Ascent of Stan
Ben Folds Lyrics


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Pangs of silence
From the room upstairs
How's the view there?
Do you read what they're saying about you?
That you're no fun
Since the war was won
In fact, you have become all of the things you've always run away from
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can

So where'd the years go?
All the time we had?
Being poor was not such a drag in hindsight
And you wonder why your father was so resigned
Now you don't wonder any more

The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can

Stan: Once you wanted revolution
Stan: Now you're the institution
Stan: How's it feel to be the man?
It's no fun to be the man

And now, watch it all go down

The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
(Stan)
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can

Once you wanted revolution
Now you're the institution
How's it feel to be the man?





It's no fun to be the man

Overall Meaning

The song "Ascent of Stan" by Ben Folds is a commentary on the disillusionment and apathy that can come with success and the passage of time. The lyrics describe a person who has achieved their goals and is now living comfortably, but also feels as though they have lost a sense of purpose or passion. The first verse describes the person hearing "pangs of silence" from the room upstairs, suggesting that they are isolated and disconnected from others. They are also concerned with how they are perceived by others, particularly the "things they've always run away from." These could be negative traits or behaviors that the person had previously avoided, but now sees in themselves.


The chorus introduces the concept of the "ascent of Stan," which is repeated throughout the song. This refers to the person's journey to success and their transformation from a "textbook hippie man" to someone who is now part of the establishment. The line "Get rest while you can" could be interpreted as a warning to the person to appreciate their success while they have it, as it may not last forever.


The second verse reflects on the passage of time and the ways in which the person's perspective has changed. They now view being poor as something that was not so bad, and they no longer wonder why their father was resigned - perhaps because they understand the pressures and difficulties of life better now. The final lines of the song are a direct message to the person, reminding them that they used to be a "revolution" and are now "the institution." The repetition of "It's no fun to be the man" suggests that the person is unhappy with their current situation and may want to rebel or break free from their current role.


Overall, "Ascent of Stan" is a thought-provoking exploration of how success can change a person and leave them feeling unfulfilled or trapped. It is a reminder to appreciate what we have and to remain true to ourselves, even when our circumstances change.


Line by Line Meaning

Pangs of silence
Overwhelming feeling of sadness and solitude


From the room upstairs
Someone close to you is experiencing this feeling


How's the view there?
What's in your mind, what's your perspective?


Do you read what they're saying about you?
Are you aware of the criticism you're receiving?


That you're no fun
That you're lacking joy and excitement


Since the war was won
Since a personal battle was won


In fact, you have become all of the things you've always run away from
In reality, you've become the traits that you actively avoided in the past


The ascent of Stan
The rise of a person named Stan


Textbook hippie man
A stereotypical free-spirited person


Get rest while you can
Take a break, relax and rejuvenate while possible


So where'd the years go?
Reflecting on the passage of time


All the time we had?
Thinking about all the moments in the past


Being poor was not such a drag in hindsight
Looking back, being financially unstable wasn't as difficult as it seemed


And you wonder why your father was so resigned
Questioning the actions and emotions of a parental figure


Now you don't wonder any more
Realizing the answer to the previous question


Stan: Once you wanted revolution
Addressing the rise and change in personality of a person named Stan


Stan: Now you're the institution
Highlighting the current status and role of a person named Stan


Stan: How's it feel to be the man?
Posing a rhetorical question to Stan about his feelings of power and authority


It's no fun to be the man
Acknowledging the downsides of being in a position of power


And now, watch it all go down
Observing the inevitable descent of a powerful figure




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS

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Lyrics

Pangs of silence
From the room upstairs
How's the view there?
Do you read what they're saying about you?
That you're no fun
Since the war was won
In fact, you have become all of the things you've always run away from
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
So where'd the years go?
All the time we had?
Being poor was not such a drag in hindsight
And you wonder why your father was so resigned
Now you don't wonder any more
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
Stan: Once you wanted revolution
Stan: Now you're the institution
Stan: How's it feel to be the man?
It's no fun to be the man
And now, watch it all go down
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
(Stan)
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
Once you wanted revolution
Now you're the institution
How's it feel to be the man?
It's no fun to be the man



All comments from YouTube:

NLP

I just got a really great pair of head phones for the first time in my life and now I’m listening to this on repeat and crying because of all the beautiful audio nuances I never experienced before... the woppy-funk bass line that kicks in at 3:28 is giving my goosebumps goosebumps ✨💟✨

NLP

SRSLY- if you have ear buds or good headphones, crank the bass, close your eyes and wait for it around 3:25- you’ll feel it in the depths of your bones cells!

Hakim AR

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Lyrics

Pangs of silence
From the room upstairs
How's the view there?
Do you read what they're saying about you?
That you're no fun
Since the war was won
In fact, you have become all of the things you've always run away from
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
So where'd the years go?
All the time we had?
Being poor was not such a drag in hindsight
And you wonder why your father was so resigned
Now you don't wonder any more
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
Stan: Once you wanted revolution
Stan: Now you're the institution
Stan: How's it feel to be the man?
It's no fun to be the man
And now, watch it all go down
The ascent of Stan
Textbook hippie man
(Stan)
Textbook hippie man
Get rest while you can
Once you wanted revolution
Now you're the institution
How's it feel to be the man?
It's no fun to be the man

David P

"why your father was... so resigned...

now you don't wonder any...-moooorrreee"

10/10 awesome. What an underrated album this masterpiece is.

Ezra C

This song is so nostalgic. My older brother used to play this on the piano, but I never knew it was a Ben folds song and had never heard the original. Nostalgia is a bittersweet and lonely experience.

James Moriarty

This is perfection condensed and distilled into a song

Eon

Kind of sad to see how few comments this gets, it's still wonderful and I hope a new generation picks this up

Wii Pro Controller

I always thought that Ben Folds was very popular because my parents talked about him all the time. I've picked up their taste and, oh man, this is very underrated. Gonna recommend this to anyone in my generation.

Feather

I hope more people in my generation will find him. One viral tiktok is all it would take...

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