As of fall 2006, Ben Folds has released five solo LPs. His first album, Fear of Pop: Volume 1, an album of spoken word and instrumental compositions, was recorded and released while Ben Folds Five was still together. Since it was an uncharacteristic release, and officially released under the moniker of 'Fear of Pop', it is widely considered that his first "proper" solo album was Rockin' the Suburbs (2001), on which he played all the instruments by himself. A year later, in 2002, he released Ben Folds Live, a collection of live solo recordings. In late 2003, two solo EPs, Speed Graphic and Sunny 16, were released, with a third entitled Super D released in mid-2004. In 2005, Folds released a second studio album called Songs for Silverman. Most recently Folds has released the album "Supersunnyspeedgraphic, the lp" a compliation of his EPs, a The Bens track called "Bruised," "Still" from the motion picture of 2006 "Over the Hedge" for which Folds wrote all the songs, his cover of the Dr. Dre song "Bitches Ain't Shit", and, with the kind permission of his good friend Neil Hannon, a cover of The Divine Comedy song "Songs of Love". "Supersunnyspeedgraphic, the lp" otherwise includes remastered takes from the three internet EPs from 2002-2004. Ben claims that he wanted to have the CD in hard format so he could "put it past him."
Ben resides in Nashville. He often tours the United States, the United Kingdom, other countries in Europe, Japan, and Australia.
Folds' tours are famous for his solo act as "Ben Folds and a piano", often having the audience become involved by "playing" the accompanying instruments (such as the trumpet and saxophone harmonies in "Army") and singing choir-like backing vocals on "Not the Same". His concerts are charismatic, yet calm - an enjoyable experience for most. And although Folds is constantly putting out new songs, his concerts rarely omit classic fan favorites such as "Philosophy," "One Angry Dwarf and 200 Solemn Faces," and "Army." Also, a seemingly fan favorite that started in Chicago, IL was "Rock this Bitch," a song where Folds has to come up an impromptu new tune with the words "Rock this Bitch" in it; though the song seems to be phasing out, it still makes appearances on tours, such as the November 2006 tour and the Spring US College tour of 2007 and 2008.
Folds also produced and arranged the William Shatner album, Has Been (2004); he previously worked with Shatner on the songs "In Love" and "Still in Love" for Fear of Pop.
Folds described his former band, Ben Folds Five, as "punk rock for sissies," and his oddball lyrics often contain nuances of depression, melancholy and self-conflict. Folds also provided a number of songs for film soundtracks. Some of these include "Lonely Christmas Eve" for the Jim Carrey film How the Grinch Stole Christmas! (2000), and a rendition of the Beatles' "Golden Slumbers" for the film I Am Sam (2001). He (as The Bens) has also done charity compilations, from singing "Wicked Little Town" (from film and stage show Hedwig and the Angry Inch) on the benefit album "Wig in a Box" (2003) to appearing on No Boundaries, a benefit album for Kosovo refugees, with the song "Leather Jacket." (written by Darren Jessee)
On a planned tour of Australia, Folds teamed up with solo artists Ben Kweller and Ben Lee to travel the country together as The Bens, at the suggestion of a fan on Ben Kweller's official website. The trio also went on to record a four-track EP together, entitled The Bens.
In summer of 2004, Folds co-headlined an American tour with fellow rockers Rufus Wainwright and Guster. His second solo studio album, entitled Songs for Silverman, was released in the U.S. on April 26, 2005, featuring Jared Reynolds on bass, and Lindsay Jamieson on the drums, thus returning to the trio format, which had been so successful earlier, in earnest. This album includes the track "Late," a tribute to the late singer-songwriter Elliott Smith, and also features backing vocals from "Weird Al" Yankovic on "Time." (Folds had played piano for Yankovic's song "Why Does This Always Happen to Me?" and "Weird Al" directed Folds' music video for Rockin' the Suburbs). In January of 2007 Lindsay Jamieson left the band and was replaced by Sam Smith, of The Comfies on drums.
