How Long Has This Been Going On?
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As a tot, when I trotted in little velvet panties,
I was kissed by my sisters, my cousins, and my aunties.
Sad to tell, it was hell, an inferno worse than Dante's.

So my dear I swore,
"Never, never more !"
On my list, I insisted that kissing must be crossed out.
Now, I find I was blind, and oh my! How I lost out!

I could cry salty tears,
Where have I been all these years?
Little wow, tell me now:
How long has this been going on?

There were chills up my spine,
And some thrills I can't define.
Listen, sweet, I repeat:
How long has this been going on?

Oh, I feel that I could melt,
Into Heaven I'm hurled!
I know how Columbus felt,
Finding another world.

Kiss me once, then once more.
What a dunce I was before.
What a break! For Heaven's sake!
How long has this been going on?

Dear, when in your arms I creep,
That divine rendezvous,
Don't wake me, if I'm asleep,
Let me dream that it's true!

Kiss me twice, then once more.
That makes thrice, let's make it four!
What a break! For Heaven's sake!




How long has this been going on?
How long has this, been going on?

Overall Meaning

This song is about a person who has been avoiding romantic relationships, including kissing, because of past negative experiences. The lyrics recount how, as a child, the person was forced to endure unwanted kisses from various family members, leading to a deep aversion to physical touch. However, as an adult, the person realizes they have been missing out on something wonderful and begins to long for the intimacy of a kiss. The song expresses the joy and excitement of this newfound desire and the hope that it can be fulfilled.


The lyrics are full of metaphors that convey the intensity of the person's feelings. References to Dante's inferno and Columbus's discoveries speak to the transformative power of love, suggesting that the experience of kissing someone could be both exhilarating and terrifying. The repeated question of "How long has this been going on?" expresses the shock of discovering something new and unexpected after years of avoiding it, and the longing for more of that feeling.


Line by Line Meaning

As a tot, when I trotted in little velvet panties,
As a child, when I ran around in fancy clothes,


I was kissed by my sisters, my cousins, and my aunties.
My family members would all dote on me with affection.


Sad to tell, it was hell, an inferno worse than Dante's.
Unfortunately, this attention felt overwhelming and uncomfortable, like a fiery punishment from the depths of Hell itself.


So my dear I swore,
As a result, I made a vow,


"Never, never more !"
"Never again will I let myself receive such unwanted affection!"


On my list, I insisted that kissing must be crossed out.
I even made a list of what I would avoid, and kissing was at the top.


Now, I find I was blind, and oh my! How I lost out!
But now, looking back, I realize how foolish I was to reject such a wonderful expression of love and how much I have missed out on.


I could cry salty tears,
This realization fills me with great emotion,


Where have I been all these years?
I can't believe I have gone so long without truly experiencing this affection.


Little wow, tell me now:
I am in awe of this feeling, won't you explain it to me?


How long has this been going on?
How long has this amazing feeling been around without me noticing?


There were chills up my spine,
The feeling of affection is so powerful,


And some thrills I can't define.
I can't fully grasp the intensity of it all.


Listen, sweet, I repeat:
I want to share this with you, my dear,


How long has this been going on?
I still can't believe I have gone so long without feeling this way.


Oh, I feel that I could melt,
This feeling is so overwhelming,


Into Heaven I'm hurled!
It's like being transported straight to paradise!


I know how Columbus felt,
I feel like a great explorer who has just discovered something incredible,


Finding another world.
Like I have discovered a whole new world of emotions.


Kiss me once, then once more.
I want to experience this affection again and again,


What a dunce I was before.
I can't believe I used to reject this feeling as a foolish child.


What a break! For Heaven's sake!
What a wonderful turn of events! It's like a miracle from above!


How long has this been going on?
I am still in disbelief that I have gone so long without noticing this amazing feeling.


Dear, when in your arms I creep,
When I am embraced by you, my dear,


That divine rendezvous,
It feels like a meeting of heaven and earth,


Don't wake me, if I'm asleep,
Please don't disturb me, even if I am dreaming,


Let me dream that it's true!
I want to hold onto this feeling for as long as possible, even in my sleep!


Kiss me twice, then once more.
I want to experience this affection again and again, in a never-ending cycle,


That makes thrice, let's make it four!
I want to keep this feeling going for as long as possible, four times just isn't enough!


How long has this been going on?
I am still astounded that I let myself go so long without experiencing this wonderful affection.


How long has this, been going on?
How long has this amazing feeling been happening, without me being a part of it?




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: GEORGE GERSHWIN, IRA GERSHWIN

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Clyde Lamont

Ben is Master of the smooth. For real! His sultry hooks and his cool phrasing take me on the Jazz Journey that I seek. Everyone from the era sought him out to play with them. He is definitely in a class of his own. He wasn't shucking and jiving.

Marta Rodriguez

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Stantawn Kendrick

no one should even think about or imagine even accidentally hitting the dislike button

Julie Holtzman

oh, that SOUND.......!

ghairraigh

+Julie Holtzman
Hi, Julie!
- Malcolm MacDonald.

Reef "The Watcher"

"Frog" "The Brute" I love his record with art tatum!

George Prosser

How long Has This Been Going On ? Ben Webster t.s. Kenny Drew p.

Anouman

what year?

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