
It's just that I didn't mean to break
No I didn't mean to break
No I didn't mean to break
Your heart



All comments from YouTube:

Nova

The bravest thing I've ever done
Was to run away and hide
But not this time, not this time
And the weakest thing I've ever done
Was to stay right by your side
Just like this time, and every time
I couldn't tell you I was happy when you were gone
So I lied and said that I missed you when we were apart
I couldn't tell you, so I had to lead you on
But I didn't mean to break your heart
And if I always seem distracted
Like my minds somewhere else
That's because it's true, yes it's true
It's this stupid pride that makes me feel
Like I have to follow through
Even half-assedly, loving you
Why must I always speak in terms of cowardice?
When I guess I should have just come out and told you right from the start
Why must I always tell you all I want is this?
I guess 'cause I didn't want to break your heart
And you said
What'd you think that I was gonna do,
Curl up and die just because of you?
I'm not that weak, you know
What'd you think that I was gonna do,
Try to make you love me as much as I love you?
How could you be so low?
You arrogant man,
What do you think that I am?
My heart will be fine
Just stop wasting my time
And now I know that you will be okay, and that I got what I want
And that's rid of you
Good bye
And it's not cause I'll be missing you
That makes me fall apart
It's just that I didn't mean to break
No I didn't mean to break
No I didn't mean to break
Your heart

Dominique Garofalo

Thank you.

Cap’n Cringe

Thank you 🙏🏻 😭

Helen Pain

Thanks

Blurt Reynolds

Not that I can actually sing; but when I’m alone and I sing along to this masterpiece, I always end up in tears

Oopers

this song still gives me chills.

Jill Bretzman

r/asmr

ColieDee Kenzo

This album is excellent! I absolutely love it! I've been listening to it since I was a teen, I'm 31 now. My father would play this album through anytime the stereo was turned on. I miss my Daddy. My kids know every song on this album. 100% Gold.

thewishingwell

Anyone else just love screaming out this song with Steve?

UtlraStar2021

I know I sound like garbage doing it but I still belt it out anyways

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