Folds performed with Rufus Wainwright and Ben Lee in the summer of 2005 as part of the "Odd Men Out" tour. In addition, Folds has performed with many other famous musical names, including Weezer. Folds has also shown the complexity behind his authentic sound by performing with the West Australian Symphony Orchestra, in March 2005, and the Baltimore Symphony Orchestra, in November 2005. A DVD recording of Folds playing with the West Australian Symphony Orchestra was released in December, 2005.
Folds was the first artist to do a "Live at Myspace" concert, held on October 24, 2006 in his recording studio in Nashville, the show was an hour long and had requests from the internet submitted via Myspace's Messenger. It also entailed several stunts, including a suicide attempt, and a falling audience member during "Jesusland". The DVD of the broadcast (almost whole) was released in February of 2007.
Folds supports the independent music scene, creating his own record label (Attacked By Plastic) and doing promotional work for independent record stores across the country.
In 2008, September 16 marked the release of Amanda Palmer's solo album which was produced by Folds. Two days following that release, Ben Folds Five had a one-time reunion concert held in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, the same place the band was formed. Weeks later, he released his third solo album entitled Way To Normal, released on September 30. Folds also recorded a fake album that was leaked intentionally during the summer to please fans and in an attempt to stop the real album from leaking. The fake tracks were recorded and mixed over a period of only several days. The leak contained 6 fake songs with names similar to the real songs or the album, and three songs from the actual release (except the song Cologne, which was an orchestral version of a song by the same name on the final album).
Since December 2008, Folds has been collaborating with English novelist Nick Hornby, writing the music while Hornby writes the lyrics. This album was originally planned to be recorded over a course of 3 days, the same amount of time in which the fake album was recorded, but Folds has since been recording the album in a more standard format, albeit attempting to retain the live recording format. He has also played several songs from the upcoming album at live shows since mid-2009, and the album is slated to be released on September 27th of 2010.
From December 14 through 21, 2009, Folds was featured as a judge on NBC's a cappella competition The Sing Off alongside Nicole Scherzinger and Shawn Stockman and offered insightful, constructive comments and criticisms to the contestants. On the final show, in a departure from his a cappella purism, showcased his talents and played the roaring, riffing piano background on "Why Can't We Be Friends?" sung by the two finalist groups, Tufts Beelzebubs from Tufts University near Boston and Nota, from San Juan, Puerto Rico. He again returned for the show's second season, and has been confirmed to return for the third season in September 2011 alongside Stockman and new judge Sara Bareilles.
Recently Ben Folds was assumed to be the anonymous pianist playing songs to random ChatRoulette users, named "Merton." Although Ben Folds has admitted to NOT being Merton, he paid tribute to the YouTube star at a concert in Charlotte in "Ode To Merton."
Ben Folds recently released his first album since So There, What Matters Most in June of 2023 after a 12 year hiatus.
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Ben Folds Lyrics
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I am a bird
Wearing a brown polyester shirt
You want a Coke?
Maybe some fries?
The roast beef combo's only nine ninety five
But it's okay
You don't have to pay
Everybody knows
It hurts to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it
We're still fighting it
And you're so much like me
I'm sorry
Good morning, son
Twenty years from now
Maybe we'll both sit down
And have a few beers
And I can tell
You 'bout today
And how I picked you up
And everything changed
It was pain
Sunny days and rain
I knew you'd feel the same things
Everybody knows
It sucks to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it
We're still fighting it
You'll try and try
And one day you'll fly
Away from me
(Good morning, son)
(Good morning, son)
(Good morning, son)
(Good morning, son)
Good morning, son
(Good morning, son)
I am a bird
(Good morning, son)
(Good morning, son)
It was pain
Sunny days and rain
I knew you'd feel the same things
Everybody knows
It hurts to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it
We're still fighting it, oh
We're still fighting it
We're still fighting it
And you're so much like me
I'm sorry
The song “Still Fighting It” by Ben Folds is a touching and emotional tribute to the difficult journey of growing up. The song begins with the singer addressing his young son, offering him a Coke and some fries while wearing a brown polyester shirt. The image is mundane and everyday, but it lends a sense of familiarity and comfort to the song. The father acknowledges how hard it is to grow up, and how everyone struggles with it. He considers the passage of time, and how they will someday look back on this moment from the future. He acknowledges the mixture of pain and joy that comes with parenthood - sunny days and rain, happy moments and sad ones.
