How It Should Be
Ben Kweller Lyrics


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When I was a movie star
An asteroid had hit the earth
And prematurely ended my career
I thought out loud
But no one heard me saying:

"Nothing isn't nothing
Nothing's something that's important to me
That's right
And everyone's a little nothing
That's okay, that's how it should be"

That's right
That's right
Sha sha sha doo

When I was an astronaut
I bought a fancy charm
I thought you'd like it
But you called it cheap
And at my feet it fell like

"So sue me it's up to me
If I decide to be what I think is right
And don't bother me when
I'm watching Planet of the Apes on TV"

That's right
That's how it should be
Sha sha sha doo

"So sue me it's up to me
If I decide to be what I think is right
The sound it found the ground
And it hid it for free"

That's right




That's how it should be
Sha sha sha doo

Overall Meaning

In Ben Kweller's song "How It Should Be," the lyrics intertwine fanciful daydreams with ordinary experiences of disappointment and frustration. The first verse begins with the singer imagining themselves as a movie star, only to have their career cut short by an asteroid's impact on Earth. The following lines express the feeling of being unheard, despite attempting to share their thoughts aloud. However, instead of wallowing in self-pity, the singer makes a statement about the importance of "nothing" and how everyone is a little bit of nothing, giving them some sense of comfort in their circumstances.


The second verse switches gears, and now the singer fancies themself an astronaut who buys a fancy charm but is met with ridicule by a loved one. Again, the singer asserts their right to do what they think is right and be themselves without the pressure of conforming to someone else's standards. The last lines bring the song full circle, repeating the refrain of "That's right, that's how it should be," suggesting that the singer has found some semblance of acceptance and contentment in their circumstances.


In the song, Ben Kweller is advocating for self-acceptance and the pursuit of personal happiness without worrying about others' judgments. The song's overall message is that it is okay to be an ordinary "nothing" as long as it brings joy and fulfillment into one's life. The expressive and playful lyrics make this song an uplifting anthem for individuality.


Line by Line Meaning

When I was a movie star
In the past, when I had a successful career as an actor or performer.


An asteroid had hit the earth
A catastrophic event happened that ruined everything.


And prematurely ended my career
The unexpected disaster resulted in my career coming to an abrupt end.


I thought out loud
I spoke my mind.


But no one heard me saying:
Nobody paid attention to me.


"Nothing isn't nothing
Having no purpose or value is still important.


Nothing's something that's important to me
Even the seemingly insignificant things have meaning to me.


That's right
My beliefs and values are correct.


And everyone's a little nothing
All people are insignificant in some way.


That's okay, that's how it should be"
It's acceptable for people to be small because that's part of life.


When I was an astronaut
At another point in the past, I dreamed of being an astronaut.


I bought a fancy charm
I purchased an item that I thought was nice or valuable.


I thought you'd like it
I believed someone else would appreciate or admire what I had purchased.


But you called it cheap
To my disappointment, the item was judged as low quality.


And at my feet it fell like
The object that I valued was suddenly unimportant.


"So sue me it's up to me
I am responsible for my own decisions.


If I decide to be what I think is right
I determine what is best for myself.


And don't bother me when
Leave me alone while I am doing something that I enjoy.


I'm watching Planet of the Apes on TV"
Right now, I am occupied with watching a movie.


The sound it found the ground
The noise or impact made its way to the floor.


And it hid it for free"
It disappeared without cost.


Sha sha sha doo
A meaningless phrase, possibly used for emphasis or rhythm.




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