The chorus repeats the phrase “we’re still fighting it,” and we’re left to infer what exactly that “it” is. It could be the universal struggle of life, the experience of growing up and facing all the trials and tribulations that come with it. Or it could be something more specific, like the particular struggles of the father and son in question. The bridge provides a bit of optimism, encouraging the son to keep going and persevere in his journey. But ultimately, the song ends on a somewhat melancholy note - the father is sorry for how much he is like his son, and the cycle of struggle and hardship continues.
Overall, “Still Fighting It” is a poignant and heartfelt song about the human experience of growing up and the difficulties that come with it. The repetitive nature of the melody and the simple instrumentation add to the sense of comfort and familiarity, while the lyrics are deeply personal and insightful.
Line by Line Meaning
Good morning, son
The song opens with a greeting from a father to his child, establishing a bond between the two.
I am a bird
The father wears a brown polyester shirt and has been likened to a bird, suggesting freedom and carefreeness.
Wearing a brown polyester shirt
This line serves more as a description of the father's appearance than anything else.
You want a Coke?
The father asks his son if he wants a Coke, potentially foreshadowing the idea of offering things to ease or distract from difficult situations.
Maybe some fries?
The father is offering his son more options, potentially trying to be accommodating or indulgent.
The roast beef combo's only nine ninety-five
The father offers his son an affordable meal choice, again trying to be accommodating or helpful in some way.
But it's okay
The father assures his son that he doesn't have to worry about paying for anything.
You don't have to pay
The father reiterates that his son doesn't have to pay for anything, potentially trying to be protective or nurturing.
I've got all the change
The father reinforces the fact that he can take care of paying for the meal, removing any concern or responsibility from his son.
Everybody knows
This line is an observation about the universally acknowledged fact that growing up is difficult.
It hurts to grow up
This line expresses the pain and challenges that come with maturing and becoming more responsible.
And everybody does
The song acknowledges that growing up is a shared experience that all individuals go through.
It's so weird to be back here
The father recognizes the surreal feeling of revisiting places that bring back memories and strong emotions.
Let me tell you what
The father prepares to impart some wisdom or experience to his child.
The years go on and
This line acknowledges the passage of time and how it changes people and their circumstances.
We're still fighting it
The song's titular phrase is repeated, suggesting that despite the difficulties, people are still enduring and persevering.
And you're so much like me
The father sees elements of himself in his child, potentially creating a sense of understanding and empathy.
I'm sorry
The father may feel a sense of guilt or remorse for passing on the challenges of growing up to his son.
Twenty years from now
The song jumps forward in time, suggesting that the events currently being discussed will have implications far into the future.
Maybe we'll both sit down
The father and his son may one day have an opportunity to reflect on the past and present together.
And have a few beers
The father and son may bond over a shared love of alcohol or simply enjoy each other's company in a relaxed setting.
And I can tell
The father takes on a more reflective role, sharing his experiences and insights with his child.
You 'bout today
The father will tell his son about the day in question - perhaps an emotional turning point in their relationship.
And how I picked you up
The father recalls a specific moment in which he showed caretaking for his son.
And everything changed
This line suggests that the events of the day in question had a profound and lasting impact on the father's and son's lives.
It was pain
The experience that the father is referencing was not entirely positive, as it involved emotional or psychological pain.
Sunny days and rain
This line acknowledges that life can be both beautiful and difficult.
I knew you'd feel the same things
The father had a sense that his son would one day share in his experiences, either through empathy or firsthand exposure.
You'll try and try
The father predicts that his son will encounter numerous challenges over the course of his life.
And one day you'll fly
Despite the difficulties, the father sees potential in his son to succeed and flourish.
Away from me
The father perhaps acknowledges that his son will need to separate from him in order to find his own path or achieve independence.
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Written by: Ben Folds
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